About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
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Living and working around the world so 100% flexible
I am a very ambitious person. An entrepreneur, an international keynote speaker and an assoc. professor.
Further I would consider myself very literate (I love science and have studied varieties of non-fiction topics). I am very happy to be your trainer who explains and shows you many things of how the world works and despite being a demanding and controlling dom I carry also a strong and loving daddy-dom side in me - you will always feel safe and protected with me as long as you fully submit to me.
If you feel that we would be a match, and you look for a long term connection, then I am very much looking forward to hearing from you.
Many spanks, Ben
Website: chooseyour.top
Desires and Fantasies
Let's put it this way: I like to be no - limits creative ...
Limits
No/misleading communication, lack of trust or respect.
Please note: I support every sub according to her needs, but toxic behaviours will not be tolerated.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- 24/7
- Age Play
- Anal Hook
- Anal Play (Active)
- Anal Sex (Active)
- Anal Beads
- Anal Plugs
- Fear Play
- Animal Play
- Inflatable Gag
- Blindfolds (Active)
- Ball Gag
- BDSM (Active)
- BDSM Branding
- BDSM Collar
- Bondage Stocks
- Begging
- Leg Fetish
- Biting Fetish
- Bisexual
- Bizarre Fetish
- Bondage
- Bondage Bed
- Bondage Shackles
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Harness
- Bondage Cage
- Bondage Hood
- Bondage Mouthguard Gag
- Bondage Rope
- Bondage Tape (Active)
- Funnel Gag
- Breath Play (Active)
- Breast Binder
- Breast Play
- Butts
- Caregiver / little
- Chains (Active)
- Chastity
- Chastity Belt
- Collar & Leash
- Corsets
- Cosplay
- Cuddling (Active)
- Cunnilingus
- Deep Throating
- Lingerie Fetish
- Dildos (Active)
- Dirty Talk
- Discipline
- Doctor Role Play
- Domination
- Double Penetration
- Threesomes
- Edgeplay
- Edging
- Electro Sex Stimulation
- Sex Worker - Client
- Exhibitionism
- Extreme Bondage
- Face Slapping (Active)
- Female Ejaculation
- Female Masking
- Restraints
- Fetish Wear
- FFM Threesome
- Figging
- Fisting
- Floggers
- Foreplay
- Foot Fetish (Active)
- Gags
- Gas Masks
- Torturer - Captive Prisoner
- Genital Torture
- Rubber Fetish
- Handcuffs
- Handjobs
- Handyman - Housewife
- Rough Sex
- Hentai / Anime (Active)
- High Heel Fetish
- Human Pony Harness
- Humiliation (Active)
- Hypersexuality
- Genital Piercings
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Medical Fetish
- Enema
- Clitoral Pump
- Head Harness
- Body Modification
- Labia Fetish
- Patent Leather Fetish
- Latex Fetish
- Leather Fetish
- Leggings Fetish
- Lesbian
- Licking
- Lip Fetish
- Masks
- Masturbation
- Masturbation Machine
- Medical Restraints
- Armbinder
- Multiple Orgasms
- Muscle Worship
- Mutual Masturbation
- Muzzle Gag
- Needles
- Nipple Clamps
- Nipple Play
- Nylon Fetish
- Oral Sex
- Orgasm Control
- Spanking Paddles
- Pee Desperation
- Penis Gag
- Piercings
- Plastic Wrap
- Post Orgasm Torture
- Posture Collar
- Predicament Bondage
- Puppy Play
- PVC Fetish
- Rimming
- Role Play
- Sadism (Active)
- Sapiosexual
- Shoe Fetish
- Scratching
- Sensory Deprivation
- Sex at Work
- Sex Parties
- Sex In Bed
- Sex Machine
- Younger Sex Partners
- Sex Stool
- Sex Toys
- Sex Doll
- Sissification
- Slave Training
- Snowballing
- Spanking
- Sperm (Passive)
- Cum Swallowing
- Spit Fetish
- Squirting
- Stocking Fetish
- Submission
- Suspension Cuffs
- Sybian
- Sweet Pain
- Underwear Fetish
- Subservience
- Vanilla
- Vibrators
- Wax Play (Active)
- Watersports (Active)
- Gyno Fetish
- Wet Look Clothing
- Whips
My places
SF Citadel has been a much-loved fixture of ***'s vibrant kink community since 2003. This popular, well-equipped dungeon boasts 7,000 squ...
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A coffee shop aimed at the kink community - where else would this exist but in magnificent ***? Wicked Grounds SF is America's first kink...
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Mr S Leather sells an astonishingly wide range of BDSM, bondage and kink gear in the heart of ***.
Established back in 1979, Mr S Leat...
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California - USA
A world leader in the global Pride movement, SF Pride has been a not-to-be-missed fixture on the LGBTQ calendar since the first Pride parade and ce...
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California - USA
Based on the sexual utopia that is ***, Society of Janus provides education and support to anyone who is on a BDSM journey.
A not for...
San Francisco -
California - USA
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Living and working around the world so 100% flexible
I am a very ambitious person. An entrepreneur, an international keynote speaker and an assoc. professor.
Further I would consider myself very literate (I love science and have studied varieties of non-fiction topics). I am very happy Read more… to be your trainer who explains and shows you many things of how the world works and despite being a demanding and controlling dom I carry also a strong and loving daddy-dom side in me - you will always feel safe and protected with me as long as you fully submit to me.
If you feel that we would be a match, and you look for a long term connection, then I am very much looking forward to hearing from you.
Many spanks, Ben
Website: chooseyour.top
Desires and Fantasies
Let's put it this way: I like to be no - limits creative ...
Living and working around the world so 100% flexible
I am a very ambitious person. An entrepreneur, an international keynote speaker and an assoc. professor.
Further I would consider myself very literate (I love science and have studied varieties of non-fiction topics). I am very happy Read more… to be your trainer who explains and shows you many things of how the world works and despite being a demanding and controlling dom I carry also a strong and loving daddy-dom side in me - you will always feel safe and protected with me as long as you fully submit to me.
If you feel that we would be a match, and you look for a long term connection, then I am very much looking forward to hearing from you.
Many spanks, Ben
Website: chooseyour.top
Desires and Fantasies
Let's put it this way: I like to be no - limits creative ...
When you take care of someone. When you support that person through the worst and make them stronger and better.
And in return you get a "fuck you" and that this person doesn't even care about your feelings.
Now, being a Dom with a protective daddy side is attractive to many, but it Read more… seems that not everyone appreciates you as much as what you give.
And in return you get a "fuck you" and that this person doesn't even care about your feelings.
Now, being a Dom with a protective daddy side is attractive to many, but it Read more… seems that not everyone appreciates you as much as what you give.
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No/misleading communication, lack of trust or respect.
Please note: I support every sub according to her needs, but toxic behaviours will not be tolerated.
Please note: I support every sub according to her needs, but toxic behaviours will not be tolerated.
Need a simple D/S contract with base 24/7 elements. I drafted a contract template for everyone to use based on some of my simpler contracts I made over the time.
https://chooseyour.top/24-7-dominant-submissive-sample-contract-template/
https://chooseyour.top/24-7-dominant-submissive-sample-contract-template/
Here my newest article about "Breeding" and why it is so appealing to many.
https://chooseyour.top/understanding-the-breeding-kink-a-comprehensive-explanation/
https://chooseyour.top/understanding-the-breeding-kink-a-comprehensive-explanation/
Read my newest article about "What is CNC" - enjoy and if you have feedback, let me know
https://chooseyour.top/cnc-kink-explained-the-consensual-non-consent-in-bdsm/
https://chooseyour.top/cnc-kink-explained-the-consensual-non-consent-in-bdsm/
Ever wanted to understand what a Maledom is? Here my long explanation. https://chooseyour.top/what-is-a-maledom-explanation-and-definition/
Updated the Safety Guide. Became now one of the most extensive Guides on the internet. Read, share and never forget to have fun 
https://chooseyour.top/safety-guide-for-bdsm-beginners-from-an-experienced-dom/
https://chooseyour.top/safety-guide-for-bdsm-beginners-from-an-experienced-dom/