As someone already said here, the people who really care about you will want to pay attention to your needs and wants, as well. Or if my partner does not know what I need, he wants me to tell him so he can help if he can. I would not describe our relationship as DDlg but he does have a Read more… dominant/caring energy. I remember early on when we were dating, I was starting to feel highly emotional one day and was having trouble bc I’m not used to showing or processing emotions around anyone (from *** of being seen as “too much”). I just wanted to get away bc I didn’t know how he’d react. Then he came over to me and held my face in his hands and basically said, “It’s ok to feel what you’re feeling and it’s ok to tell me about it.” I’ve never felt so seen by a partner. He will also do things like remind me to tie my shoes or ask me if I’ve been drinking enough water lol.
💕You deserve to be around someone that sees you💕

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Sounds like insecure/disorganized attachment on your part, which I get bc I am currently doing a lot of f*cking work to change my own attachment style which is just that. All this is said with care and respect for you. Don’t base how you feel on what type of attention you are getting/or not getting Read more… from anyone else. Work on forming a secure attachment with your own self. Don’t give your power away 💝

If you take your time and have a good heart behind whatever you do with them, I can see them being yours in a real way