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VeronicaZAR
VeronicaZAR
Zulu goddess that loves to play with obedient boys. 5years as a dominatrix I've encountered in many plays which I've enjoyed, so don't be scared goddess knows X.. T. W..i..T..E..R(@Goddess_V22Sa)
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Shadow_Mistress_X
Shadow_Mistress_X
I am brand new to the community and open to explore new ventures!😉 I am willing to try almost anything, but I do not wish to have S3X - I am here to play and have some fun with like minded people, so lets see how creative you can be😏😜
Female (27) Strand, Western Cape
Meowjea
Meowjea
I’m here with a specific goal: I’m looking for a long-term connection with someone who is as curious as they are experienced. I’m currently on a journey to incorporate BDSM into my lifestyle and would love to find a partner who values the 'slow burn' as much as I do. I’m naturally introverted and enjoy watching and learning, and I am particularly interested in exploring the dynamics between submissive and dominant roles. More than anything, I value intelligence; my favorite ‘kink’ is a great, stimulating conversation. If you are articulate, patient, and enjoy a playful but thoughtful exchange, I’d love to hear from you. Please note: I am a firm believer in vetting safety and mutual respect come first. If you're comfortable with that, tell me: what is one thing about this lifestyle that you wish you knew when you started?
Female (25) Johannesburg, Gauteng
NakedBabe
NakedBabe
I am captivated by the rare combination of physical attraction and a stimulating mind. For me, true chemistry begins with conversation, curiosity, and the ability to connect on a deeper level. Intelligence is seductive, confidence is magnetic, and genuine presence is unforgettable. I thrive in connections where trust, desire, and mutual appreciation naturally intertwine. There is something incredibly fulfilling about being able to let go, to be fully seen, desired, and appreciated by someone whose company I genuinely enjoy. I find beauty in vulnerability, in giving and receiving affection, and in creating an atmosphere where both people feel free to explore the depth of their connection. Adaptable and open-minded, I enjoy discovering what makes someone feel alive, understood, and wanted. I am constantly learning more about myself, my desires, and the unique dynamics that make every connection different. I value passion, emotional intelligence, playful energy, and the excitement that comes from uncovering new layers of one another. At my core, I am someone who enjoys meaningful connection, undeniable chemistry, and the art of building intimacy that is both exciting and deeply fulfilling.
Female (27) Halfway House, Gauteng
Jay-1391
Jay-1391
Not looking for a full time Dom, Bratty sub No social media so don't ask Please read my profile first, I can tell when you haven't 420 If you don't like brats or pets 👀 don't text Read my limits If you DON'T listen to me when I say NO I will BLOCK you, respect me its all I ask. I'm tired of assholes. DON'T expect me to be easy if you disappear for days then come back for a chat
Female (21) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
Crimson-6131
Crimson-6131
I’m petite, wear glasses, and have brown eyes with an oval face. I’m an avid reader, writer, and poet, always getting lost in words and stories. I love both the outdoors and cozy indoor moments, depending on the mood. One of my favorite pastimes is binge-watching true crime and building my own profiles on the cases I dive into. I’m here for genuine conversation, meaningful connection, and friendship, and I’m open to wherever that might lead.
Female (21) Johannesburg, Gauteng
AnnaMaky
AnnaMaky
I'm ready to explore all great sexual offers. I'm horny and willing to figure out my true fetish. Let's see if I can nurse you, discipline you, or put you in your place.
Female (42) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Sexy busty , coloured woman looking to enjoy some fun with the right sub. I'm a femdom. Show your worthy and maybe I'll let you suck me. I'm bi sexual
Female (30) Johannesburg, Gauteng
BeeGee
BeeGee
I am currently in a domestic discipline relationship (DDLG) and hoping to meet friends who are within the BDSM community as it gets very lonely out here. Being a good girl makes me happy. But I must first be bad to be good ;-) I enjoy reading, writing and honestly thinking in general. I love pop music of all genres. Yeah that is about it.
Female (34) Menlo Park, Gauteng
Void1997
V******7
Primal-leaning brat with a soft heart. I value communication, mutual respect, playful power exchange, and aftercare just as much as chemistry. Looking for someone emotionally mature who enjoys teasing, trust, and building something meaningful—someone who understands that the best dynamics are grounded in genuine connection.
Female (28) Somerset West, Western Cape
Swelly_m
S******m
Make me laugh and keep me curious, and we will see where it goes.
Female (24) Vereeniging, Gauteng
sub_becca
s*******a
I’m single at the moment. I’m FOR THE WOMEN ONLY. Open to trying new things. Message me and find out.
Female (20) Kempton Park, Gauteng
mommys_here
m*********e
Hi my lovey. Well I’ve never really seen myself as a sub and I never have been. I’ve always enjoyed being the more dominant one in the relationship, and I noticed I love being a mommy. I like taking care of my partner and just nurturing them to their heart’s content. I can’t wait to make you my fucking ***, don’t worry, I’ll take care of you.
Female (20) Boordfontein, Gauteng
littlethroatgxat
l**************t
A devoted submissive slut with a very specialized talent (and obsession!) for pleasing. I’m a head obsessed goat and I bring that singular focus to everything I do.
Female (19) Boitekong, North West
GreedyGoddes
G**********s
I’m your ultimate temptation… and I don’t settle for less than devotion. Tributes, attention, and gifts are my love language. Worship me… if you dare.
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
londiwe2000
l*********0
as I’m a South Africa black beautiful women base in Easter cape city I’m biomedical student at the university of Walter sisilu I love trying out nice restaurants I’d love to travel to see beautiful place looking for a provide a loving and caring gent to end up having long term relationships ❤️‍🩹🥰❤️
Female (25) Humansdorp, Eastern Cape
MistressSego
M**********o
I am not interested in playing pretend. I am a Domatry, not a title I wear for aesthetics, but a truth I live with purpose. My dominance is not loud or performative. It is intentional, controlled, and deeply rooted in who I am. I command respect not because I demand it, but because I embody it. Every gesture, every word, every silence has meaning. I do not chase. I observe, I select, and I lead. This space is not about fantasy. It is about dynamic reality, the electric tension between trust and control, devotion and discipline, pleasure and power. I’m not here to entertain bored tourists or thrill-seekers with no understanding of the depths this lifestyle offers.
Female (38) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Hailey_69
H*******9
I'm a 5'3ft petite girl who love having some fun exploring my sexuality. I've haven't done anything with girls even though I'm bi. I'm down to try new things.
Female (22) Athlone, Western Cape
durban54041
d*********1
I’m a jazz soul that lives by improvising, feeling, and flowing with purpose. I find beauty in energy, silence, and small moments that speak louder than words. Creativity runs through me...whether it’s writing, music, or manifesting the life I envision. I value kindness, depth, and connection that feels real. The kind that stirs something beyond the surface. I live by intuition, guided by faith, rhythm, and the quiet certainty that everything meant for me will find its way.
Female (18) Westville, KwaZulu-Natal
johannesburg949
j*************9
I'm a sub/brat who absolutely loves giving love and receiving it. my hubby and I agree on connecting and fluid motion of people,vibes and just being part of a community that understands communication and respecting boundaries. I love my sassy ways that come with a lot of heart.. always ready to be here to serve after my spank and a glass of wine.. respect ,loyalty honestly goes a long way.
Female (33) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Pink_Kee96
P********6
Not here for Hookups /casual hi I’m Kea,my best friends call me Kee. I’m a sub mostly, a switch depending on the type of relationship I’m in. I’m into impact play (***, orgasm denial and being roughly handled), but mostly I love being treated like princess most if the time. I’m into men who are smart, quick witted and have their own interests. I find it very hot when a man has hobbies that he is passionate about. I also have my own 😂. I love a dom who takes charge and enjoys it. who looks out for my well-being and I take care of him in my own way.
Female (29) Bloemfontein, Free State
Yanda_M
Y*****M
I’m a dominant woman who knows what she wants-strength, elegance, and a man who can match my intensity. I love to lead with confidence, but I also have a softer side that thrives when I’m genuinely cared for, adored, and spoiled with real attention. I’m not here for boys who play — I’m drawn to mature, secure men who know how to treat a woman like a priority. If you carry yourself like a man who provides comfort, presence, and power, we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (23) Johannesburg, Gauteng
MistressLX
M********X
Powerful, divine and Confident. only those who truly understand their place can please me.
Female (27) Johannesburg, Gauteng

New members in South Africa

Meowjea
Meowjea
I’m here with a specific goal: I’m looking for a long-term connection with someone who is as curious as they are experienced. I’m currently on a journey to incorporate BDSM into my lifestyle and would love to find a partner who values the 'slow burn' as much as I do. I’m naturally introverted and enjoy watching and learning, and I am particularly interested in exploring the dynamics between submissive and dominant roles. More than anything, I value intelligence; my favorite ‘kink’ is a great, stimulating conversation. If you are articulate, patient, and enjoy a playful but thoughtful exchange, I’d love to hear from you. Please note: I am a firm believer in vetting safety and mutual respect come first. If you're comfortable with that, tell me: what is one thing about this lifestyle that you wish you knew when you started?
Female (25) Johannesburg, Gauteng
NakedBabe
NakedBabe
I am captivated by the rare combination of physical attraction and a stimulating mind. For me, true chemistry begins with conversation, curiosity, and the ability to connect on a deeper level. Intelligence is seductive, confidence is magnetic, and genuine presence is unforgettable. I thrive in connections where trust, desire, and mutual appreciation naturally intertwine. There is something incredibly fulfilling about being able to let go, to be fully seen, desired, and appreciated by someone whose company I genuinely enjoy. I find beauty in vulnerability, in giving and receiving affection, and in creating an atmosphere where both people feel free to explore the depth of their connection. Adaptable and open-minded, I enjoy discovering what makes someone feel alive, understood, and wanted. I am constantly learning more about myself, my desires, and the unique dynamics that make every connection different. I value passion, emotional intelligence, playful energy, and the excitement that comes from uncovering new layers of one another. At my core, I am someone who enjoys meaningful connection, undeniable chemistry, and the art of building intimacy that is both exciting and deeply fulfilling.
Female (27) Halfway House, Gauteng
AnnaMaky
AnnaMaky
I'm ready to explore all great sexual offers. I'm horny and willing to figure out my true fetish. Let's see if I can nurse you, discipline you, or put you in your place.
Female (42) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Crimson-6131
Crimson-6131
I’m petite, wear glasses, and have brown eyes with an oval face. I’m an avid reader, writer, and poet, always getting lost in words and stories. I love both the outdoors and cozy indoor moments, depending on the mood. One of my favorite pastimes is binge-watching true crime and building my own profiles on the cases I dive into. I’m here for genuine conversation, meaningful connection, and friendship, and I’m open to wherever that might lead.
Female (21) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Shadow_Mistress_X
Shadow_Mistress_X
I am brand new to the community and open to explore new ventures!😉 I am willing to try almost anything, but I do not wish to have S3X - I am here to play and have some fun with like minded people, so lets see how creative you can be😏😜
Female (27) Strand, Western Cape
VeronicaZAR
VeronicaZAR
Zulu goddess that loves to play with obedient boys. 5years as a dominatrix I've encountered in many plays which I've enjoyed, so don't be scared goddess knows X.. T. W..i..T..E..R(@Goddess_V22Sa)
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Kinkymilkingfemdom
Sexy busty , coloured woman looking to enjoy some fun with the right sub. I'm a femdom. Show your worthy and maybe I'll let you suck me. I'm bi sexual
Female (30) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Jay-1391
Jay-1391
Not looking for a full time Dom, Bratty sub No social media so don't ask Please read my profile first, I can tell when you haven't 420 If you don't like brats or pets 👀 don't text Read my limits If you DON'T listen to me when I say NO I will BLOCK you, respect me its all I ask. I'm tired of assholes. DON'T expect me to be easy if you disappear for days then come back for a chat
Female (21) Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
BeeGee
BeeGee
I am currently in a domestic discipline relationship (DDLG) and hoping to meet friends who are within the BDSM community as it gets very lonely out here. Being a good girl makes me happy. But I must first be bad to be good ;-) I enjoy reading, writing and honestly thinking in general. I love pop music of all genres. Yeah that is about it.
Female (34) Menlo Park, Gauteng
Swelly_m
S******m
Make me laugh and keep me curious, and we will see where it goes.
Female (24) Vereeniging, Gauteng
Pink_Kee96
P********6
Not here for Hookups /casual hi I’m Kea,my best friends call me Kee. I’m a sub mostly, a switch depending on the type of relationship I’m in. I’m into impact play (***, orgasm denial and being roughly handled), but mostly I love being treated like princess most if the time. I’m into men who are smart, quick witted and have their own interests. I find it very hot when a man has hobbies that he is passionate about. I also have my own 😂. I love a dom who takes charge and enjoys it. who looks out for my well-being and I take care of him in my own way.
Female (29) Bloemfontein, Free State
durban54041
d*********1
I’m a jazz soul that lives by improvising, feeling, and flowing with purpose. I find beauty in energy, silence, and small moments that speak louder than words. Creativity runs through me...whether it’s writing, music, or manifesting the life I envision. I value kindness, depth, and connection that feels real. The kind that stirs something beyond the surface. I live by intuition, guided by faith, rhythm, and the quiet certainty that everything meant for me will find its way.
Female (18) Westville, KwaZulu-Natal
GreedyGoddes
G**********s
I’m your ultimate temptation… and I don’t settle for less than devotion. Tributes, attention, and gifts are my love language. Worship me… if you dare.
Female (24) Johannesburg, Gauteng
littlethroatgxat
l**************t
A devoted submissive slut with a very specialized talent (and obsession!) for pleasing. I’m a head obsessed goat and I bring that singular focus to everything I do.
Female (19) Boitekong, North West
MistressSego
M**********o
I am not interested in playing pretend. I am a Domatry, not a title I wear for aesthetics, but a truth I live with purpose. My dominance is not loud or performative. It is intentional, controlled, and deeply rooted in who I am. I command respect not because I demand it, but because I embody it. Every gesture, every word, every silence has meaning. I do not chase. I observe, I select, and I lead. This space is not about fantasy. It is about dynamic reality, the electric tension between trust and control, devotion and discipline, pleasure and power. I’m not here to entertain bored tourists or thrill-seekers with no understanding of the depths this lifestyle offers.
Female (38) Johannesburg, Gauteng
MistressLX
M********X
Powerful, divine and Confident. only those who truly understand their place can please me.
Female (27) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Yanda_M
Y*****M
I’m a dominant woman who knows what she wants-strength, elegance, and a man who can match my intensity. I love to lead with confidence, but I also have a softer side that thrives when I’m genuinely cared for, adored, and spoiled with real attention. I’m not here for boys who play — I’m drawn to mature, secure men who know how to treat a woman like a priority. If you carry yourself like a man who provides comfort, presence, and power, we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (23) Johannesburg, Gauteng
Hailey_69
H*******9
I'm a 5'3ft petite girl who love having some fun exploring my sexuality. I've haven't done anything with girls even though I'm bi. I'm down to try new things.
Female (22) Athlone, Western Cape
londiwe2000
l*********0
as I’m a South Africa black beautiful women base in Easter cape city I’m biomedical student at the university of Walter sisilu I love trying out nice restaurants I’d love to travel to see beautiful place looking for a provide a loving and caring gent to end up having long term relationships ❤️‍🩹🥰❤️
Female (25) Humansdorp, Eastern Cape
sub_becca
s*******a
I’m single at the moment. I’m FOR THE WOMEN ONLY. Open to trying new things. Message me and find out.
Female (20) Kempton Park, Gauteng
mommys_here
m*********e
Hi my lovey. Well I’ve never really seen myself as a sub and I never have been. I’ve always enjoyed being the more dominant one in the relationship, and I noticed I love being a mommy. I like taking care of my partner and just nurturing them to their heart’s content. I can’t wait to make you my fucking ***, don’t worry, I’ll take care of you.
Female (20) Boordfontein, Gauteng
Void1997
V******7
Primal-leaning brat with a soft heart. I value communication, mutual respect, playful power exchange, and aftercare just as much as chemistry. Looking for someone emotionally mature who enjoys teasing, trust, and building something meaningful—someone who understands that the best dynamics are grounded in genuine connection.
Female (28) Somerset West, Western Cape
johannesburg949
j*************9
I'm a sub/brat who absolutely loves giving love and receiving it. my hubby and I agree on connecting and fluid motion of people,vibes and just being part of a community that understands communication and respecting boundaries. I love my sassy ways that come with a lot of heart.. always ready to be here to serve after my spank and a glass of wine.. respect ,loyalty honestly goes a long way.
Female (33) Johannesburg, Gauteng

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chocolate_luva
Looking for woman for threesome with bbc

I’m looking for a freaky woman that likes bbc too like I do and down to have some fun. Let us know your limits and we respect them
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Tonawanda
Dite2214
Cheating fetish

I have a cheating fetish help me find the right one ( to clarify I mean helping others cheat on their spouses)
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Aurora
san-diego748516
Who wants ass and feet worship today?

Serious inquiries only. I actually meet people on this app. I don’t wanna be texting buddies. I will come over today and I don’t need anything in return I just want to serve. Bonus points a few interested in using my mouth fully. No limits except physical pan. Everything else is okay for me :) 
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 170km around USA San Diego
mistresskhilla
Subs/foot slave

I’m looking for foot slaves and ass worshipers and whale subs to fund my lifestyle while I dominate them. Let’s have some fun and hit this ebony queen now. So I can drain your balls with my foot while making cash.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Bronx
mobile55452
Text meee

Heyy I'm looking to have fun and to get spoiled!
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Waveland
billings19601
Ask wut I'm in2.

I'm looking 4 BBC & bwc. Also I'm kinky a.f.
BDSM Play Partner ● 26 to 35 years ● 25km around USA Billings
pissletje22
Commerciele meesteres zoekt slaafje

De titel zegt alles ;)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 500km around Netherlands Soest
SensualSquish
Sensual s in search of her DD

Hi, fellow kinkster! Thank you for pausing and pulling back the curtain to take a *k into more than my physical presence here. ♡What a nice spot to express and explore our sexuality, share our thoughts, and learn from one another.♡

About Me: I, truly, am a sensual submissive. I know where I feel most like myself, most present within my mind and body and most relaxed and wanting to be open to exploration. I live a very private, comfortable life with family, friends, hobbies, activities, a career I enjoy, and a zest for learning. While, ultimately, I look to find a LTR with a man who is a strong, loving Dom, I do not see myself getting married nor living with my partner. DDF and plan to stay that way by playing safe.

Single Men: I am open to exploring with cis men who are experienced as a sensual/pleasure/Daddy Dom with excellent clear, open communication skills, and who lead with care of their submissive's all around well-being.

M/F Couples: I MAY consider playing with a couple, if we get along as friends outside of play. I am 100% a heterosexual female, and am not bi nor bicurious, so I am not* interested in playing with the female partner of the couple. I am happy to play alongside of her, with the male partner, in activities that we all agree upon in advance of play.

Women: I am not interested in playing with females.

Please send a message if it sounds like we may be a good fit for sexual exploration. Starting your message with the word tricycle will assist me in knowing you were curious enough to read my profile. ♡I wish you all the very best in your explorations.♡

Good luck out there!*
BDSM Play Partner ● 37 to 67 years ● 150km around USA Tucson
painslutttt
Any sneaker heads online?😍

Hii! I know this is weird, but I’m a girl who’s into sneaker heads😍i loveee stylish guys. I wanna see some outfits, shoes of the day pics, stuff like that. Jordan’s, Yeezy, dunks, air max, anything like that😍😍i also loveee the athletic look (crocs/slides, sweats, shorts). I just wanna worship you and boost some egos!

I send pics when I AM COMFORTABLE. I will describe myself for you
Munch Buddy ● 21 to 49 years ● 500km around USA Atlanta
babygirl3610
Today

Looking for some fun

Wanna have some fun today I can’t host near Ahwatukee I need to have some fun relieve some stress
Kinky Date ● 32 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Phoenix
danishyounggirl2008
Going to Las Vegas for 4 days

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Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 475km around USA Las Vegas
Chenelle1235
Curiously wanted to try something new

Hey I wanted to try a little experiment with group play with my boyfriend who introduced me to anal and love anal now. And my boyfriend has a little fantasy he wanted to want to walk in onto me being DP surprisingly and joins in.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 50 years ● 45km around USA Hollis
urliltoy89
Play time

Someone slightly sadistic looking for a toy to play with.... Into cnc, edging, orgasm denial, ***, degrading, public play
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Cartersville
windermere63143
Need to be used

No strings dont want to know your name just use me degraded me tell me im nothing but a fuck hole for your enjoyment thats all im good for
NSA ● 35 to 65 years ● 35km around USA Astor
MsDominitrix
Blk sub guy

HMU if ur a true sub
Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Columbia
power-s-cross48555
Come talk to me

would love to have a reliable daddy by my side. My "Little" age 7. A foundation of trust is absolutely essential to me. Beyond that, I am very open to new experiences and look forward to getting to know you and discovering what we’d like to try out together.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Ireland Dublin
MsDominitrix
Blk Sub needed

Luv SUBMISSIVE, nerdy, geeky men
NO DOMINANT MEN
NO ALPHAs
Luv SUBMISSIVE, nerdy, geeky men

Amos Theestarbad (Only if ur close by)
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Columbia
BabeBonnie
Let’s talk dirty 😈

I could be your mommy or your princess. Let’s just get down to business. Open to regular dirty talk but very curious about roleplay Send me a message with what you want to do to me.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Saint George
Lani-3463
I need a submissive slut

😋
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Long Beach
Ally4me
Lick my pussy

Self explanatory really :P
Kinky Date ● 24 to 36 years ● 65km around Ireland Cork
Fugure_It_Out
Need satisfaction

Looking for Dom who will f me silly
NSA ● 40 to 71 years ● 35km around USA Lowell
ashburn70441
Female FWB

Looking for spicy females to have a good time with.
Kinky Date ● 19 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Broadway
Bearimuchfun
Looking for someone rare

Are you female/nonbinary? Would you like to play with me and my toys? Can my Dom play with us ? If you answered YES to ALL three questions please inbox myself or my Dom @chef1920.
Kinky Date ● 23 to 80 years ● 245km around USA Ocean City

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