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Shadow_Mistress_X
Shadow_Mistress_X
I am brand new to the community and open to explore new ventures!😉 I am willing to try almost anything, but I do not wish to have S3X - I am here to play and have some fun with like minded people, so lets see how creative you can be😏😜
Female (27) Strand, Western Cape
Jay-1391
Jay-1391
Not looking for a full time Dom, Bratty sub No social media so don't ask Please read my profile first, I can tell when you haven't 420 If you don't like brats or pets 👀 don't text Read my limits If you DON'T listen to me when I say NO I will BLOCK you, respect me its all I ask. I'm tired of assholes. DON'T expect me to be easy if you disappear for days then come back for a chat
Female (21) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
VeronicaZAR
VeronicaZAR
Zulu goddess that loves to play with obedient boys. 5years as a dominatrix I've encountered in many plays which I've enjoyed, so don't be scared goddess knows X.. T. W..i..T..E..R(@Goddess_V22Sa)
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Kinkyzn
Kinkyzn
I have a broad mind and there isn't much that I wouldn't do, all depending of course. I tend to obey and enjoy pleasing the one that pleases me. Respect is earned, trust is given Likes:- When Sir looks after me, And if you really interested, you welcome to ask
Female (47) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
BeeGee
BeeGee
I am currently in a domestic discipline relationship (DDLG) and hoping to meet friends who are within the BDSM community as it gets very lonely out here. Being a good girl makes me happy. But I must first be bad to be good ;-) I enjoy reading, writing and honestly thinking in general. I love pop music of all genres. Yeah that is about it.
Female (34) Menlo Park, Gauteng
ChubbySnuggleMuffin
ChubbySnuggleMuffin
Hello! I’m a sweet, sensitive 28-year-old little exploring this world with love and care. I’m looking for a nurturing, protective caregiver who understands the need for emotional connection and patience. Right now, I’m just here to learn and grow in a safe space. I’m interested in soft, nurturing dynamics and someone who values care, trust, and affection over anything else. I’m not in a rush—just looking for someone who can offer safety, patience, and gentle affection. I’m also happy to make friends and connect with like-minded souls who enjoy emotional depth and softness. If you’re kind, gentle, and enjoy caring for a little, feel free to reach out. I’m excited to meet you!
Female (29) Scottburgh, KwaZulu-Natal
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Sexy busty , coloured woman looking to enjoy some fun with the right sub. I'm a femdom. Show your worthy and maybe I'll let you suck me. I'm bi sexual
Female (30) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Crimson-6131
Crimson-6131
I’m petite, wear glasses, and have brown eyes with an oval face. I’m an avid reader, writer, and poet, always getting lost in words and stories. I love both the outdoors and cozy indoor moments, depending on the mood. One of my favorite pastimes is binge-watching true crime and building my own profiles on the cases I dive into. I’m here for genuine conversation, meaningful connection, and friendship, and I’m open to wherever that might lead.
Female (21) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Pink_Kee96
P********6
Not here for Hookups /casual hi I’m Kea,my best friends call me Kee. I’m a sub mostly, a switch depending on the type of relationship I’m in. I’m into impact play (***, orgasm denial and being roughly handled), but mostly I love being treated like princess most if the time. I’m into men who are smart, quick witted and have their own interests. I find it very hot when a man has hobbies that he is passionate about. I also have my own 😂. I love a dom who takes charge and enjoys it. who looks out for my well-being and I take care of him in my own way.
Female (29) Bloemfontein, Free State
johannesburg949
j*************9
I'm a sub/brat who absolutely loves giving love and receiving it. my hubby and I agree on connecting and fluid motion of people,vibes and just being part of a community that understands communication and respecting boundaries. I love my sassy ways that come with a lot of heart.. always ready to be here to serve after my spank and a glass of wine.. respect ,loyalty honestly goes a long way.
Female (33) Johannesburg, Gauteng
mommys_here
m*********e
Hi my lovey. Well I’ve never really seen myself as a sub and I never have been. I’ve always enjoyed being the more dominant one in the relationship, and I noticed I love being a mommy. I like taking care of my partner and just nurturing them to their heart’s content. I can’t wait to make you my fucking ***, don’t worry, I’ll take care of you.
Female (20) Boordfontein, Gauteng
Lokiano
L*****o
i am mainly a sub but also partly a switch, i prefer bdsm with primal touches im looking to be intelectually and emotionally stimulated, im not against specific kinks as long as they are done hygenically
Female (25) Bellville, Western Cape
sub_becca
s*******a
I’m single at the moment. I’m FOR THE WOMEN ONLY. Open to trying new things. Message me and find out.
Female (20) Kempton Park, Gauteng
littlethroatgxat
l**************t
A devoted submissive slut with a very specialized talent (and obsession!) for pleasing. I’m a head obsessed goat and I bring that singular focus to everything I do.
Female (19) Boitekong, North West
londiwe2000
l*********0
as I’m a South Africa black beautiful women base in Easter cape city I’m biomedical student at the university of Walter sisilu I love trying out nice restaurants I’d love to travel to see beautiful place looking for a provide a loving and caring gent to end up having long term relationships ❤️‍🩹🥰❤️
Female (25) Humansdorp, Eastern Cape
Hailey_69
H*******9
I'm a 5'3ft petite girl who love having some fun exploring my sexuality. I've haven't done anything with girls even though I'm bi. I'm down to try new things.
Female (22) Athlone, Western Cape
MistressSego
M**********o
I am not interested in playing pretend. I am a Domatry, not a title I wear for aesthetics, but a truth I live with purpose. My dominance is not loud or performative. It is intentional, controlled, and deeply rooted in who I am. I command respect not because I demand it, but because I embody it. Every gesture, every word, every silence has meaning. I do not chase. I observe, I select, and I lead. This space is not about fantasy. It is about dynamic reality, the electric tension between trust and control, devotion and discipline, pleasure and power. I’m not here to entertain bored tourists or thrill-seekers with no understanding of the depths this lifestyle offers.
Female (38) Johannesburg, Gauteng
GreedyGoddes
G**********s
I’m your ultimate temptation… and I don’t settle for less than devotion. Tributes, attention, and gifts are my love language. Worship me… if you dare.
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
durban54041
d*********1
I’m a jazz soul that lives by improvising, feeling, and flowing with purpose. I find beauty in energy, silence, and small moments that speak louder than words. Creativity runs through me...whether it’s writing, music, or manifesting the life I envision. I value kindness, depth, and connection that feels real. The kind that stirs something beyond the surface. I live by intuition, guided by faith, rhythm, and the quiet certainty that everything meant for me will find its way.
Female (18) Westville, KwaZulu-Natal
Yanda_M
Y*****M
I’m a dominant woman who knows what she wants-strength, elegance, and a man who can match my intensity. I love to lead with confidence, but I also have a softer side that thrives when I’m genuinely cared for, adored, and spoiled with real attention. I’m not here for boys who play — I’m drawn to mature, secure men who know how to treat a woman like a priority. If you carry yourself like a man who provides comfort, presence, and power, we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (23) Johannesburg, Gauteng
MistressLX
M********X
Powerful, divine and Confident. only those who truly understand their place can please me.
Female (27) Johannesburg, Gauteng

New members in South Africa

Crimson-6131
Crimson-6131
I’m petite, wear glasses, and have brown eyes with an oval face. I’m an avid reader, writer, and poet, always getting lost in words and stories. I love both the outdoors and cozy indoor moments, depending on the mood. One of my favorite pastimes is binge-watching true crime and building my own profiles on the cases I dive into. I’m here for genuine conversation, meaningful connection, and friendship, and I’m open to wherever that might lead.
Female (21) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Shadow_Mistress_X
Shadow_Mistress_X
I am brand new to the community and open to explore new ventures!😉 I am willing to try almost anything, but I do not wish to have S3X - I am here to play and have some fun with like minded people, so lets see how creative you can be😏😜
Female (27) Strand, Western Cape
VeronicaZAR
VeronicaZAR
Zulu goddess that loves to play with obedient boys. 5years as a dominatrix I've encountered in many plays which I've enjoyed, so don't be scared goddess knows X.. T. W..i..T..E..R(@Goddess_V22Sa)
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Sexy busty , coloured woman looking to enjoy some fun with the right sub. I'm a femdom. Show your worthy and maybe I'll let you suck me. I'm bi sexual
Female (30) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Jay-1391
Jay-1391
Not looking for a full time Dom, Bratty sub No social media so don't ask Please read my profile first, I can tell when you haven't 420 If you don't like brats or pets 👀 don't text Read my limits If you DON'T listen to me when I say NO I will BLOCK you, respect me its all I ask. I'm tired of assholes. DON'T expect me to be easy if you disappear for days then come back for a chat
Female (21) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
Kinkyzn
Kinkyzn
I have a broad mind and there isn't much that I wouldn't do, all depending of course. I tend to obey and enjoy pleasing the one that pleases me. Respect is earned, trust is given Likes:- When Sir looks after me, And if you really interested, you welcome to ask
Female (47) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
BeeGee
BeeGee
I am currently in a domestic discipline relationship (DDLG) and hoping to meet friends who are within the BDSM community as it gets very lonely out here. Being a good girl makes me happy. But I must first be bad to be good ;-) I enjoy reading, writing and honestly thinking in general. I love pop music of all genres. Yeah that is about it.
Female (34) Menlo Park, Gauteng
ChubbySnuggleMuffin
ChubbySnuggleMuffin
Hello! I’m a sweet, sensitive 28-year-old little exploring this world with love and care. I’m looking for a nurturing, protective caregiver who understands the need for emotional connection and patience. Right now, I’m just here to learn and grow in a safe space. I’m interested in soft, nurturing dynamics and someone who values care, trust, and affection over anything else. I’m not in a rush—just looking for someone who can offer safety, patience, and gentle affection. I’m also happy to make friends and connect with like-minded souls who enjoy emotional depth and softness. If you’re kind, gentle, and enjoy caring for a little, feel free to reach out. I’m excited to meet you!
Female (29) Scottburgh, KwaZulu-Natal
Pink_Kee96
P********6
Not here for Hookups /casual hi I’m Kea,my best friends call me Kee. I’m a sub mostly, a switch depending on the type of relationship I’m in. I’m into impact play (***, orgasm denial and being roughly handled), but mostly I love being treated like princess most if the time. I’m into men who are smart, quick witted and have their own interests. I find it very hot when a man has hobbies that he is passionate about. I also have my own 😂. I love a dom who takes charge and enjoys it. who looks out for my well-being and I take care of him in my own way.
Female (29) Bloemfontein, Free State
durban54041
d*********1
I’m a jazz soul that lives by improvising, feeling, and flowing with purpose. I find beauty in energy, silence, and small moments that speak louder than words. Creativity runs through me...whether it’s writing, music, or manifesting the life I envision. I value kindness, depth, and connection that feels real. The kind that stirs something beyond the surface. I live by intuition, guided by faith, rhythm, and the quiet certainty that everything meant for me will find its way.
Female (18) Westville, KwaZulu-Natal
GreedyGoddes
G**********s
I’m your ultimate temptation… and I don’t settle for less than devotion. Tributes, attention, and gifts are my love language. Worship me… if you dare.
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
littlethroatgxat
l**************t
A devoted submissive slut with a very specialized talent (and obsession!) for pleasing. I’m a head obsessed goat and I bring that singular focus to everything I do.
Female (19) Boitekong, North West
MistressSego
M**********o
I am not interested in playing pretend. I am a Domatry, not a title I wear for aesthetics, but a truth I live with purpose. My dominance is not loud or performative. It is intentional, controlled, and deeply rooted in who I am. I command respect not because I demand it, but because I embody it. Every gesture, every word, every silence has meaning. I do not chase. I observe, I select, and I lead. This space is not about fantasy. It is about dynamic reality, the electric tension between trust and control, devotion and discipline, pleasure and power. I’m not here to entertain bored tourists or thrill-seekers with no understanding of the depths this lifestyle offers.
Female (38) Johannesburg, Gauteng
MistressLX
M********X
Powerful, divine and Confident. only those who truly understand their place can please me.
Female (27) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Yanda_M
Y*****M
I’m a dominant woman who knows what she wants-strength, elegance, and a man who can match my intensity. I love to lead with confidence, but I also have a softer side that thrives when I’m genuinely cared for, adored, and spoiled with real attention. I’m not here for boys who play — I’m drawn to mature, secure men who know how to treat a woman like a priority. If you carry yourself like a man who provides comfort, presence, and power, we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (23) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Hailey_69
H*******9
I'm a 5'3ft petite girl who love having some fun exploring my sexuality. I've haven't done anything with girls even though I'm bi. I'm down to try new things.
Female (22) Athlone, Western Cape
londiwe2000
l*********0
as I’m a South Africa black beautiful women base in Easter cape city I’m biomedical student at the university of Walter sisilu I love trying out nice restaurants I’d love to travel to see beautiful place looking for a provide a loving and caring gent to end up having long term relationships ❤️‍🩹🥰❤️
Female (25) Humansdorp, Eastern Cape
Lokiano
L*****o
i am mainly a sub but also partly a switch, i prefer bdsm with primal touches im looking to be intelectually and emotionally stimulated, im not against specific kinks as long as they are done hygenically
Female (25) Bellville, Western Cape
sub_becca
s*******a
I’m single at the moment. I’m FOR THE WOMEN ONLY. Open to trying new things. Message me and find out.
Female (20) Kempton Park, Gauteng
mommys_here
m*********e
Hi my lovey. Well I’ve never really seen myself as a sub and I never have been. I’ve always enjoyed being the more dominant one in the relationship, and I noticed I love being a mommy. I like taking care of my partner and just nurturing them to their heart’s content. I can’t wait to make you my fucking ***, don’t worry, I’ll take care of you.
Female (20) Boordfontein, Gauteng
johannesburg949
j*************9
I'm a sub/brat who absolutely loves giving love and receiving it. my hubby and I agree on connecting and fluid motion of people,vibes and just being part of a community that understands communication and respecting boundaries. I love my sassy ways that come with a lot of heart.. always ready to be here to serve after my spank and a glass of wine.. respect ,loyalty honestly goes a long way.
Female (33) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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bigdicklover666
Can someone restore my will to live

Idk anymore. I just need a dom to take care of me
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Alexandria
Ellecaring4U
Let’s explore

I like oldies… they are underrated 😅😜👅… I’m looking from 50s above. The youngsters are too playful for my likening. So if you’re at the age level of my propose, don’t be shy… message me right away! 😜
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ShesFromVenus
Twinkle toes 🥰

I just want my feet to be worshipped
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abrepocket23
Men who like masculine women

It’s hard how can I not touch it.

Just a tomboy infatuated with how hard men get. a throbbing hand shake. Would love to get more hand shakes.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Newburgh
Qingdomcum44
Bow down and listen

Your Qing does not ask for devotion—she inspires it. Drawn by intelligence, captivated by confidence, and guided by purpose, you willingly step into your place.
I transform potential into excellence and loyalty into something unforgettable. Under my gaze, excuses disappear, limits are challenged, and growth becomes inevitable.
You are not here by accident. You are here because some part of you craves structure, purpose, and the intoxicating pull of serving something extraordinary.
Serve with intention. Submit to growth. Earn the privilege of belonging in my kingdom.
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kinkyTayTay
Hosting In temple hills

Available to host tonight
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Clinton
MsNight
Ballbusting & CBT

IRL sessions, I preferred, taunting and teasing ball busting sessions…

For online sessions, I prefer text, audio, or video tasks, whichever you are comfortable with…
Finding the right mix between pleasure and ***… Going back-and-forth making you wonder what is coming next…
For my newbie, I use household items and for the vets I of course use toys that have been acquired overtime…
Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Murfreesboro
Meg69
Mommy/Daddy Wanted

My name is Meg and I am looking for a dominant mommy and/or daddy to play with. I can only play online right now as my schedule is very busy. Please let me know if you want to be my mommy and/or daddy. Warning: i'm a little brat that needs to be tamed
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Oak Ridge
Eeveeloverclub4
Anyone willing to kidnap me for the night?😘🥺

Looking for someone to see me in public and kidnap me and make my CNC dreams come true 😩
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Darbydale
laryssa2005
CONTROL ME

Currently looking for a master/ owner who wants to control me in all that I do. When I can eat, sleep, wake up, use the bathroom, etc. I want to give up total control over my life and body. My only purpose is to serve you. LONG TERM CYBERFUN ONLY. HMU if u want total power over me 😉
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Bridgeport
kinkyhotwife4all
Looking for nerdy gamer type

Hubby and I just watched a hot porn with a sexy girl and 2 nerds. I want that 😊. In Tampa and we can host at hotel.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Panama City
detroit13737
Want a night time fun

A dom who Is open to helping a new sub explore pleasure in submission
NSA ● 18 to 30 years ● 25km around USA Lombard
iceicebaby2345_78
BBC BWC front of the line lol

Looking for just fun and casual… in my hoe phase , little late but 🤷🏻‍♀️
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Canada Woodbridge
Liluladylilith
Kissing pretty girls

I just wanna kiss pretty girls. Here for emotional/ oral support
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 38 years ● 25km around USA Orem
Prettycandy
Seeking Experienced Older Dominant

I’m looking for an experienced older dominant who loves mental domination as much as the physical side, I’m seeking a real experienced dominant who knows the ins and outs and psychology behind it or at least some understanding.
Must have patience I’m a good girl when I want but do have brat tendencies.
I’m looking for mostly online but with occasional meets preferred
I’m married so no judgement and must be discreet and no marks
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 70 years ● 179km around UK London
babygirlpink
Slave or sub wanted

Hi my dom and I are looking for someone to join our relationship brownie points if your a slave but all submissives are welcome messages me if interested
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Sunderland
seattle769769
Tacoma?

I keep hearing about the great munches in Tacoma and how it’s more diverse, too 👉🏽👈🏽 Any QTBIPOC wanna go with me? 🥹 😆
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● Northwest Leather Calendar in USA Seattle
imafknfairy
I want a sweet boy🥴💕

I want a sweet boy.. a little prey for me to devour and use how i see fit I will drain him of all his energy and use him as nothing but a ***toy to fulfill my fantasies and give mommy love
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Chester
SparklezNsmoke
Tease me please!

I’m hoping to find something specific. Let me know if you’re into bladder control 😉
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Canada Gatineau
lusticprincess
Need a +1 to Mexican rave this saturday

Need one person to come with me to attend a Mexican style rave its in the afternoon saturday you need to be able to get ur own tickets and drive me bc Im going to drink x
Club Buddy ● 21 to 80 years ● 500km around USA San Mateo
kdz88
Miss me?

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Kinky Date ● 18 to 50 years ● 500km around USA Manchester
ImStormyOK
New to pet play.

Hey there im looking to get into pet play. Looking for a Dom with paitence 🥰. Im Pan but Looking for a more masculine leaning Dom. I like them tall with long hair. Maybe little to no facial hair and I prefer people who are goth, emo or alternative in any way.
BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 40 years ● 195km around USA Monroe
cherrygirl26
Boat Sex

Who has a boat they want to get freaky on in the ocean 😋
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Fort Pierce

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