1. Bdsm isn't inherently sexual. 2. Negotiate aftercare before play begins. 3. Always keep learning. 3b. Tops & bottoms both need education 4. Don't play with someone if they don't explain the risks. 5. Everyone has limits and it's ok. 6. Everyone is unique, don't expect what will work on one partner will work on another.

Happy new year to you all 🥰🥰🥰