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Love is complicated — even (or especially) in the fetish world. This group is for open, respectful exchange around dating, communication, breakups, poly life, jealousy, and more. Bring your questions, stories, and support.

TallDomShiva
icon-wio TallDomShiva created an entry in Relationship & Dating Advice
The mix of BDSM with a love story is so hot.
DomMnemonic
icon-wio DomMnemonic created an entry in Relationship & Dating Advice
Looking to meet like-minded Open minded women who love to enjoy and discover new things in pleasure and also on daily basis life to share Things we like 🔥❤️⛓️
Luzifer
icon-wio Luzifer created an entry in Relationship & Dating Advice
Vielen Dank für die Aufnahme in diese Gruppe.
StrictMaste-3032
icon-wio StrictMaste-3032 created an entry in Relationship & Dating Advice
am looking for a new slave girl to educate and work with.
You know you have deviant urges and needs, that you need a firm hand to put you in your place without mercy.
On a daily basis you will be secretly depraved and used, dehumanized and trained to enjoy ***.
In public you will be able to remain respectable or not, according to what we will decide initially.
Respect of the anonymity
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ClassyKink4You
icon-wio ClassyKink4You created an entry in Relationship & Dating Advice
As a confident woman seeking a bedroom dom, I hope to find my LTR here. Guided by a strong belief in finding my "other half", I am NOT seeking FWB, NSA or simply a F/T playmate. Any suggestions (after viewing my profile) would be appreciated. TIA
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Dominants like to be in control. Unlike BDSM tops or sadists, their need is not particularly to inflict pain but to be domineering and have control over another person. Some Doms/Dommes expect to be obeyed immediately and without questions. Others enjoy being tested, and having to show their dominance over the submissive who’s being bratty. There is no one way to be a Dominant. Dom/Dommes can also be sadists, tops, masters or riggers. Dominant is a huge category of BDSM made up of many very different people who all have one thing in common, their need to be in control. The D in the term BDSM stands for Dominance, therefore Dominants are an instrumental part of BDSM. .embed-container { position: relative; padding-bottom: 56.25%; height: 0; overflow: hidden; max-width: 100%; } .embed-container iframe, .embed-container object, .embed-container embed { position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%; }
Masochists enjoy having pain inflicted on them. It might not be all kinds of pain, but only specific types. They usually match up with sadists because sadists enjoy inflicting pain. Masochists tend to be submissive, but can be switches too. Masochists know what it feels to take a punishment do can make effective tops in a scene. Some Dominants have masochistic streaks, enjoying a certain level of pain themselves. Masochism is centred on the pleasure of pain but many masochists enjoy being controlled and dominated too. Masochists are often bratty, to get the pain they want. The worst torture for a masochist is totally withholding punishment as they crave pain. In day-to-day life masochists may find non kinky ways to satisfy their desires such as pushing themselves hard during exercise. Masochists often use pain to feel free from the pressures of day to day life.
A sadist is a Dominant who enjoys inflicting pain on a submissive partner or partners. However, it isn’t always that a sadist enjoys inflicting all kinds of pain on others. They may well enjoy specific sadistic tortures. They may prefer using a particular instrument like a whip or a cane or they might enjoy adding a sadistic element to other BDSM activities such as rope and restraints. Sadists get pleasure from inflicting pain on others. This is always consensual and agreed in advance. They can enjoy the visual evidence of the pain they’ve inflicted in bruises and welts and red skin. They often enjoy the noises a masochist makes while they are inflicting pain on them and enjoy watching the way that masochist moves as they are tortured. They may even enjoy restraining the masochist so they can’t easily move. Not all sadistic torture leaves marks. Sadists can use electric that inflicts lots of pain on their masochist but doesn’t leave lasting marks. Not all sadism is focused on the physical. Sadists often use fear and control to play with pain without inflicting any physical damage at all. This is called a mind fuck. Many people often ask what is a sadist? There isn’t one simple answer. Every sadist is different. Sadists are most often Dominants but can be switches. Even masochists and submissives can have a sadistic streak. Enjoying inflicting pain on another person, maybe because they understand the thrill of feeling the pain themselves. Sadists can become sexually aroused by inflicting painful torture on others, it can also be simply about submission and control. Sadists often spend many hours honing their skills with one particular torture implement to get the most sadistic pleasure out of their implement of choice.

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