I'm a strange mix of shy, quirky, a bit hyperactive, introverted and very, very essentric. Im a also, stubborn, bossy, and a total nerd. I love books, painting, writing stories, learning and watching animated films. Im a huge fan of Doctor Who, Harry Potter and Grimm. I have known I was a dominant for a long time, but have only explored a little. So, I'm still very new to this.

I am Demisexual. This means that I don't really feel sexual arousal or attraction for another person unless I develop an emotional connection too. I do enjoy playing and bdsm, I just dont really equate it to sex straightaway. I do get turned on by bdsm, but I still dont feel sexually attracted to my partner just because of that. It takes time for me to warm up to someone and sexual attraction isnt instant for me. But when I do warm up. I. Warm. Up.

So if you message me, you'd have a better chance starting a normal conversation with me than any kind of dirty talk. I only enjoy it if I instigate it. And I only reply to polight, thoughtful, messages that directly state meaning over small talk. No, I am not stuck up. I am a very blunt person and prefer when others are the same. I don't have the patience for small talk. I like deep conversations. And when people are polite to me, I will always be polite in return. (I am always polite, unless provoked. Then I'm sarcastic and cutting.)

And you better be a patient soul, because I don't do ANYTHING unless Im good and ready. I may be shy, but I am also very stubborn. Im never controlled, I only do what I'm told If I see a beneficial point to it (something I really need to work on for work) I am comfortable in my own company and will not be pressured into anything. However, I PREFER to be in the company of others. If I like you, I'm an easy person to be friends with and I am very loyal to and protective over what I consider mine: be it an object or a person. I take care of what's mine.

I've been told Im 'the easiest person to befriend, but the hardest person to know,' by my acquaintances. My best friend said 'I'm pretty easy to get to know if you actually want to.' Make of that what you wish.


I know this isn't what most people expect from a dominant, but this is who I am and I will not apologise for it. Accept it or don't. This means that I am looking for friends, events and if I would be so luckly, a long-term relationship.

I want to be in a respectful and loving relationship with someone who enjoys kink and understands that side of me. I am a sensation dom. I am less interested in degrading, and more into sensation play. My fetishes vary depending on my mood, and Im still discovering myself. But I like bondage, rope, domination/submission, flogging, spanking, using toys to create sensations, blindfolds, begging and aftercare.

I would like to learn more about tying rope, but I'm learning I sometimes enjoy being tied. But only if it's on my command.

That's all I can think of to write for now. I wanted to write something serious and honest because I'm a serious and honest person. (But I'm VERY essentric too...be ready for that)

I'll update if I can come up with something better to write.