Online is OK to start but looking for real connections, friends, chat, kinky fun and more.
I've been Dominant for as long as I can remember. Practicing as one for over 10 years now. Have had a few subs in the past both short and long term and have quite a wide range of kinks and bdsm interests. Happy to chat with anyone in PM as long as you're respectful (say hi first before sending a dick pick, fool)
Biggest kink has to be bondage but I have a lot more than that ![]()
I try to be easy going and in casual settings even. Live and let live (Mostly
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I have a lot of hobbies outside kink. Like volunteering at marathons for charity. Homebrewing alcohol, especially wines and ciders. Love the outdoors and used to cycle a lot.
Very open minded but serious about kink. Need a sub (or switch) in my life to make it complete x
bl00d, permanent marks
No skat or vomit.
face piercings (I have sens0ry issues)
I find the opposite to be true. I get blocking someone who doesn't respect your boundaries. I've blocked quite a few people, subs and Doms
But ghosting after talking for a bit is so frustrating. Especially when I can see they're reading messages. Just say you're not interested and we can both move Read more… on. Why keep reading messages and not responding, especially since we seemed to have a good conversation before?
Just say ya found someone or push the 'not interested ' button or something. No idea what ya want if you don't communicate properly.
I use a VPN these days. I recommend proton. Do not use Nord.
Not for nothing but there is an ability in the profile editor to list kinks. You obviously have written a lot so i can understand your frustration with people who don't read it. Kink compatibility is important just as much as personality. I can't be with a brat who gets off on heavy impact play by Read more… teasing/annoying a Dom for example.
Maybe it's just my 'Tism but I hate the vague open ended questions like 'what does X look like' or 'how kinky are you' etc. They can be interpreted in a dozen different ways and if I'm asked questions like that I don't know what their meaning is. If I try to answer I know I'll get the wrong interpretation and they get annoyed for not answering correctly. If I ask them to be more specific they also get annoyed. Literally a lose/lose situation for me. I know there are a lot of people on the spectrum on here who probably feel the same.
I try to ask specific questions or talk about experiences and what they like and don't like in and out of kink.
So idk. Maybe just list your kinks using the checklist available on the profile editor and then point people to it if they ask. ✌️