Newbie in general including dating but long list of things I'm looking forward to with the right person. (Most of this stuff is still just a fantasy at this point.) Would much prefer to find one or very small number of friends, not really into the whole swinging thing, (not that there's anything wrong with that.) Never say "never" as they say. Just I'm more of a 1-1 person. And I'm mostly interested in what my partner wants. And so if you want me to dominate, I'll do that. And I'll enjoy you enjoying it.

My personality is more to the dominant side, but am interested in exploring the sub side of things.

Don't know yet. But want to find out. No sharp things, cutting, needles. Other than some bumps, marks and bruise leave things the way you found them.