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Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 56
Status Single
Height 163cm
Weight 90kg
Body shape Curvy
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Other
Hair length Long
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin Netherlands
Pubic Hair Natural
Body hair Some hair
Breast size E
Zodiac sign Sagittarius
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Languages English
Dutch
German

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

  • Friends
  • Kinky Dates
  • LTR (relationship)

Description

I am perhaps looking for the famous needle in the haystack :) The Dominant I'm looking for is, like me, into spanking and (domestic) discipline as a lifestyle. This is not a game to me but a way of living. We don't have to live together to make it happen, but you should not live too far away from the Hague, the Netherlands, to make it work.

Besides spanking as the main form of discipline, I'm also open to additional punishments like writing lines, corner time, being grounded, early bedtimes or whatever you come up with.

My ideal D/s is setting up rules and limitations together (we both have to agree!) and consequences, of course, as equals, and after that has been agreed to and "signed" for, the real D/s starts and there is no way back unless one of us isn't happy anymore.

Limits

Everything that is illegal, ***/stool/urine/needles, etc. I am NOT into extremes, not into Daddy/little girl stuff.

My roles & archetype

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dutchsubdd
icon-wio dutchsubdd wrote something in the forum
  • 27.07.2026 12:13:46
  • Female (56)
  • Den Haag
  • Single
Fantasy

There is always a fine line between fantasy and reality. In our fantasy most people are more extreme than we actually really like. That's why it's called fantasy. It's good to know the difference and both are perfect, as long as you realize that not every fantasy is good for real life and vice Read more… versa.

dutchsubdd
icon-wio dutchsubdd wrote something in the forum
  • 25.07.2026 9:43:42
  • Female (56)
  • Den Haag
  • Single
Dating and the lifestyle

I don't drink alcohol either, and it's not such a huge problem for me. You might be surprised how many people stay sober.

dutchsubdd
icon-wio dutchsubdd wrote something in the forum
  • 25.07.2026 9:37:40
  • Female (56)
  • Den Haag
  • Single
dutchsubdd
icon-wio dutchsubdd has updated their profile description
  • 24.07.2026 12:22:33
  • Female (56)
  • Den Haag
  • Single
I am perhaps looking for the famous needle in the haystack :) The Dominant I'm looking for is, like me, into spanking and (domestic) discipline as a lifestyle. This is not a game to me but a way of living. We don't have to live together to make it happen, but you should not live too far away from Read more… the Hague, the Netherlands, to make it work.

Besides spanking as the main form of discipline, I'm also open to additional punishments like writing lines, corner time, being grounded, early bedtimes or whatever you come up with.

My ideal D/s is setting up rules and limitations together (we both have to agree!) and consequences, of course, as equals, and after that has been agreed to and "signed" for, the real D/s starts and there is no way back unless one of us isn't happy anymore.
dutchsubdd
icon-wio dutchsubdd has updated the limits
  • 22.07.2026 10:28:55
  • Female (56)
  • Den Haag
  • Single
Everything that is illegal, ***/stool/urine/needles, etc. I am NOT into extremes, not into Daddy/little girl stuff.
dutchsubdd
icon-wio dutchsubdd finished the BDSM Test
  • 22.07.2026 10:26:48
  • Female (56)
  • Den Haag
  • Single

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Dominant

50%
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  • 22.07.2026 10:19:03
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  • 17.09.2022 13:10:38
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I am perhaps looking for the famous needle in the haystack :) The Dominant I'm looking for is, like me, into domestic discipline as a life style. Looking for the Head of the Household to submit to.
dutchsubdd
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  • 17.09.2022 13:10:38
  • Female (56)
  • Den Haag
  • Single
Everything that is illegal, ***/stool/urine/needles, etc.
dutchsubdd
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  • 17.09.2022 13:07:50
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  • Den Haag
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38%
Dominant

83%
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