Sex Worker - Client

For kinksters who like role play

What equipment do you need for sex worker-client role play?

What do you say in sex worker-client role play?

Can you do sex worker-client role play at home?

For kinksters who like role play

Sex worker-client is a common fantasy for people of all sexual orientations and gender identities. For some people, this fantasy is best lived out by hiring a sex worker and doing it for real - but for others, especially for those who like to imagine themselves as the sex worker but have no real-world interest in getting involved in the industry, role play is the right way to go. There are all manner of balance of power dynamics to explore, as well as plenty of dress-up opportunities and role play scenes! For many, the appeal is in the idea of anonymity or "seediness"; there are loads of ways to go with this, though, so discuss clearly with your partner in advance what you're interested in.

What is sex worker-client role play?

Role play is pretending to be something you’re usually not. Sex worker-client role play can involve all kinds of paid for sex situations creating interesting power exchanges.

What equipment do you need for sex worker-client role play?

There isn’t really any need for special equipment, unless maybe you want to pretend to be something specific like a pole dancer or a stripper with props. What you will need is some money for the client to pay with, it is, after all the central pillar of this kind of scenario.

What do you say in sex worker-client role play?

It’s all about getting paid. So some conversation around what the client want should be followed up with an agreed price. Let your imagination take control. It is a good idea to agree beforehand what limits there are on the scene. Some people might really want humiliation and degradation play, others might not. Agree in advance so the scene is hot for all involved.

Can you do sex worker-client role play at home?

You might think this kind of role play needs to happen outside the home. It can, you could indulge in a hotel or in the back of a car but you can do it just as effectively at home, but you can do it just as effectively at home. If you want it to feel like a different place use a different colour bulb or maybe different bedding to make it feel like you’re not in your own bedroom.

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Role play is a fun way to add a little spice to any relationship. You don’t need any special equipment all you need is your imagination and a couple of sexy roles to actually play. Handyman comes over to pretty girl’s house to fix something or other must be one of the most famous storylines in porn and it’s easy enough to replicate in real life. Wear overalls and carry a tool box or just improvise, there’s no one right way to play, just get handsy and have lots of fun fixing stuff that isn’t broken. No need to know your way round a u-bend for Handyman role play!

Talk dirty to me

Most people get turned on when they hear someone telling them about what they'd like to do to them later, though only if it's the right person and the right situation, of course! For kinksters, this tendency can become a fetish in its own right: dirty talk in a BDSM context can often be quite harsh and aggressive, and to an outsider might even seem humiliating or abusive. Make sure before you try something like this that you've had some crystal clear conversations about it beforehand. For most people, there are some things that will turn them on and others that will be an instant mood-killer, so be as careful as possible, and make sure you know what those things are in advance. It's also important to ensure you aren't overheard by anyone who might feel uncomfortable about your dirty talk, particularly if your specific kinks are ones it might be easy to misinterpret.

Make your role play fantasies come alive

Sexual role play is a staple of pornography, but all kinds of folks love it out here in the real world too. Plenty of people find that certain things are sexier in imagination than they are in reality; non-consent fantasies are a classic example of this. Other role play ideas are fantasies involving certain stereotyped roles (police officers, schoolgirls, hot mysterious strangers). With role playing games, or RPG, you can explore these things in safety and in comfort, alongside someone who in reality you already know and trust.