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Bourbonandice
Bourbonandice
Man · 45 years · Newcastle-under-Lyme, 1 km

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Description

About Me: An emotionally intelligent, ambivert that is discovering sapiosexual tendencies. I need a partner who is interested in investing in a connection and someone willing to engage on multiple levels.

Who I’m Looking For: I love to laugh, someone free of spirit and an interest in kink. Nice eyes and a cute smile will win me over every time. And if you have nice legs even better!

Ideally I’d like someone looking for something similar to myself, someone that can be a friend and someone that is genuine and is honest in what they write on their profile. Someone looking to experiment and learn as we get to know each other and maybe develop into something a bit deeper.

Play:
I’m a pleasure/affectionate Dom (a big tease) with a mildly sadistic side (once I’m comfortable and have built trust this can be built on but isn’t something I need). I enjoy spanking, sensory and impact play and have an interest in Shibari from both a kink and artistic perspective.

My type of play does depend on my mood but I am a huge lover of kissing and for me it’s always an important element, as is cuddling, oral (giving) and aftercare. I need a connection to my partner and getting to know, and understand my partner, is as important as the play. It helps with understanding and pushing the limits of play. I love a brat who needs taming and being controlled, someone who will challenge me and push me to challenge them.

I’m looking for a play partner, to get to know each other and understand how we enjoy each others play. Either a submissive or switch. I’m very open minded, non-judgemental and willing to listen and explore a partners fantasies and fetishes.

Limits

Hard Limits:
No ***
No ***
Nothing illegal
No underage

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