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I am looking for a asain daddy dom irl I am not into online doming and no I will not submit and send nudes a real Dom doesn't behave like a jackass. Must be between 25-32 must have real life experience and not into games. Hard limits include sadism,masochism,***,and golden and brown showers also no poly Dom's I am not into sharing my potential daddy or being shared (if you are not asain and can't pic and cam to verify then don't bother)

Meeting is on hold until they have a vaccine for Covid-19, although I am willing to msg and chat on the phone until then.

I have 36 years of experience, almost 15 of those (so far) in a 24/7 TPE marriage.

I am not now and never have been a Pro. Those who use pros have the wrong skill set to serve me.

We are now looking for houseboy or maid. I am uninterested in forcing crossdressing, though am fine with and enjoy you crossdressing and feminizing yourself. I am open to once a week to bimonthly. If you fit in well, we could discuss more. There is the possibility of light play- mostly CBT and/or spanking, scratching and flogging. We can discuss other forms of play. What I will NOT do with you is anal penetration strap-on, or bring you to orgasm. I will not watch you bring yourself to orgasm.

I am am realizing I am in the mood for a masochist. If I find one who fits my desires I may be up for dinner (including my sub hub. NOTHING is done behind his back) once Covid-19 is quiet! LOCAL ONLY! NO EXCEPTIONS! Local means within an hour of Long Beach CA. I am uninterested in travelers. Photos will be taken of all play times. You may wear a mask and cover any identifying marks, scars or tattoos.

While I am willing to exchange mails with people and be friends, you won't get me to slide into cyber domination of you. I live with the real thing. What would I get out of online?

Now that I am married, I am sexually monogamous. My husband, Beach's toyboy is my collared sub; providing for all my sexual needs and most of my BDSM needs.

Intelligent, creative and a touch sadistic. I first started showing dominant sexual behavior at 17, when I talked a boyfriend into cross dressing. I only realized that the things I did (bondage, hair pulling, biting, tease and deny, spanking, manipulation, queening, cross dressing and CBT) were part of a "lifestyle." in 2000.

I'm a strong believer in SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) play, but also respect RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) if the people are truly aware of the risks involved. We used to be active in the So Cal scene and went to munches, dungeons and events. We haven't been to a munch in five years and we are out of touch with the local scene.

Physically, I'm 5'6", a SSBBW (a large woman), with light brown long straight hair and hazel eyes. I was born in late March- typical Aries, and have a maternal streak, as well as being sadistic. I love whispering sweet nothings in my subs ear while I hurt them, or cuddling and soothing them after a long session. The maternal streak also means I feel very protective of my subs, and protective of subs in general.

My favorite forms of play:
-CBT I am all about enjoying a penis in my own, special way!
-/Sadism/masochism - I'm a bit of a sadist and loooove the screams a sub makes when taking consensual for me.
-clothespins -I seem to have a slight fetish on that front..
-flogging/whipping/caning
-spanking/paddling
-tease and deny
-being pampered by my sub - including washing my hair, waiting on me, opening and holding doors, making me tea, cooking, cleaning, laundry and such.
-photographing my sub at "play"

MY hard limits:
-illegal /alcohol by either party in session - I want all of my and my sub's senses functioning normally. I don't want something masking a problem.
-gags - I have allergies, and am made uncomfortable by the thought of restricted breathing
-bathroom functions - just flat out ewww.
- - small amounts like from a play piercing is ok, but in any larger quantity, it belongs INSIDE the body.
-anything that might cause a medical emergency- such as asphyxiaphilia or edge play. I have no desire to try explaining how something ended up there to a doctor or paramedic.
-illegal acts.

My secondary interests are hair worship (stroke my hair correctly, I'm a happy Woman), having errands run & chores done, having custom toys made, chastity, watching cross dressing, sensation play, sensory deprivation and more. I also have a visual media fetish and enjoy photographing BDSM play and California landscapes

Vanilla likes: reading, collecting signed first edition books, Sims3, Spore, ocean stuff, movies, chatting, theater, museums, good conversations, dining out, crochet, friends, aquariums, cats

i wanna meet someone who doesnt mind masochism but is also into caring for me after activities.

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I am a highly experienced submissive male looking for a talented, creative and assertive hardcore Dominatrix for real time meetings. I need to find a Dominatrix who is very seasoned and has an excellent scholarship in the beauty of female domination and Sado Masochism.

I am looking for a FWB-to help me develop a growing interest in S&M-
particularly, for my part, in Masochism. I have sampled some of the joys of Masochism and want to explore further, and yes, I do have some equipment and am happy to get more. For your part all I am asking is that you help me explore this Masochistic side of my personality. Anything else you want just ask, as long as it is based on an ongoing friendship

if you feel you can handle being a sub/slave for me you need to be aware of my kinks.
nto: anal sex (giving), ass play (giving), biting (giving), blindfolds (giving), bondage (giving), breast/nipple play (giving), breath play (giving), caging/confinement (giving), candle wax (giving), chains (giving), chastity devices (everything to do with it), collar and lead/leash (giving), dildos (giving), discipline (giving), erotic photography (giving), fisting (giving), hair pulling (giving), handcuffs (giving), high heels (watching), (giving), latex (giving), leather (watching others wear), lingerie (everything to do with it), making home movies (giving), masks (watching others wear), masochism (giving), master/slave (giving), masturbation (everything to do with it), mutual masturbation (everything to do with it), nipples (giving), oral sex (everything to do with it), (giving), piercings (giving), rubber (watching others wear), sadism (everything to do with it), sensory deprivation (giving), sex in public (everything to do with it), spanking (giving), talking dirty (everything to do with it), toys (everything to do with it), vibrators (giving), whips (giving).

Looking to explore my kinky side!
I am a straight switch, don't mind being the dom or sub.
Never been in a BDSM relationship before.
Main things I'm into:

• Bondage
• Sadism
• Masochism
• Pegging
• Latex

I am an experienced sub and would like to form friendships and D/s friendships with kinksters in Essex and London.
I have an interest in real time play with dominas with cruel fantasies. I enjoy slavery and masochism scenarios and would like to expand my exposure to ***.
Im respectful and safe. People and personality interest me more than anything.

Love sucking cock and snowballing if I don't swallow. Love rimming a clean hairy arse . Love having my balls stretched, and squeezed - a bit of a masochism is great. Not into big bellies, frilly undies or fishnets - I like my man to be a man.
Can't fathom how to change my profile date of birth but I am 78.