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Our Top Picks for Kinky Christmas Gifts 

It's the most festive time of the year, and with the holidays around the corner maybe you're thinking of sexy stocking fillers for your favourite kinksters or perhaps to treat yourself! We asked Victoria Blisse to compile a list of kinky Christmas gift ideas to put a smile on the faces of the kinkiest people this holiday season. 

 

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Whips And Sticks Suede Flogger

What do you for the Dom/me who has everything? Or for the sub who loves impact play? A pretty new flogger fits the bill! This soft black suede flogger from Whips and Sticks has a beautiful purple heart handle (and other woods are available) and can be used for anything from gentle sensation play to a hard, thuddy beating. Not quite what you're looking for? There's a selection of different floggers and implements to pick from. Handmade with precision and care, this is a piece of kit you'll turn to time and time again. 

 

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Scarlet in Chains Day Collar

Sometimes you might want to wear something subtle but with a kinky sentiment. The Scarlet in Chains micro luna day collar is a beautiful stainless steel chain collar with an O-ring so you can use it during play, but it's also easy to wear at any time without drawing more than admiring glances! Handmade to order, you can give your neck size and get a precise fit. There's even a choice of closure, too. You can have a simple clip or a padlock depending on your preference. These collars can take anything you throw at them and would make the perfect stocking filler for a kinkster you're chained to!

 

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MedFetUK Needle Play Starter Kit

Have you always fancied giving needle play a go or do you want to have all you need for a scene to hand in one useful kit? Then this starter kit from MedFetUK is perfect for you. An excellent way to let your play partner know you're up for something new and needling! This kit comes with 75 individually packed sterile needles in a range of gauges and lengths, along with a variety of accessories for hygiene, aftercare and disposal - all presented in a gift box. There are intermediate and advanced kits available for the more experienced player—something for everyone into medical fetish. 

 

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Bondara Luxury Tether and Tease couple's bondage gift set

It could take hours and hours of searching for kinky Christmas gifts or sexy stocking fillers for a lover, well Bondara takes all the hard work out of it, pulling together a luxurious looking and feeling bondage gift set. There's vibrating toys for cocks and vulvas as well as BDSM implements. Paddle, tickler, ties, blindfold and gag mean you have all the basics for a fun scene. That's not it though! There are nipple clamps and a massage candle too. This fantastic, luxurious set will be brilliant for those long nights in by the fireside for you and your special someone. And as if that's not brilliant enough, there's 60% off until the 23rd December 2020. Bargain!  


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Black Swan Premium Wrist & Ankle Cuff Set

Genuine leather meets breathable high-tech fabric. This sexy set contains two wrist cuffs, two ankle cuffs and comes in a variety of colors along with four additional carabine rings (Black Swan's own edition) so that you can easily connect them up! This beautiful set from Black Swan comes in a luxurious box to help kick-off your erotic adventures! 

 

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Fetish.com Membership 

What better way to show your appreciation to a kinky friend, partner or lover than to show them you want them around - treat any of your Fetish.com friends to an upgraded membership! Simply go to their profile and click on the 'give a gift' icon under their photo and the first option that comes up is membership. You can then pick the length of the gifted membership, pay and BOOM! Gift sent, instant present. How good is that? It's handy for anyone in a long-distance relationship. You can show them you care and want to keep communicating with them with a few simple clicks.

So there you go, our top picks for your kinky Christmas gifts. From everyday wear to memorable scenes and BDSM staples. There's something here for everyone whether they're top or bottom, Dom/me, sub or switch. Anyone will be thrilled to receive one of these stocking fillers from Santa's bulging sack. Whatever you do, have safe and sexy fun this holiday season. 
 

Victoria Blisse was an erotic author and sex-positive Reverend. She helped shape fetish.com and FET from the very beginning and we're eternally grateful for her passion and creativity. Sadly, she passed away in January 2024. We hope that whenever her articles are read, she'll be honored.


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