Hi, and thanks for stopping by! If you’re into deep structure, daily rituals, and power exchange that feels as much about care as control, you’ll probably get where I’m coming from.
What I’m into:
- TPE (Total Power Exchange) and building routines that bring security, focus, and a bit of excitement to daily life
- DDLG and ABDL, especially the dynamic side. care, discipline, playful regression, or fully giving up control (Eventually I would want 24/7 diapers)
- , (always with aftercare and trust), impact play, posture training, latex, chastity/denial, anal, device/digital control (using tech as a tool in the dynamic)
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Pet play whether it’s obedience games or playful chaos
Limits/Not For Me:
play (marks are fine but actual is not)
Hardcore *** (firmness is great, but real wellbeing comes first)
Medical play
The connection I want:
I’m not listing every fantasy because half the fun is growing together and making the dynamic your own. I’m looking for someone who sees value in mixing genuine friendship, rules, daily structure, and real conversation with kink and power, and who gets as much out of voice notes, selfies, and honest check-ins as in-person play.
A bit of vanilla me:
Football, gaming (especially RPGs and a bit of everything), electronic/trance music, music festivals, and always learning something new. lately lots of Python and psychology books.
You might be a match if you: - Are single, and over 20
- Are UK/Europe, for practical reasons
- Enjoy routines, honest communication, and structure that’s as much nurturing as it is strict
- Love chatting about your day, a scene, or just what’s on your mind
- Like exploring ABDL and DDLG, whether that’s rules, rituals, or play
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Know what your limits are, but also what you’re curious about
If you message, tell me: - Your best cheesy/flirty opener (kinky is totally fine)
- A short intro (name or nickname, age, location/ timezone)
- What made you reach out (a kink, dynamic, or just an overall vibe?)
- Something vanilla about you (music, football, fav game, festival stories…)
- Which ABDL/DDLG aspects are a draw for you
- Your limits/kinks/curiosities
- Include your favourite fruit so I know you read all this
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What would make us a great dynamic or match
I think when structure and care meet kink, the right connection can make every day a little bit special. If you’re nodding along, maybe we should talk?
