For me, being a Dom is about trust, chemistry, communication, and knowing when to lead without being controlling. I like a dynamic where she wants to follow, not because she has to.
My last DDLG relationship was a pretty strong test for me. It taught me a lot about what works for me, what doesn’t, and what I’m willing to tolerate, and expect, in both sides of the dynamic.
I’m still learning, but I know what I want, I know what I bring to the table, and I’m more than comfortable taking the lead. The rest is just seeing if we click. 😉
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