DaddyCool89 Be there for the kid, but leave her be and don't talk to her. Best advice I can give you. Be there for the kid, but leave her be and don't talk to her. Best advice I can give you.

TheAlphaSub This is not an easy question. I would say that if she left you before starting a new relationship then maybe take it slow, getting to know one another first. People change and she may no longer be the person you so clearly love. If, however, she was unfaithful... Well, there are 7+ billion people in the world. Take the opportunity to explore, figure out who you are now, what you want. Fear often keeps people in unhappy places, that's no way to live. This is not an easy question. I would say that if she left you before starting a new relationship then maybe take it slow, getting to know one another first. People change and she may no longer be the person you so clearly love. If, however, she was unfaithful... Well, there are 7+ billion people in the world. Take the opportunity to explore, figure out who you are now, what you want. Fear often keeps people in unhappy places, that's no way to live.

eyemblacksheep I guess a little bit. Think of it like a job. Most people leave jobs because they're not longer satisfied. Which can come under my umbrellas. Even if it's a job you liked that you left in order for a big pay boost or to get into a new industry, or closer to home.
Something happens and this new Read more… job isn't the big thing it promised to be - but your old boss is happy to have you back. Whatever reason it was you left will still exist. And it'll always ever be temporary until something new comes up.
(I've seen this happen so many times with people who've returned to jobs)
And of course, a job is something we maybe go into optimistically, but know there's no expectancy on long-term commitment. Relationships we tend to hope will last.

Bisto I really feel for you. At least you found out before you got married. Say she did go for this. Can you honestly say you wouldn't have an issue knowing she was sleeping with you & him..especially knowing it's your neighbour? Trust your gut xx I really feel for you. At least you found out before you got married. Say she did go for this. Can you honestly say you wouldn't have an issue knowing she was sleeping with you & him..especially knowing it's your neighbour? Trust your gut xx

Vandalslut ➦Vandalslut quote Deleted profile:❝Just have a conversation with her and learn what you have done wrong or where did you failed in that relationship. If someone is looking for somewhere else there is a reason
so many right wing narrow minded judgemental people here. ❞
Whether Hightymz failed or Read more… not, this was still a deceitful act. If anything was wrong or failing, she needed to speak up - at least she did so before the wedding. And perhaps there wasn't anything necessarily 'wrong' - that's a bit judgemental too. Some woman are just unable to settle down with one man/partner, when it comes down to it. But be up front if that's the case - don't cheat and certainly don't involve his mate next door.

MossyBoy There are always 2 sides to a story, however, when you read such a story as this, he does not mention ANY conversations where she spoke openly and honestly with him, so we can only look at the story as it is presented. The way it is presented, indicates to me that the woman would rather cheat than talk. Others can make their own minds up and form their own opinions. There are always 2 sides to a story, however, when you read such a story as this, he does not mention ANY conversations where she spoke openly and honestly with him, so we can only look at the story as it is presented. The way it is presented, indicates to me that the woman would rather cheat than talk. Others can make their own minds up and form their own opinions.