Some of you may recognize me. I'm on a bunch of fetish sites and I am searching for my Dom:

Searching for an unmarried Dominant male between the ages of 45-56 who is powerful, authoritative, patient, and compassionate. The Dom for me will use me, keep me in my place, and know how to care for a submissive. I am looking for a D/s dynamic relationship.

I am a caring authentic devoted submissive who is unmarried with no children.
Financial and emotional stability are important as I would like to serve completely and fulfill his needs domestically and physically.

I am a strong emotionally resilient female but am extremely empathetic and sensitive and crave touch and affection.

I am described as kinky, cute, better looking in person, very friendly, very easy to talk to, high maintenance, non-judgemental, creative, problem solver

A switch is not a DOM

My pictures are raw and untouched and show my flaws so there are no surprise.

Sex is very important to me so I cannot handle male equipment issues.

Please do not contact me if your only intention is to play.

My purpose is to please
I am very sexual
I need you to reign over me

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Kinky Date44 to 57 years ● 50km around USA, Needham Heights 9 months ago

As someone who has been in the Community since they where 21.
I have been on this learning and passion to understand how to be a great leader. Am I perfect? The answer is no I make mistakes and still today try to be humble enough to grow as a Dominate. As now I grow I have not mastered one single path alone but have much experience to look upon as a whole. I first began as a submissive to understand both sides of a coin one must study both sides of the lifestyle. In my own opinion it has made me a better Dominate. I am Heterosexual after being sexually d at a young age it has totally turned me off of socializing. I was sexually active up to that point and it took 5 years of being lead by some one with great values to teach me how to be trusting again. I Just came out and told my family less then a few years ago about my sexual after hiding it for almost 40 years. So I must get to know someone is the first step into what I am looking for. I am a Dominate not a person that will pay to play or give you . The community today is so lost in values its very Insulting. It is one thing If I want to do something nice for you. This attitude of pay me ore else is far from the true Values of why we are here. There is no greater disrespect then subbing from the bottom up. Discipline and respect should be what you truly seek as a submissive. The moment you lose these by being judgmental shallow and picky. Are you putting you best foot forward? Your to old for me or I have to be attracted to that person. I have heard it all but then they find that Finance Sugar daddy or momma but they lack the skills to be a Master/Dominate or they get hurt d and neglected. Truth is you should be careful there are a lot of pretenders calling them self Dominate or Mistress. I have a nice 12 inch thick strap on I love to use in multiple ways Filling Your holes prefer to use it leaving my hot cum for your face or body.....sound fun message me No MTF or Males Married is fine but I work alone Drop her off for the weekend and they must not interfere in Relationship or Dynamic. and Polly is ok, Females only. Relationship Dynamic . Impact Play, Orgasm Controle and Deny, Bondage, Ropes and d Orgasms, Masks, Nipple Pussy and Anal Thys Back and hand and feet Kneeling, Domestic Dutys mild/strong/Hardcore depending on your tolerance for . punishments may include Chasity Bet Anal Plugs and training Couch Time Corner Time Grounding of Favored Things. Kneeling based on tolerances punishment are based on the offences and fit the Brats Be Warned.

Hard Limits: play (everything to do with it), body hair (Dislike), breath play (everything to do with it), cutting (everything to do with it), gangbangs (everything to do with it), needle play (everything to do with it), pubic hair (Dislike),, strap-ons (Not on me), toilet (everything to do with it), toilet slave (everything to do with it), Uncontrolled (everything to do with it), waterbondage (everything to do with it), watersports (everything to do with it)
Rave Dm me in chat lets get to know one another.

Kinky Date18 to 50 years USA, Little Rock 5 months ago

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