There is more to life than anyone ever allowed you to believe...

Sex is a doorway to personal power but there has to be an element of tension - fear, submission, surrender... whatever, and intensity.

Dominance is empowering, but with power comes responsibility and that engenders both the respect shown before the kinky stuff, and the tender ministrations after the event. Both should be as pleasurable as the sex itself.

When a partner surrenders totally what follows can be transcendental - and we are talking beyond tantra here - the energy released is the source of real magick. BUT - there are a few caveats...

Sex magick only works beyond normal levels of orgasm - a quick slap and tickle simply won't do!

It also requires a level of personal alchemy - so I am not looking for one night stands. Personal alchemy evolves through intimacy and absolute trust, both of which take time to develop.

Also the energy flows that occur during magickal sex are subtle electric currents that pass first from the orgasmic female, and then back again in the opposite direction. First female sex energy enhances the male partner, and then he reciprocates with his own male energy. This means two things;

(a) you come first ?

and (b) sadly, no condoms. Latex resists the subtle energies that are exchanged at the time of mutual orgasm (which is a shame - I mean, who doesn't love condoms, right??). But that also means good sexual hygiene and monogamy whilst in the relationship is vital.

We should also talk about age... When I was a young man I learned what I do from older women, which is why I am good at what I do. Now I am older I teach younger women (preferably 25-35 but would consider 18-25 provided they are both mature enough, and have sufficient experience to know that alternative is what they want). No brats, no littles though, just strong minded independent women who know what they want.


I'm a caregiver in the 'kiss it better after' sense - feed yourself!

Oh, and you should be curious enough about life to be capable of good conversation, and good humoured enough to find the funny.

As to what we will do that largely depends on you - I have listed elsewhere my quite broad tastes and, with the exception of a very few kinks (no scat, scarification, blood sports etc) I love it all. Only two things are pre-ordered 1) I am and will remain totally sexually dominant at all times and 2) once we have established your own boundaries we will continue to push them back every time we meet.

If you haven't already realised I am looking for one special partner so there will probably be quite a lot of chat before we actually meet - I need to satisfy myself that you are the right woman for the job.

If you have read this far and are not interested, thank you for your time. If you are curious to know what you are capable of, message me.

I want to start at the absolute edge of your comfort zone, and then see how far we can stretch it...