Bedroom only or inherent part of pur personalities?

[ne****]

For me it's about personality. I need give and take outside of the bedroom, and it happens that I am a switch as well. I hate being pinned as only one way or the other and only that, it's both.

[Ch****]

I have 3 kids, train dogs and work in management. In most aspects of life I carry myself as somewhat of a dominant figure but I'm 100% sub in the br. The satisfaction of being able to throw away the burden of control and ignore the thoughts that race thru my head is like a balance I crave.

[CuffLady]

I'm the opposite of @Chevi86 in my daily life, I have to submit to the will of others throughout my. I've been controlled for so long that I've developed a dominant side. I want to be set free to demand what I want.

[Si****]

I am a sideshow performer in my spare time. I perform bed of nails, glass walk, and bandage escapes. So... Yeah, it's a part of my life constantly. Though, there are parts of my life, such as my "regular day job," that require discretion and separation.

[Ar****]

I'm searching for new things and am not sure. Im not usually a closed person. Im an open book.

[Deleted Member]

Technically a switch, tho sub leaning.

Personally, because of how my life has gone, I'm very "dominant" outside of the bedroom, I've had to trust & rely on myself, but I would also say that my submissive side is a part of my personality. For the right partner, submission outside of the bedroom would be phenomenal, but I haven't met that person yet. So my submissive tendencies tend to remain in the bedroom.

[TR****]

honestly it's not just the bedroom for me. I'd prefer if the one I am with makes it a part of outside the bedroom as well. and even though I'm a switch it makes things way more fun because if she's also is a switch, that means we can do stuff like power exchanges where we play with each other for dominance. she can put her commanding face on and tell me to come here, and I would instantly be at her submissive will. or I could whisper in her ear "get on your knees" and she would do that for me. so it honestly depends on what you all feel, is the best way to answer this question. a side note to this is that if you are outside with public to command each other to do things and not get caught brings a little excitement as well. but like I said it truly depends who you are with. if they are only sub or only Dom or just vanilla doesn't mean things can't still be exciting for one another.. it's all about what you all decide to do. in the bedroom only could be fun too, because you know as soon as you get to the bedroom it's time to do some dom/sub stuff so yeah, truly truly depends 🤷‍♂️