I am lesbian switch and into MDlg /DDlg / ABDL. I have my little history and I have my mama history. But hey!!! I’m looking for my own little princess (a cis woman) who enjoys diapers and is looking for gentle care, closeness, and a safe feeling. I’d preferably like you to be younger than me, but location isn’t really that important. I have my little side too but I am so much more mommy now that you cannot tell. So I am femme lesbian 38-year-old mommy from South Karelia, Finland. I’d love to find a little who enjoys being exactly who she is and being spoiled and cared for. It’s important to me to make sure my little one is okay and feels safe, loved, and cared for. I still really like diapers. These days, though, I might actually enjoy changing them more than wearing them myself. Taking care of someone and spoiling her is the most important part for me. There’s always ice cream in my freezer. I love making pancakes, and sometimes I like to play around with food a little — using cookie cutters to turn pancakes and breakfast sandwiches into cute, fun, and easy-to-eat treats. Someone once told me that I can do everything. Well… that’s not quite true. There are plenty of things I don’t know how to do, and I need help sometimes too. But someone else once told me that I’m almost a perfect mommy. I definitely wouldn’t describe myself that way, but it’s really lovely to hear things like that. Maybe we don’t always see our own good qualities in the same way other people do. I’m definitely not perfect, and I hope I’m not giving you unrealistic expectations about what I’m like with this message. I’m quite social and I enjoy doing all kinds of things, but at the same time, I definitely know how to be lazy and simply enjoy doing nothing. So… you’ll just have to figure me out. It took me too long time to refresh my profile and it was this easy?

Will write more later... FYI: Don't take my read receipts too seriously. I hate unread notifications, so I open messages just to clear them and come back to actually read when I have a moment.

Hello! Here, a very kinky and experimental woman looking for another similar woman. By nature, I am very humorous and outspoken. If you don't ghost or bark at other people's kinks or fetishes, you can contact me 💗

I am little looking for a Daddy or a Mommy (LTR only). I dont mind long distance but I would prefere someone from Europe. I am age regressor still figuring things out. Other wise I am a student stuggling with school work trying to get my degree someday

Nice to meet you! I'm from Germany but am currently living in Finland (and I'm probably here to stay). Unfortunately, my Finnish is still very bad so I can only communicate in English, German or basic French & Finnish For now, I'm only here to find a mentor or friends and to network a bit. [Write 'Mistbiene' in first message to me pls] I am completely inexperienced but I have to admit to eying BDSM for a long time as a few of my natural tendencies reared their head when I was still pretty young. If we become friends I might be interested in pursuing a relationship with someone from here too, but due to my demisexuality, a lot of patience is required if that is your end goal in chatting with me! **Desires and Fantasies** My fantasies include wrestling my man into submission, and then taking what I want. Pegging, riding, and facesitting as examples. In my fantasies, we usually struggle for dominance and I usually win, but as long as the fight is fair I'd submit as well, so I guess I am a switch leaning towards dominant. Shaving is also a kink for me. I'd love to shave my partner's body and facial hair, if possible with a shaving knife, the trust necessary is what intrigues me here I think.

Hey. I am looking long term pet to own and take care of. I need pet who can do 24/7 dynamic with sexual and non sexual things. I am open for everything and i don't care about your gender. You can be male, famale, trans or sissy, everyone is welcome. You can come chat me if you are need of mommy or friend. Come ask me anything you want, i try to answer you the best way i can. Please don't text me if you are only wanting to get permission to cum, you will be ignored. I am not doing anything sexual at the start, i am here to find something real, not just some horny male. Not anyone too old, every 50+ man can get off. Thanks. My kinks are petplay, praising, mdlb, mdlg, spanking, anal, cum control, edge play, denial, chastity, 24/7, full life control and pegging. If you need mommy, who can give you rules and love, text me. Don't use my time if you aren't really interested.

Nelli Littlescaptre: I’m a soft mannered Little brat-monarch who loves attention, affection and psychological dynamics. My energy shifts between chaotic little mayhem and soft caring calm control. I enjoy connections where mutual trust, care, service and attentiveness happen naturally. As a Little, I’m playful, clingy and rebellious - Small Ruler. As an Owner and Soft Domme, I enjoy petplay, giving praise and making rituals. I like to have the power when you genuinely enjoy pleasing and supporting me. I value emotional intelligence, your own initiative and people who notice the small things - as I do that almost automaticly too. I'm Pan / Demi / Ace, so I'm the pandemic you can't run? I divide and conquer, with holding the leash of my loyal toykitten: Idorable ♡ Nelli Pikkuvaltikka: Pikkuinen ja pehmeä brat-hallitsija, joka rakastaa huomiota, hellyyttä ja psykologisia dynamiikkoja. Energiani vaihtelee kaoottisen Pikkuis-mayhemin ja pehmeän, huolehtivaisen kontrollin välillä. Nautin ihmiskontakteista, joissa keskinäinen luottamus, huolenpito, palvelukset ja tarkkaavainen huomiokyky syntyvät luonnollisesti. Pikkuisena olen leikkisä, takertuva ja kapinallinen - pieni Hallitsija. Omistajana ja Soft Dommena nautin mm. petplaystä, kehumisesta ja rituaalien luomisesta. Pidän siitä, että valta on minulla silloin kun toinen on aidosti minua varten läsnä ja nauttii miellyttämisestä. Arvostan emotionaalista älykkyyttä, oma-aloitteisuutta ja ihmisiä, jotka huomaavat myös pienet yksityiskohdat, sillä itselläni se taito on lähes sisäsyntyistä. Olen Pan / Demi / Ace - pandemia, jota et pääse pakoon? Hajotan ja hallitsen valtakuntaani, pitäen uskollisen lelukisun: Idorable ♡ hihnaa käsissäni.

Hey there cuties. Here Is little bit of information about me: I am 18 years old dominant famale. I am pet handler/mommy. I have one cat and i love ***s. I write poems, dance and sing. I love listening all types of music and true crime. I love late walks and gym. I am very caring person, but i love to have all control. I am very calm and i love peacefull times, but i also love to do things that i haven't done before. I am very honest person, and I will keep your secrets. Well i think that i enough from me, let's find out what i am looking: I am looking long term submissive, who is ready to try new things and want to make our dynamic special. I would hope my sub to be a pet or a little (kitten, puppy, bunny, little girl, little boy or just a little one). My sub can be all new in this scene or someone who have been into this all for a long time. I accept everyone and everything (even your bratty side), but i won't tolerate any kind of real disrespect. I am only looking for long term submissive who is ready to give me full life control. So don't text me if you want only one times and aren't 100% serious or are horny and want to cum. Thank you for reading this all.

Happily in a relationship. Open to chat/meet other kinksters as friends only.

Prey-predator kink 🤩 Haluan tulla jahdatuksi, taistella vastaan jos saat kiinni ja sitten otetuksi todella kovaa. Ihana ois löytää joku jonka kanssa kokeilla.

(new profile since the other one is not working well) Treat me as a princess🙏💕I would describe myself as an ambivert and curious person. One thing what I am is non judgemental. I also am quite sensitive but know when to stand my ground. More about me if you dm.🎀I’m really curious about having a real dom. Someone willing to meet even (maybe). If you don’t communicate with me on the regular then i’m not interested. I need a real connection.

First of all: I'm looking for a serious, committed relationship (tositarkoituksella). I'm too old for just casual affairs; I want to love and bed someone I know well and who knows me. So, if you're here for just casual hookups, I'm not what you want. Finland-based guys interested in RL dates only, please; I have no time or energy for mere chat partners (foreigners trying to chat me up anyway will just be blocked). Likewise, if your profile says nothing about what you are like as a person (beyond kink), how can you expect a person looking for real relationships to be interested in you, when there's nothing there--no clues telling us whether we might be compatible or not? Tell us who you are; women are attracted to people's personalities above all else. BDSM, for me, is strictly roleplay only. I'm about 80%-90% bottom (pleasure sub, pleasure dom, prey, feisty damsel in distress), and interested in kind and caring people who are service tops/pleasure doms/caregivers; soft doms are great, too. Personality-wise, I'm not looking for full-on dominant sadists, just people who can play that role well in the bedroom, if you catch my drift. Just as I'm not at all submissive (or dominant) IRL, but can play that part to the hilt in the bedroom. Our dark side stays there. Outside of it, I will respect you and treat you as my equal, and expect you to do the same for me. You earn my adoration through trust and caring, and that can only be achieved through an absolute respect of my limits, just as I respect yours. This is non-negotiable; I will not violate your limits no matter how much they may frustrate me, and expect you to do the same for me. If you're looking for someone to subjugate 24/7, look elsewhere; there are plenty of such people about. I'm a total and utter Romantic in the original sense of the word. So, if you know what that entails, you will get what I'm about--that's a world of kinks right there. Consequently, I like roleplay in that sort of vein--my no. 1 kink is that of a charming, elegant villain ravishing the feisty heroine. I'd describe myself as more of a bottom than a full-on sub--but I do like games where said charming villain ****s* me to submit to his nefarious desires. 😈 I'm unusual in that I'm more about building up and healing the sub, rather than degrading and destroying them; I love it when the dom digs out the sub's inner slut (or faggot) and seduces them to the dark side, and then celebrates that. "Let me go!" Ms. Heroine cries, writhing in her ropes in vain as Mr. Villain presses against her naked back, cupping her pussy in his gloved hand. He just smirks and lifts out his fingers--glistening from her arousal. "Why is your pussy so wet?" he laughs and licks his fingers. "Could it be you've fantasised about me all along? Well, don't you worry, my dear..." he leans in to murmur in her ear, tapping his whip against her thigh, "tonight, I'm going to make you into my very own whore." That sort of thing. So, it's a very sex-positive approach, albeit wrapped in dark trappings (this may all sound very wholesome, but trust me: within certain roleplay scenarios, I can get *very* fucked up). I once had a BF describe my domination style as like a martial arts master or a guru. In that I put my disciple through hell to make them the best they can be, the most beautiful they can be, and will be there to catch them on the other side. I enjoy that when submitting, too; I like to be thrashed and praised, and be made into my master's precious jewel of perversity. And vice versa. I also have chronic ***, so being thwacked with floggers, paddles, hands, etc. helps a lot--it's like acupuncture to me; I much prefer that kind of *** to the chronic sort! BDSM can be very spiritual, I find; I'd love to find others who get that whole intersection of sex and the sacred. I'm especially interested in finding other Pagans and nondualist Tantric yogis, but this is not mandatory. Unlike a lot of subs, I am not emotionally fragile nor do I have large, unmet emotional needs. I am mentally healthy, have been through therapy and have a strong mind; you will not get clingy despair or drama from me. I also expect the same kind of emotional maturity from you; mentally adolescent boys needn't bother. I'm a grown woman. Thus, I want a grown man at ease with himself, who's found his true strength within himself and needs no empty macho bullshit to cover up his insecurities. And now, for the turn-ons: -That aforementioned "villain ravishes heroine" roleplay. -Being chased and captured and struggling against my captor, only to be finally subdued by him. I'm a *big* agonophile. -I'm a decent actor, and can make a very convincing screaming, struggling victim--or a strict Mistress. Don't get scared; I really am just acting! -Being held down or pinned against walls, the man letting me feel his weight and power. Health reasons make most bondage impractical for me, though, so restrain me with your body, baby! -Spanking, but especially pussy spanking (the latter is an art few know how to do right, but I am happy to teach you...) Impact play in general, just not with *really* thick/heavy implements. -Anal sex. I can usually only come that way with a man (and Venus knows I've tried--due to various medical reasons, I can only have vaginal orgasms with toys). So, if you don't want to bum me, forget about bedding me. It's easier to hit my G-spot through my arse, the orgasms are more intense and I just love it so much in general. That combination of pleasure/***, the power exchange and the trust it requires--not to mention its overwhelming intensity--makes anal sex the BDSM act *par excellence* for me. I'm anal crazy. -I love, love, love giving oral sex (but only to shaved and well-washed privates--that's a hard limit), and I especially love rimming guys. I love it when a man dominates me with his arse. ❤️I love to serve a man with my hands and mouth, including edging, and if you're into prostate play, so much the better. -Just serving, worshipping, adoring; I like to drown my lovers in pleasure. Whether I am subbing or domming, I'm all about the pleasuregiving (and prefer my men to be mostly pleasure doms, too). Nothing enslaves me like pleasure. ❤️ -Elegant, stylish clothing. I like a man with style, and I dress glamorously myself--mermaid skirts, hats, gloves. I can't see myself ever submitting to a guy in a baseball cap and baggy trousers, but give me a gentleman in, say, a waistcoat or with a vandyke... mmm. Style is sexy. It's all about the attitude. -Lean, mean men, gothbois especially turn me on, as do androgynous men; gym rats needn't bother, as big muscles and lantern jaws are turn-offs for me. I'll take even a paunch over a sixpack any day. -You needn't be tall! I'm 152 cm/5 ft; everyone is a giant to me. -I need you to be dedicated to bringing a woman to orgasm, no matter how tricky it might be, no matter how long it takes. I guarantee I will reward you for it with so much pleasure your eyes will roll back in your head. -Any pleasure you give me, I will give you back doubled. (Perhaps even tripled. Or quadrupled, depending on how much joy you've managed to bring out of me.) If you indulge one kink/fantasy/preference of mine, I'll indulge two of yours. My pleasure and my orgasms are your key to a paradise of pleasures, wherein I shall enthrone you as my king; I will be the most devoted slave girl in your harem. -Nerdery and brains in general; smart people make the best lovers. -Good dirty talk. Tell me the words you want to hear and I'll tell you mine. As a writer, dirty talk is something I've honed down to an art, and would love to finally find a man who's the same. So, if you want an intelligent, geeky woman with an endless erotic imagination by your side, and with whom you can natter for hours about history or spirituality or old British sci-fi whenever we aren't bonking, here I am. But I'll stop there, or I'll be here forever. P.S. Was all of that too much? All right, then; let's put it in simpler terms. I have big tits and I love anal. Twirl your moustache, purr "I have you now, my pretty" and spank the living daylights out of me, bad boy!

Call me Mistress. Into mullets, tattoos, streetfood and alternative music. I travel a lot in Europe for work. Next week I will be in Liverpool and London and have nothing to do in the evenings 😉🇬🇧

I’d like to try having a real dom. If you’re not serious about it, don’t text me. It would be nice if we had a connection/thing going on outside of the dynamic but it’s not a thing to be ***d. Still LEARNING about myself and what i’m capable of so I prefer someone decently PATIENT. Had to bold it out cause most people can’t seem to understand😉 If your first message is just ”hi” I probably wont answer. I don’t judge and like to talk when i’ve gotten to know you💞💞

newbie sub ;P I have no idea what to add here… I’m a bratty girl that bites and that should be enough because you probably don’t deserve to know the rest 🤭 (Joking) On break at the moment, not checking messages, I apologize!

Hello all kinksters. Here, a blonde with a sense of humor and openness is looking for a girl with whom to fulfill each other's fantasies together. I'm a really experimental switch. You can find out more by asking. If you like anal sex, we are a perfect match 🙈

Not really sure what im looking for im just vibing Hard and soft kinks: ~***, cnc, free use, etc~

Hey! I’m a kinky girl looking for new kinky experiences🤭 I’m also a rookie so I need help with finding out my limits and things I like❤️ Not into online stuff, message me only if you’re ready to meet up, I’m based in Oulu Finland I’m such a bad texter, but I’m trying to improve, so bear with me🥹

sub Hotwife for dominant (Stag) I don't know much Finnish or English. I use a translator in my correspondence. when meeting and having sex, poor language skills usually do not interfere.

I am a lesbian sub please I like hanging out outside of my role as a sub I love ***s and anime and Thai gls I love anything psychological and I’m a student I like to drink and sometimes smoke I haven’t actually been with a female dom in person and that’s what I’m looking for I’ve had a lot of online female doms I’m a chill person and I really just want myself and my female dom to have fun and care about each other as people I’m into older women

I am owned. I love my master and have no interest in getting another. I'm only here because he allows me to. Men, degrade and humiliate me. Women, do the same or let me do it to you.

She/Her 28yo polyamorous (three partners atm) I would love to discover more with my subby side!💕

I am introvert so it's will take time that I warm up for new persons. I have cats and they always comes first. I am looking pet/slave that I can satisfy my sadistic needs and also my cuddle needs. I want play mates that aren't jealous if I play with other.

I have been curious about BDSM life for around 4 years now. I have a bit of theory knowledge about some thing, but not much experience. I have never been in BDSM relationship, or explored my submissive side. Even tho I haven't had much experience, I am certain that I am submissive as it is what I always felt drawn to and find comfort in it. In real life, I am quite independent and that adds to feeling like my submission is not simply to give up on control or not make decisions. I will never just be brainless and not speak up my mind/opinion, submission to me is on deeper level. Small talk doesn’t do much for me; I’m drawn to depth and meaningful connection. That carries into how I view intimacy and nudity as well: intentional, sacred, never casual. I’m an introvert, have a touch of anxiety, so if you see me at an event and I’m awkward/shy as hell, it’s not you, it’s definitely me. But once I get comfortable with you, then there is whole side of me that is super fun, loyal, loving and bratty. I also would love if others share some BDSM outfits/jewelry as I want to get more for events and playing.

Will write more later... FYI: Don't take my read receipts too seriously. I hate unread notifications, so I open messages just to clear them and come back to actually read when I have a moment.

Prey-predator kink 🤩 Haluan tulla jahdatuksi, taistella vastaan jos saat kiinni ja sitten otetuksi todella kovaa. Ihana ois löytää joku jonka kanssa kokeilla.

I am little looking for a Daddy or a Mommy (LTR only). I dont mind long distance but I would prefere someone from Europe. I am age regressor still figuring things out. Other wise I am a student stuggling with school work trying to get my degree someday

Hey there cuties. Here Is little bit of information about me: I am 18 years old dominant famale. I am pet handler/mommy. I have one cat and i love ***s. I write poems, dance and sing. I love listening all types of music and true crime. I love late walks and gym. I am very caring person, but i love to have all control. I am very calm and i love peacefull times, but i also love to do things that i haven't done before. I am very honest person, and I will keep your secrets. Well i think that i enough from me, let's find out what i am looking: I am looking long term submissive, who is ready to try new things and want to make our dynamic special. I would hope my sub to be a pet or a little (kitten, puppy, bunny, little girl, little boy or just a little one). My sub can be all new in this scene or someone who have been into this all for a long time. I accept everyone and everything (even your bratty side), but i won't tolerate any kind of real disrespect. I am only looking for long term submissive who is ready to give me full life control. So don't text me if you want only one times and aren't 100% serious or are horny and want to cum. Thank you for reading this all.

Hey. I am looking long term pet to own and take care of. I need pet who can do 24/7 dynamic with sexual and non sexual things. I am open for everything and i don't care about your gender. You can be male, famale, trans or sissy, everyone is welcome. You can come chat me if you are need of mommy or friend. Come ask me anything you want, i try to answer you the best way i can. Please don't text me if you are only wanting to get permission to cum, you will be ignored. I am not doing anything sexual at the start, i am here to find something real, not just some horny male. Not anyone too old, every 50+ man can get off. Thanks. My kinks are petplay, praising, mdlb, mdlg, spanking, anal, cum control, edge play, denial, chastity, 24/7, full life control and pegging. If you need mommy, who can give you rules and love, text me. Don't use my time if you aren't really interested.

I am lesbian switch and into MDlg /DDlg / ABDL. I have my little history and I have my mama history. But hey!!! I’m looking for my own little princess (a cis woman) who enjoys diapers and is looking for gentle care, closeness, and a safe feeling. I’d preferably like you to be younger than me, but location isn’t really that important. I have my little side too but I am so much more mommy now that you cannot tell. So I am femme lesbian 38-year-old mommy from South Karelia, Finland. I’d love to find a little who enjoys being exactly who she is and being spoiled and cared for. It’s important to me to make sure my little one is okay and feels safe, loved, and cared for. I still really like diapers. These days, though, I might actually enjoy changing them more than wearing them myself. Taking care of someone and spoiling her is the most important part for me. There’s always ice cream in my freezer. I love making pancakes, and sometimes I like to play around with food a little — using cookie cutters to turn pancakes and breakfast sandwiches into cute, fun, and easy-to-eat treats. Someone once told me that I can do everything. Well… that’s not quite true. There are plenty of things I don’t know how to do, and I need help sometimes too. But someone else once told me that I’m almost a perfect mommy. I definitely wouldn’t describe myself that way, but it’s really lovely to hear things like that. Maybe we don’t always see our own good qualities in the same way other people do. I’m definitely not perfect, and I hope I’m not giving you unrealistic expectations about what I’m like with this message. I’m quite social and I enjoy doing all kinds of things, but at the same time, I definitely know how to be lazy and simply enjoy doing nothing. So… you’ll just have to figure me out. It took me too long time to refresh my profile and it was this easy?

Nelli Littlescaptre: I’m a soft mannered Little brat-monarch who loves attention, affection and psychological dynamics. My energy shifts between chaotic little mayhem and soft caring calm control. I enjoy connections where mutual trust, care, service and attentiveness happen naturally. As a Little, I’m playful, clingy and rebellious - Small Ruler. As an Owner and Soft Domme, I enjoy petplay, giving praise and making rituals. I like to have the power when you genuinely enjoy pleasing and supporting me. I value emotional intelligence, your own initiative and people who notice the small things - as I do that almost automaticly too. I'm Pan / Demi / Ace, so I'm the pandemic you can't run? I divide and conquer, with holding the leash of my loyal toykitten: Idorable ♡ Nelli Pikkuvaltikka: Pikkuinen ja pehmeä brat-hallitsija, joka rakastaa huomiota, hellyyttä ja psykologisia dynamiikkoja. Energiani vaihtelee kaoottisen Pikkuis-mayhemin ja pehmeän, huolehtivaisen kontrollin välillä. Nautin ihmiskontakteista, joissa keskinäinen luottamus, huolenpito, palvelukset ja tarkkaavainen huomiokyky syntyvät luonnollisesti. Pikkuisena olen leikkisä, takertuva ja kapinallinen - pieni Hallitsija. Omistajana ja Soft Dommena nautin mm. petplaystä, kehumisesta ja rituaalien luomisesta. Pidän siitä, että valta on minulla silloin kun toinen on aidosti minua varten läsnä ja nauttii miellyttämisestä. Arvostan emotionaalista älykkyyttä, oma-aloitteisuutta ja ihmisiä, jotka huomaavat myös pienet yksityiskohdat, sillä itselläni se taito on lähes sisäsyntyistä. Olen Pan / Demi / Ace - pandemia, jota et pääse pakoon? Hajotan ja hallitsen valtakuntaani, pitäen uskollisen lelukisun: Idorable ♡ hihnaa käsissäni.

Happily in a relationship. Open to chat/meet other kinksters as friends only.

Hello! Here, a very kinky and experimental woman looking for another similar woman. By nature, I am very humorous and outspoken. If you don't ghost or bark at other people's kinks or fetishes, you can contact me 💗

Nice to meet you! I'm from Germany but am currently living in Finland (and I'm probably here to stay). Unfortunately, my Finnish is still very bad so I can only communicate in English, German or basic French & Finnish For now, I'm only here to find a mentor or friends and to network a bit. [Write 'Mistbiene' in first message to me pls] I am completely inexperienced but I have to admit to eying BDSM for a long time as a few of my natural tendencies reared their head when I was still pretty young. If we become friends I might be interested in pursuing a relationship with someone from here too, but due to my demisexuality, a lot of patience is required if that is your end goal in chatting with me! **Desires and Fantasies** My fantasies include wrestling my man into submission, and then taking what I want. Pegging, riding, and facesitting as examples. In my fantasies, we usually struggle for dominance and I usually win, but as long as the fight is fair I'd submit as well, so I guess I am a switch leaning towards dominant. Shaving is also a kink for me. I'd love to shave my partner's body and facial hair, if possible with a shaving knife, the trust necessary is what intrigues me here I think.

(new profile since the other one is not working well) Treat me as a princess🙏💕I would describe myself as an ambivert and curious person. One thing what I am is non judgemental. I also am quite sensitive but know when to stand my ground. More about me if you dm.🎀I’m really curious about having a real dom. Someone willing to meet even (maybe). If you don’t communicate with me on the regular then i’m not interested. I need a real connection.

First of all: I'm looking for a serious, committed relationship (tositarkoituksella). I'm too old for just casual affairs; I want to love and bed someone I know well and who knows me. So, if you're here for just casual hookups, I'm not what you want. Finland-based guys interested in RL dates only, please; I have no time or energy for mere chat partners (foreigners trying to chat me up anyway will just be blocked). Likewise, if your profile says nothing about what you are like as a person (beyond kink), how can you expect a person looking for real relationships to be interested in you, when there's nothing there--no clues telling us whether we might be compatible or not? Tell us who you are; women are attracted to people's personalities above all else. BDSM, for me, is strictly roleplay only. I'm about 80%-90% bottom (pleasure sub, pleasure dom, prey, feisty damsel in distress), and interested in kind and caring people who are service tops/pleasure doms/caregivers; soft doms are great, too. Personality-wise, I'm not looking for full-on dominant sadists, just people who can play that role well in the bedroom, if you catch my drift. Just as I'm not at all submissive (or dominant) IRL, but can play that part to the hilt in the bedroom. Our dark side stays there. Outside of it, I will respect you and treat you as my equal, and expect you to do the same for me. You earn my adoration through trust and caring, and that can only be achieved through an absolute respect of my limits, just as I respect yours. This is non-negotiable; I will not violate your limits no matter how much they may frustrate me, and expect you to do the same for me. If you're looking for someone to subjugate 24/7, look elsewhere; there are plenty of such people about. I'm a total and utter Romantic in the original sense of the word. So, if you know what that entails, you will get what I'm about--that's a world of kinks right there. Consequently, I like roleplay in that sort of vein--my no. 1 kink is that of a charming, elegant villain ravishing the feisty heroine. I'd describe myself as more of a bottom than a full-on sub--but I do like games where said charming villain ****s* me to submit to his nefarious desires. 😈 I'm unusual in that I'm more about building up and healing the sub, rather than degrading and destroying them; I love it when the dom digs out the sub's inner slut (or faggot) and seduces them to the dark side, and then celebrates that. "Let me go!" Ms. Heroine cries, writhing in her ropes in vain as Mr. Villain presses against her naked back, cupping her pussy in his gloved hand. He just smirks and lifts out his fingers--glistening from her arousal. "Why is your pussy so wet?" he laughs and licks his fingers. "Could it be you've fantasised about me all along? Well, don't you worry, my dear..." he leans in to murmur in her ear, tapping his whip against her thigh, "tonight, I'm going to make you into my very own whore." That sort of thing. So, it's a very sex-positive approach, albeit wrapped in dark trappings (this may all sound very wholesome, but trust me: within certain roleplay scenarios, I can get *very* fucked up). I once had a BF describe my domination style as like a martial arts master or a guru. In that I put my disciple through hell to make them the best they can be, the most beautiful they can be, and will be there to catch them on the other side. I enjoy that when submitting, too; I like to be thrashed and praised, and be made into my master's precious jewel of perversity. And vice versa. I also have chronic ***, so being thwacked with floggers, paddles, hands, etc. helps a lot--it's like acupuncture to me; I much prefer that kind of *** to the chronic sort! BDSM can be very spiritual, I find; I'd love to find others who get that whole intersection of sex and the sacred. I'm especially interested in finding other Pagans and nondualist Tantric yogis, but this is not mandatory. Unlike a lot of subs, I am not emotionally fragile nor do I have large, unmet emotional needs. I am mentally healthy, have been through therapy and have a strong mind; you will not get clingy despair or drama from me. I also expect the same kind of emotional maturity from you; mentally adolescent boys needn't bother. I'm a grown woman. Thus, I want a grown man at ease with himself, who's found his true strength within himself and needs no empty macho bullshit to cover up his insecurities. And now, for the turn-ons: -That aforementioned "villain ravishes heroine" roleplay. -Being chased and captured and struggling against my captor, only to be finally subdued by him. I'm a *big* agonophile. -I'm a decent actor, and can make a very convincing screaming, struggling victim--or a strict Mistress. Don't get scared; I really am just acting! -Being held down or pinned against walls, the man letting me feel his weight and power. Health reasons make most bondage impractical for me, though, so restrain me with your body, baby! -Spanking, but especially pussy spanking (the latter is an art few know how to do right, but I am happy to teach you...) Impact play in general, just not with *really* thick/heavy implements. -Anal sex. I can usually only come that way with a man (and Venus knows I've tried--due to various medical reasons, I can only have vaginal orgasms with toys). So, if you don't want to bum me, forget about bedding me. It's easier to hit my G-spot through my arse, the orgasms are more intense and I just love it so much in general. That combination of pleasure/***, the power exchange and the trust it requires--not to mention its overwhelming intensity--makes anal sex the BDSM act *par excellence* for me. I'm anal crazy. -I love, love, love giving oral sex (but only to shaved and well-washed privates--that's a hard limit), and I especially love rimming guys. I love it when a man dominates me with his arse. ❤️I love to serve a man with my hands and mouth, including edging, and if you're into prostate play, so much the better. -Just serving, worshipping, adoring; I like to drown my lovers in pleasure. Whether I am subbing or domming, I'm all about the pleasuregiving (and prefer my men to be mostly pleasure doms, too). Nothing enslaves me like pleasure. ❤️ -Elegant, stylish clothing. I like a man with style, and I dress glamorously myself--mermaid skirts, hats, gloves. I can't see myself ever submitting to a guy in a baseball cap and baggy trousers, but give me a gentleman in, say, a waistcoat or with a vandyke... mmm. Style is sexy. It's all about the attitude. -Lean, mean men, gothbois especially turn me on, as do androgynous men; gym rats needn't bother, as big muscles and lantern jaws are turn-offs for me. I'll take even a paunch over a sixpack any day. -You needn't be tall! I'm 152 cm/5 ft; everyone is a giant to me. -I need you to be dedicated to bringing a woman to orgasm, no matter how tricky it might be, no matter how long it takes. I guarantee I will reward you for it with so much pleasure your eyes will roll back in your head. -Any pleasure you give me, I will give you back doubled. (Perhaps even tripled. Or quadrupled, depending on how much joy you've managed to bring out of me.) If you indulge one kink/fantasy/preference of mine, I'll indulge two of yours. My pleasure and my orgasms are your key to a paradise of pleasures, wherein I shall enthrone you as my king; I will be the most devoted slave girl in your harem. -Nerdery and brains in general; smart people make the best lovers. -Good dirty talk. Tell me the words you want to hear and I'll tell you mine. As a writer, dirty talk is something I've honed down to an art, and would love to finally find a man who's the same. So, if you want an intelligent, geeky woman with an endless erotic imagination by your side, and with whom you can natter for hours about history or spirituality or old British sci-fi whenever we aren't bonking, here I am. But I'll stop there, or I'll be here forever. P.S. Was all of that too much? All right, then; let's put it in simpler terms. I have big tits and I love anal. Twirl your moustache, purr "I have you now, my pretty" and spank the living daylights out of me, bad boy!

I am a lesbian sub please I like hanging out outside of my role as a sub I love ***s and anime and Thai gls I love anything psychological and I’m a student I like to drink and sometimes smoke I haven’t actually been with a female dom in person and that’s what I’m looking for I’ve had a lot of online female doms I’m a chill person and I really just want myself and my female dom to have fun and care about each other as people I’m into older women

I’d like to try having a real dom. If you’re not serious about it, don’t text me. It would be nice if we had a connection/thing going on outside of the dynamic but it’s not a thing to be ***d. Still LEARNING about myself and what i’m capable of so I prefer someone decently PATIENT. Had to bold it out cause most people can’t seem to understand😉 If your first message is just ”hi” I probably wont answer. I don’t judge and like to talk when i’ve gotten to know you💞💞

I want you to tie me up and take over my body — while I take over your mind. Serve me with your mouth, your hands, your full attention. Be sweet, be considerate, and don't let go until I'm completely yours in the flesh. long-term relationship only, start with decent date.

I have been curious about BDSM life for around 4 years now. I have a bit of theory knowledge about some thing, but not much experience. I have never been in BDSM relationship, or explored my submissive side. Even tho I haven't had much experience, I am certain that I am submissive as it is what I always felt drawn to and find comfort in it. In real life, I am quite independent and that adds to feeling like my submission is not simply to give up on control or not make decisions. I will never just be brainless and not speak up my mind/opinion, submission to me is on deeper level. Small talk doesn’t do much for me; I’m drawn to depth and meaningful connection. That carries into how I view intimacy and nudity as well: intentional, sacred, never casual. I’m an introvert, have a touch of anxiety, so if you see me at an event and I’m awkward/shy as hell, it’s not you, it’s definitely me. But once I get comfortable with you, then there is whole side of me that is super fun, loyal, loving and bratty. I also would love if others share some BDSM outfits/jewelry as I want to get more for events and playing.

Call me Mistress. Into mullets, tattoos, streetfood and alternative music. I travel a lot in Europe for work. Next week I will be in Liverpool and London and have nothing to do in the evenings 😉🇬🇧

sub Hotwife for dominant (Stag) I don't know much Finnish or English. I use a translator in my correspondence. when meeting and having sex, poor language skills usually do not interfere.

newbie sub ;P I have no idea what to add here… I’m a bratty girl that bites and that should be enough because you probably don’t deserve to know the rest 🤭 (Joking) On break at the moment, not checking messages, I apologize!

Hey! I’m a kinky girl looking for new kinky experiences🤭 I’m also a rookie so I need help with finding out my limits and things I like❤️ Not into online stuff, message me only if you’re ready to meet up, I’m based in Oulu Finland I’m such a bad texter, but I’m trying to improve, so bear with me🥹

Hello all kinksters. Here, a blonde with a sense of humor and openness is looking for a girl with whom to fulfill each other's fantasies together. I'm a really experimental switch. You can find out more by asking. If you like anal sex, we are a perfect match 🙈

Not really sure what im looking for im just vibing Hard and soft kinks: ~***, cnc, free use, etc~

I am owned. I love my master and have no interest in getting another. I'm only here because he allows me to. Men, degrade and humiliate me. Women, do the same or let me do it to you.