I'm gender indifferent in my attractions and a vers-bottom. I serve fluffy genderfuk, a beardy enby silver fem-bear. I lean slightly towards the furry; maybe more accurate to call me a cutesie, I love cute beings of untold power from animated sci-fi and fantasy -- planet destroying cuteness.

I like parties. I like watching, being watched and being in group scenes. I'm new to receiving and inflicting ***. I like floggers, restraints and paddles and have taken a fair whacking with a rider's crop, look at the pics! I'm exploring my style and I think I'm a top sub – I say what implements you hit me with, in what order, where on my body, and how hard. I'm looking for the dom/me to know when to suggest something new to try. It'd be nice if they are switchy too. I'm not into the roleplaying side much, just make my skin hurt. I'll play along, whatever, don't think I could get into cnc or primal.

I've yet to find a chilli that defeated me, and I grow Carolina Reapers. My home made chili sauce is a bit extreme and I've used it to give spicy rimjobs. Some like it, or not so much.

I go to SaunaSauna in Northwich for their monthly 14hr bi party 1st Friday each month (I usually go for 5 hours, leaving 11ish). They've just introduced a bonus bi day on the 4th Saturday of any 5 Saturday month (next bonus is October 24th). They usually do 2 bi parties in December. I go to other bi events or an afternoon at a gay sauna as and when the mood takes me.

2023, Eostre: after 12 years, I married my love, an AS homoro. Everything I do here, I do with his informed consent and encouragement.

Anyone looking for a drummer? I'm in to hard proggy rock, gentle proggy folk, proggy cartoon techno-pop, indulgent proggy indie-jazz. I jam guitar too. I also dazzle on the rusty trombone!!

Srsly, let's jam.

Absolute hard limit: no needle or blade play and no testicular , never not ever, at the first suggestion of it, play will end and I will walk away and probably have a poor mental health episode for a week or two. These are my PTSD triggers, not up for debate or compromise, I will not consent.

No , no intentional poop, no puke. No marks on face, neck or arms. Not interested in being ***d, no hairpulling.