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Shadow_Mistress_X
Shadow_Mistress_X
I am brand new to the community and open to explore new ventures!😉 I am willing to try almost anything, but I do not wish to have S3X - I am here to play and have some fun with like minded people, so lets see how creative you can be😏😜
Female (27) Strand, Western Cape
VeronicaZAR
VeronicaZAR
Zulu goddess that loves to play with obedient boys. 5years as a dominatrix I've encountered in many plays which I've enjoyed, so don't be scared goddess knows X.. T. W..i..T..E..R(@Goddess_V22Sa)
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
NakedBabe
NakedBabe
I am captivated by the rare combination of physical attraction and a stimulating mind. For me, true chemistry begins with conversation, curiosity, and the ability to connect on a deeper level. Intelligence is seductive, confidence is magnetic, and genuine presence is unforgettable. I thrive in connections where trust, desire, and mutual appreciation naturally intertwine. There is something incredibly fulfilling about being able to let go, to be fully seen, desired, and appreciated by someone whose company I genuinely enjoy. I find beauty in vulnerability, in giving and receiving affection, and in creating an atmosphere where both people feel free to explore the depth of their connection. Adaptable and open-minded, I enjoy discovering what makes someone feel alive, understood, and wanted. I am constantly learning more about myself, my desires, and the unique dynamics that make every connection different. I value passion, emotional intelligence, playful energy, and the excitement that comes from uncovering new layers of one another. At my core, I am someone who enjoys meaningful connection, undeniable chemistry, and the art of building intimacy that is both exciting and deeply fulfilling.
Female (27) Halfway House, Gauteng
Jay-1391
Jay-1391
Not looking for a full time Dom, Bratty sub No social media so don't ask Please read my profile first, I can tell when you haven't 420 If you don't like brats or pets 👀 don't text Read my limits If you DON'T listen to me when I say NO I will BLOCK you, respect me its all I ask. I'm tired of assholes. DON'T expect me to be easy if you disappear for days then come back for a chat
Female (21) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Sexy busty , coloured woman looking to enjoy some fun with the right sub. I'm a femdom. Show your worthy and maybe I'll let you suck me. I'm bi sexual
Female (30) Johannesburg, Gauteng
BeeGee
BeeGee
I am currently in a domestic discipline relationship (DDLG) and hoping to meet friends who are within the BDSM community as it gets very lonely out here. Being a good girl makes me happy. But I must first be bad to be good ;-) I enjoy reading, writing and honestly thinking in general. I love pop music of all genres. Yeah that is about it.
Female (34) Menlo Park, Gauteng
AnnaMaky
AnnaMaky
I'm ready to explore all great sexual offers. I'm horny and willing to figure out my true fetish. Let's see if I can nurse you, discipline you, or put you in your place.
Female (42) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Crimson-6131
Crimson-6131
I’m petite, wear glasses, and have brown eyes with an oval face. I’m an avid reader, writer, and poet, always getting lost in words and stories. I love both the outdoors and cozy indoor moments, depending on the mood. One of my favorite pastimes is binge-watching true crime and building my own profiles on the cases I dive into. I’m here for genuine conversation, meaningful connection, and friendship, and I’m open to wherever that might lead.
Female (21) Johannesburg, Gauteng
durban54041
d*********1
I’m a jazz soul that lives by improvising, feeling, and flowing with purpose. I find beauty in energy, silence, and small moments that speak louder than words. Creativity runs through me...whether it’s writing, music, or manifesting the life I envision. I value kindness, depth, and connection that feels real. The kind that stirs something beyond the surface. I live by intuition, guided by faith, rhythm, and the quiet certainty that everything meant for me will find its way.
Female (18) Westville, KwaZulu-Natal
GreedyGoddes
G**********s
I’m your ultimate temptation… and I don’t settle for less than devotion. Tributes, attention, and gifts are my love language. Worship me… if you dare.
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
littlethroatgxat
l**************t
A devoted submissive slut with a very specialized talent (and obsession!) for pleasing. I’m a head obsessed goat and I bring that singular focus to everything I do.
Female (19) Boitekong, North West
sub_becca
s*******a
I’m single at the moment. I’m FOR THE WOMEN ONLY. Open to trying new things. Message me and find out.
Female (20) Kempton Park, Gauteng
mommys_here
m*********e
Hi my lovey. Well I’ve never really seen myself as a sub and I never have been. I’ve always enjoyed being the more dominant one in the relationship, and I noticed I love being a mommy. I like taking care of my partner and just nurturing them to their heart’s content. I can’t wait to make you my fucking ***, don’t worry, I’ll take care of you.
Female (20) Boordfontein, Gauteng
londiwe2000
l*********0
as I’m a South Africa black beautiful women base in Easter cape city I’m biomedical student at the university of Walter sisilu I love trying out nice restaurants I’d love to travel to see beautiful place looking for a provide a loving and caring gent to end up having long term relationships ❤️‍🩹🥰❤️
Female (25) Humansdorp, Eastern Cape
MistressSego
M**********o
I am not interested in playing pretend. I am a Domatry, not a title I wear for aesthetics, but a truth I live with purpose. My dominance is not loud or performative. It is intentional, controlled, and deeply rooted in who I am. I command respect not because I demand it, but because I embody it. Every gesture, every word, every silence has meaning. I do not chase. I observe, I select, and I lead. This space is not about fantasy. It is about dynamic reality, the electric tension between trust and control, devotion and discipline, pleasure and power. I’m not here to entertain bored tourists or thrill-seekers with no understanding of the depths this lifestyle offers.
Female (38) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Hailey_69
H*******9
I'm a 5'3ft petite girl who love having some fun exploring my sexuality. I've haven't done anything with girls even though I'm bi. I'm down to try new things.
Female (22) Athlone, Western Cape
Swelly_m
S******m
Make me laugh and keep me curious, and we will see where it goes.
Female (24) Vereeniging, Gauteng
Gabygotgroomed
G************d
I’m a 61 🔁 yr old goonette. I wanna trade with ppl and maybe meet up, I want ppl to show me vids and teach me how it works, I have NL and am a 🗺️🍭. dm
Female (18) Johannesburg, Gauteng
LonelinessMe
L**********e
"Ask me about myself and I might tell you... I walk as a ghost with a broken heart, Heal me with your care, And I'll be your's forever to break, to build... " JA Protect me, adore me, love me, guide me, be my safety, my shelter, my anchor, my confidant, my knight in shining armour...
Female (40) Nelspruit, Mpumalanga
johannesburg949
j*************9
I'm a sub/brat who absolutely loves giving love and receiving it. my hubby and I agree on connecting and fluid motion of people,vibes and just being part of a community that understands communication and respecting boundaries. I love my sassy ways that come with a lot of heart.. always ready to be here to serve after my spank and a glass of wine.. respect ,loyalty honestly goes a long way.
Female (33) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Void1997
V******7
Primal-leaning brat with a soft heart. I value communication, mutual respect, playful power exchange, and aftercare just as much as chemistry. Looking for someone emotionally mature who enjoys teasing, trust, and building something meaningful—someone who understands that the best dynamics are grounded in genuine connection.
Female (28) Somerset West, Western Cape
AfricanQueen69
A************9
looking to be spoiled and treated like a queen . pay me to talk to me make me feel special and important . I have a social media account if u want more of my attention then show me ur worth my time to get it .
Female (26) George, Western Cape
Pink_Kee96
P********6
Not here for Hookups /casual hi I’m Kea,my best friends call me Kee. I’m a sub mostly, a switch depending on the type of relationship I’m in. I’m into impact play (***, orgasm denial and being roughly handled), but mostly I love being treated like princess most if the time. I’m into men who are smart, quick witted and have their own interests. I find it very hot when a man has hobbies that he is passionate about. I also have my own 😂. I love a dom who takes charge and enjoys it. who looks out for my well-being and I take care of him in my own way.
Female (29) Bloemfontein, Free State
Yanda_M
Y*****M
I’m a dominant woman who knows what she wants-strength, elegance, and a man who can match my intensity. I love to lead with confidence, but I also have a softer side that thrives when I’m genuinely cared for, adored, and spoiled with real attention. I’m not here for boys who play — I’m drawn to mature, secure men who know how to treat a woman like a priority. If you carry yourself like a man who provides comfort, presence, and power, we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (23) Johannesburg, Gauteng

New members in South Africa

NakedBabe
NakedBabe
I am captivated by the rare combination of physical attraction and a stimulating mind. For me, true chemistry begins with conversation, curiosity, and the ability to connect on a deeper level. Intelligence is seductive, confidence is magnetic, and genuine presence is unforgettable. I thrive in connections where trust, desire, and mutual appreciation naturally intertwine. There is something incredibly fulfilling about being able to let go, to be fully seen, desired, and appreciated by someone whose company I genuinely enjoy. I find beauty in vulnerability, in giving and receiving affection, and in creating an atmosphere where both people feel free to explore the depth of their connection. Adaptable and open-minded, I enjoy discovering what makes someone feel alive, understood, and wanted. I am constantly learning more about myself, my desires, and the unique dynamics that make every connection different. I value passion, emotional intelligence, playful energy, and the excitement that comes from uncovering new layers of one another. At my core, I am someone who enjoys meaningful connection, undeniable chemistry, and the art of building intimacy that is both exciting and deeply fulfilling.
Female (27) Halfway House, Gauteng
AnnaMaky
AnnaMaky
I'm ready to explore all great sexual offers. I'm horny and willing to figure out my true fetish. Let's see if I can nurse you, discipline you, or put you in your place.
Female (42) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Crimson-6131
Crimson-6131
I’m petite, wear glasses, and have brown eyes with an oval face. I’m an avid reader, writer, and poet, always getting lost in words and stories. I love both the outdoors and cozy indoor moments, depending on the mood. One of my favorite pastimes is binge-watching true crime and building my own profiles on the cases I dive into. I’m here for genuine conversation, meaningful connection, and friendship, and I’m open to wherever that might lead.
Female (21) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Shadow_Mistress_X
Shadow_Mistress_X
I am brand new to the community and open to explore new ventures!😉 I am willing to try almost anything, but I do not wish to have S3X - I am here to play and have some fun with like minded people, so lets see how creative you can be😏😜
Female (27) Strand, Western Cape
VeronicaZAR
VeronicaZAR
Zulu goddess that loves to play with obedient boys. 5years as a dominatrix I've encountered in many plays which I've enjoyed, so don't be scared goddess knows X.. T. W..i..T..E..R(@Goddess_V22Sa)
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Sexy busty , coloured woman looking to enjoy some fun with the right sub. I'm a femdom. Show your worthy and maybe I'll let you suck me. I'm bi sexual
Female (30) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Jay-1391
Jay-1391
Not looking for a full time Dom, Bratty sub No social media so don't ask Please read my profile first, I can tell when you haven't 420 If you don't like brats or pets 👀 don't text Read my limits If you DON'T listen to me when I say NO I will BLOCK you, respect me its all I ask. I'm tired of assholes. DON'T expect me to be easy if you disappear for days then come back for a chat
Female (21) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
BeeGee
BeeGee
I am currently in a domestic discipline relationship (DDLG) and hoping to meet friends who are within the BDSM community as it gets very lonely out here. Being a good girl makes me happy. But I must first be bad to be good ;-) I enjoy reading, writing and honestly thinking in general. I love pop music of all genres. Yeah that is about it.
Female (34) Menlo Park, Gauteng
Gabygotgroomed
G************d
I’m a 61 🔁 yr old goonette. I wanna trade with ppl and maybe meet up, I want ppl to show me vids and teach me how it works, I have NL and am a 🗺️🍭. dm
Female (18) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Mysticdoll
M********l
Hi luvs✨. I’m pretty new to all this, but I know some of the basics and I’m excited to keep learning. I’m still figuring out what I like, what my boundaries are and what makes me feel comfortable. I’d love to meet someone patient and respectful who can help me explore and learn more about myself and maybe find a connection that feels right. 💜
Female (18) Johannesburg, Gauteng
LonelinessMe
L**********e
"Ask me about myself and I might tell you... I walk as a ghost with a broken heart, Heal me with your care, And I'll be your's forever to break, to build... " JA Protect me, adore me, love me, guide me, be my safety, my shelter, my anchor, my confidant, my knight in shining armour...
Female (40) Nelspruit, Mpumalanga
AfricanQueen69
A************9
looking to be spoiled and treated like a queen . pay me to talk to me make me feel special and important . I have a social media account if u want more of my attention then show me ur worth my time to get it .
Female (26) George, Western Cape
Swelly_m
S******m
Make me laugh and keep me curious, and we will see where it goes.
Female (24) Vereeniging, Gauteng
Pink_Kee96
P********6
Not here for Hookups /casual hi I’m Kea,my best friends call me Kee. I’m a sub mostly, a switch depending on the type of relationship I’m in. I’m into impact play (***, orgasm denial and being roughly handled), but mostly I love being treated like princess most if the time. I’m into men who are smart, quick witted and have their own interests. I find it very hot when a man has hobbies that he is passionate about. I also have my own 😂. I love a dom who takes charge and enjoys it. who looks out for my well-being and I take care of him in my own way.
Female (29) Bloemfontein, Free State
durban54041
d*********1
I’m a jazz soul that lives by improvising, feeling, and flowing with purpose. I find beauty in energy, silence, and small moments that speak louder than words. Creativity runs through me...whether it’s writing, music, or manifesting the life I envision. I value kindness, depth, and connection that feels real. The kind that stirs something beyond the surface. I live by intuition, guided by faith, rhythm, and the quiet certainty that everything meant for me will find its way.
Female (18) Westville, KwaZulu-Natal
GreedyGoddes
G**********s
I’m your ultimate temptation… and I don’t settle for less than devotion. Tributes, attention, and gifts are my love language. Worship me… if you dare.
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
littlethroatgxat
l**************t
A devoted submissive slut with a very specialized talent (and obsession!) for pleasing. I’m a head obsessed goat and I bring that singular focus to everything I do.
Female (19) Boitekong, North West
MistressSego
M**********o
I am not interested in playing pretend. I am a Domatry, not a title I wear for aesthetics, but a truth I live with purpose. My dominance is not loud or performative. It is intentional, controlled, and deeply rooted in who I am. I command respect not because I demand it, but because I embody it. Every gesture, every word, every silence has meaning. I do not chase. I observe, I select, and I lead. This space is not about fantasy. It is about dynamic reality, the electric tension between trust and control, devotion and discipline, pleasure and power. I’m not here to entertain bored tourists or thrill-seekers with no understanding of the depths this lifestyle offers.
Female (38) Johannesburg, Gauteng
MistressLX
M********X
Powerful, divine and Confident. only those who truly understand their place can please me.
Female (27) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Yanda_M
Y*****M
I’m a dominant woman who knows what she wants-strength, elegance, and a man who can match my intensity. I love to lead with confidence, but I also have a softer side that thrives when I’m genuinely cared for, adored, and spoiled with real attention. I’m not here for boys who play — I’m drawn to mature, secure men who know how to treat a woman like a priority. If you carry yourself like a man who provides comfort, presence, and power, we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (23) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Hailey_69
H*******9
I'm a 5'3ft petite girl who love having some fun exploring my sexuality. I've haven't done anything with girls even though I'm bi. I'm down to try new things.
Female (22) Athlone, Western Cape
londiwe2000
l*********0
as I’m a South Africa black beautiful women base in Easter cape city I’m biomedical student at the university of Walter sisilu I love trying out nice restaurants I’d love to travel to see beautiful place looking for a provide a loving and caring gent to end up having long term relationships ❤️‍🩹🥰❤️
Female (25) Humansdorp, Eastern Cape
sub_becca
s*******a
I’m single at the moment. I’m FOR THE WOMEN ONLY. Open to trying new things. Message me and find out.
Female (20) Kempton Park, Gauteng
mommys_here
m*********e
Hi my lovey. Well I’ve never really seen myself as a sub and I never have been. I’ve always enjoyed being the more dominant one in the relationship, and I noticed I love being a mommy. I like taking care of my partner and just nurturing them to their heart’s content. I can’t wait to make you my fucking ***, don’t worry, I’ll take care of you.
Female (20) Boordfontein, Gauteng

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bigdicklover666
Sex slave looking for a owner

I need an owner TO RELOCATE TO PLEASEEEEEEEEE I HATE MY SHIT ASS FUCKING LIFEEEEEEE
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 99 years ● 500km around USA Pineville
kitty2112
Need a dadaaaaa

I weaallyyyy wanna explore ddlgggg. I keep imagining a dada who’s so caring and sweet but can be scary and evil sometimes hehehehe maybe I’m silly for wanting thatttt
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Columbus
curvyravebabee420
Put the lady first

Someone who is a gentleman now that's a kink no man can accomplish. Change my mind
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Waveland
nerdlover1738
Looking for daddy

I want to be in a 24/7 dynamic with someone. I enjoy things including DD/lg and pet play. I’m trying to find my life partner. Maybe you can make me not feel silly for doing this here lol.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 36 years ● 470km around USA Beaver
SantinaWilliam
Looking for a sub

I hope to find someone to walk life's path alongside me someone with whom I can start as friends and gradually become lovers, and who, based on mutual trust and his own free will, is willing to become my submissive. I seek someone who is my equal in spirit, yet willing to submit to me within the relationship
Pro-Dom/me Session ● 51 to 99 years ● 500km around USA Miami
Service-pet
service sub seeking genuine Domme

Hai there! I've been a part of the community for around 8 years now but have been away from it for a while. I am back and looking for a Domme (trans/NB folk are very welcome). My profile bio has a lot of information. I am ideally looking for a long term dynamic as it is where I am most comfortable. I am honestly just looking for someone to truly devote myself in service to.
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Bradford
pimpcessxs
i lowkey have nothing to say

please just be funny and freaky 😔
Kinky Date ● 18 to 25 years ● 25km around USA New York
GG-babe
Yah hey

💞🎮🧩🎼⛸️
Kinky Date ● 18 to 29 years ● 165km around USA Dayton
Beachybbylove
Video chatting?

Does anyone like video chatting, sometimes I like to play on cam and have someone watch or join play with me 😉😋
Kinky Date ● 38 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Quincy
graygoatwitch
Hi new to area

Looking for some show me around and more maybe depending on how u taste
Club Buddy ● 18 to 58 years ● 80km around USA Custer
babylikespink
talk to mee☺️

x: babylikespink
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Peoria
westbank29468
Needing some fun

I would like to someone in the Kelowna/west Kelowna or surrounding areas to show me a good time. I would prefer a big package I have a fantasy to be stretched out by dicks bigger than his. The bigger the better. I like older men but I’m open aslong as you a giver and can have some light banter + chemistry. I have too many messages to filter though so send me an application, photo of u and your package and why you would be a good time 😼
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 55km around Canada Kelowna
weirdbarbie69
Fun in the sun

I’m in Antioch for the weekend and looking for some fun. Hit me up if you’re clean, chill, and hot. 😎
NSA ● 23 to 51 years ● 55km around USA Antioch
charli_111
good boys

looking for a good boy
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 28 years ● 500km around USA Dallas
RoseGold
27F 👀 for SUB in Seattle or surrounding area

27F interested in well trained or trainable SUB.
(NOT MENTORSHIP) Must be in or around Seattle area (WA) as I’m seeking IRL ONLY.

Must be 25yrs or older, cis man or masculine presenting nb or trans man.
Preferably single (ENM is fine).

For lifestyle servitude and/or MF/MC mainly.

No NSA

No couples
BDSM Play Partner ● 26 to 80 years ● 175km around USA Seattle
MissyCatM3ow
Anniversary Party

Looking for friends at the club for our anniversary
Club Buddy ● 18 to 59 years ● 65km around USA Roanoke
reagan-r
Looking for a female to have fun

I am looking for a female of any age who is willing to host me and a guy I hook up with. I am 18 and he is 34.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 55 years ● 45km around USA Springfield
hornymilf-1122
Bored single milf

Someone come fuk me
Kinky Date ● 18 to 76 years ● 224km around Australia East Bunbury
JosieinJax
Looking for my True Dom

Before you message me. Make sure you go read my profile.
Alpha's babygirl is looking for a true Dom. He will guide, instruct, encourage, help, and drive her to be her best, both in and out of the bedroom.
In return, his babygirl will give her Alpha the gift of dominance, respect, and value him.
Kinky Date ● 40 to 58 years ● 5km around USA Jacksonville
Mshereforyoursoul
Ever served a mistress?

Mistress seeking a devoted sub who craves structure, discipline, and true service. Looking for someone obedient, respectful, and ready to serve. Let's do this!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 99 years ● 500km around USA Palm Beach Gardens
gallaway26153
Unicorn Wanted

Come and play with myself and my Master, it will not disappoint
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Austin
gallaway26153
Swingers or Unicorn wanted

Wanna come play, it will be a fabulous time
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Austin
kingkoldkitty
18f alt really horny needing to be commanded

hi please make me obey telegram : koldkalelord
NSA ● 18 to 33 years ● 500km around USA Austin
los-angeles60812
A curious mind never stops questioning.

Finding it difficult to find somebody who’s as adventures and curious as I am.
Club Buddy ● 34 to 55 years ● 25km around USA Los Angeles

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