I also have a somnophilia kink. My sub and I have a 24/7 dynamic, and she gave me consent to do what ever I'd like to when she's asleep. I just usually accidentally wake her up accidentally trying.
That may actually work really well for me, honestly. I never really considered it.
I do this a bit time to time. I know she's ok with anything I want. We dabble in cnc sometimes too, but only barely. I can definitely objectify her in my head. When I try to enact those things in person I kinda freeze, or talk myself out of it. Maybe it's a confidence issue? Sometimes I'm scared Read more… ill do something she doesn't like and she'll be upset. Though rationally I know she won't, she'll just safe word me if it's too much, but I think past experiences are keeping me back, too.
whatever you decide to use, place it in a condom first - and anything which has liklihood to break the condom or come in skin contact, make sure is disinfected first
avoid wood or anything likely to break or splinter. avoid anything with a smaller base than tip (likely to go up and not back down) I think without stating the obvious, most household items weren't designed for anal play and carry assorted risks
whatever you decide to use, place it in a condom first - and anything which has liklihood to break the condom or come in skin contact, make sure is disinfected first
avoid wood or anything likely to break or splinter. avoid anything with a smaller base than tip (likely to go up and not back down)
A clean toilet plunger.
Her own toothbrush. ❞
I've researched it some as it was something I seen recommended a lot. It isn't something I think would be a good fit because of some health issues my partner has, otherwise I'd be all about it. Lol