‘Charismatic, tenacious, funny, very intelligent, and interesting to talk to’… at least that’s how a close friend describes me! But who am I to argue 😊.
I’m flexible on the type of relationship I’m willing to pursue, for me it’s all about the person, the connection, and whether we can build something genuine and exciting. I'm also open to a purely online or long distance arrangement.

I’ve not had much exposure to the kink lifestyle in the sense of being on dating sites, forums, or attending events. My experience in the world of kink has been with long term partners. As I’m now single, I’m putting myself out there and ready to immerse myself in the lifestyle, as it were.
I’m a natural dom looking for a partner who is a natural sub or happy to be in that role.

I am very loyal and protective, have deep empathy and respect, but at the same time I have high expectations and hate to be let down,
I’m a caring person, I’m affectionate and enjoy everyday physical contact. I’m good at looking after people, eg aftercare etc. Being an ex-teacher I can put on a performance when required!

I’m private, I may come across a bit shy, but I am quietly confident and know my own mind. Once you and I get to know each other, I truly thrive.
I have a strong sense of fairness and justice, and as I said before loyalty.
I need direct and honest conversations, anything too vague will stress me out. I can be quite impulsive, a bit unpredictable as well, which can keep people on their toes, but useful in power dynamics! I have a few quirks, eg I will take your words literally, and expect you to follow through with what you say. As a dom I would likely discipline you if you didn’t 😉.

If you don't have a profile picture I will find it very hard to connect with you to begin with, its like you're not a real person until I can see you! weird hey. You can always send me one privately if you wish to chat if that helps.
My kinky side is very much attracted to the emotional psychological nature, and I love the power dynamics of a dom/sub relationship. I’m not currently into anything heavy but I’m quite willing to give a lot of things a go and see where that develops.

My limits: anything that endangers my mental health! Situations that make me feel ***. I don’t like inflicting or receiving hard ***, light discipline, spanking, slapping and the like is good; more could be negotiated.

I'm very chatty online so please ask any questions. Oh please don't ghost me, I hate that.

My limits: anything that endangers my mental health! Situations that make me feel ***. I don’t like inflicting or receiving hard ***, light discipline, spanking, slapping and the like is good; more could be negotiated.