Hard dom with a very compassionate side; it may hurt now but learning to love it is part of the appeal.

Slow but firm hands with the aftercare to match. Accepting, trusting and big on personal growth. Talents include teaching you to both love and embrace yourself.

Most of my kink progression has been about introducing others to the world firmly and helping them realise how unique and beautiful they are. Contrary to what some may tell you, the community aspect is important and you should never feel as though you're being used or taken for granted. If you are then you're not exploring your kinks, you're being manipulated.

Don't fall victim to pretenders or those just "trying out" fetish life - ensure you feel safe and trust the person first.

Good luck!