Any women in Oklahoma City look to have fun with 2 straight guys

You'll see from our profile that we're new in the group and only been married a few months. Before we met my wife had a dom boyfriend and has suddenly admitted missing the sub side. There was no way of guessing. It's a two way difficulty. Either simply ignore the idea and risk frustration or accept she wants submission. Because our relationship is relatively well balanced and there's no obvious reason for refusing, almost certainly we're going to have to look outside our couple. Not sure if this is really BDSM or if that's the path she wants to follow but it does mean opening our marriage which will be a major change.