A little clarification, since there seem to be some assumptions about my profile:

I’m in a sexless marriage due to a spinal *** my husband sustained. We had explored D/s before his accident, and he ultimately wasn’t comfortable in the Dominant role. He has supported my continuing to explore submission and understand what I need.

I’ve been sexually inactive for three years. I’m not looking for hookups. I’m looking for a genuine, one-on-one D/s dynamic based on trust, communication, discretion, and mutual respect.

Discretion is important because I don’t want to add to my husband’s emotional burden. I’m not trying to replace him, take anyone’s partner, or participate in a poly dynamic. I know that I can only submit comfortably in a one-on-one relationship.

I’m honest, communicative, safety-conscious, and capable of having adult conversations. I have kids and a busy schedule, so local and weekday-flexible is a plus.

My situation may not be for everyone. I respect that. I simply ask that you respect my boundaries and choices as well.