Eye Fetish

For kinky eye fetishists

How do I involve eye contact in a BDSM scene?

For kinky eye fetishists

When you ask a roomful of people what their favourite of their own features are, chances are that a sizeable proportion of them will say their eyes - and plenty of people also cite eyes as their favourite of their partner's features. They're a huge part of how humans perceive faces, and we do a massive amount of communication with their eyes. This means that they hold a significance in terms of a kink dynamic, too. Some dominant partners will ask their submissives to hold eye contact throughout a scene, or to specifically avoid making eye contact as a way of heightening the feel of the dynamic.

Is it normal to have an eye fetish?

If you are enjoying your love of eyes and eyeballs and it’s fun then it’s perfectly fine and normal. If you are worried about it then speak to a medical professional.

How do I involve eye contact in a BDSM scene?

Eyes are the windows to the soul and eye contact can be really sexy. You don't need to have an eye fetish to appreciate them! Demanding your sub keeps eye contact is a fun way to play with control, though clearly, that can only be done if you’re in their line of sight! You could use a mirror if you want to be behind your sub and still keep eye contact going. You can also deny eye contact, make the sub look down and avoid looking into your eyes, this denial of visual stimulation can be hot too!

I love eyes, do I have an eye fetish?

It could be, if you love the eyes more than any other feature on a person’s body or they turn you on more than the person as a whole. But if you just like a certain shade of eye colour or a certain eye shape then it’s simply a preference.

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There are a few ways that a person's hair can interact with various kinks and fetishes. People are often drawn to bright peroxide blonde hair, for example, while a lot of people find redheads instinctively attractive. Submissives into femdoms might look out for dark, glossy brunettes, while unnatural dyed colours can be appealing in age play or cg/l circles. Then there's hairstyle: pigtails, shaved heads and more unusual cuts have all been involved in a variety of fetishes before now! The most important thing of all, of course, is not to let your partner pressure you into changing your appearance in ways you're not happy with. If the thought of having them pick a hairstyle or dye colour for you fits in with how you want to do BDSM, then that's great - but if not, don't feel you need to change yourself just to please them.

Get a kick out of feet?

Foot fetishes are actually very common, and are amongst the most frequently mentioned fetishes in popular media. The feet are a body part sometimes associated with smell and unattractiveness, which gets some people's taboo centres working. They're also erogenous zones for many, particularly as most people aren't that used to having them touched. Boots, heels and other footwear are precisely the kind of sexualised accessories so many people fall for, meaning that the feet inside them can also end up as the object of someone's desire. There are tonnes of feet videos and feet pictures online for those who can't get enough of pretty feet. If you have a foot fetish, you might find that you're especially drawn to a certain kind of foot: large feet, small feet, ones in see-through shoes or bare feet.