How to aproach/talk to people at a kinky party

[Do****]

I have the same question ,outside & inside sex parties

[ta****]

I just want a hug tbh

[Wi****]

Bro same

[mo****]

Damn I wish I could!!!

[Wi****]

@Doyawannawhhat ja mean?

[St****]

Hi, I’m female. You’ve got a self-fulfilling prophesy here because lack of confidence will get you rejected, and rejection will erode your confidence. So this is kind of a repetitive, fake it til you make it situation.

Literally just say “hi” and smile. If she seems cold, just sashay away. If she seems receptive (smiles back, eye contact), you can ask her if she’s having a good time or if she’s been to one of these things before, etc. You can also give a non-sexual compliment, maybe on a piece of jewelry or tattoo she has, etc. But after that, let her continue it. Even if you click, don’t corner her. You can keep it short and walk away and circle back later in the evening, too.

Honestly just remember she’s a human and you’re a human and we’re all just silly humans doing random things, reality is just shared perception. In other words, distance yourself from your ego; it’s the part of you that feels anxiety and rejection. Just put that away and be present in the experience.

[Di****]

Val I been thinking. Sometimes you just be ***, start thinking, be affectations, only drink one really weird thing, not monster energy buddy, like a mint Julip but you pop out the mint fresh and whole. Salt your water for no reason. But don’t lie. Ever Since liars are always bitches. So write that down. And Val be unafraid to cry, because crying together will lead to making love just like O’Jays taught us buddy! Keep your nose down, ass in and stick on the ice. Eyes open but not too open. Chap stick!!! You’re gonna wanna pp. salt the water old army trick.

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Monday at 12:03 PM, StandardDeviation said:

Hi, I’m female. You’ve got a self-fulfilling prophesy here because lack of confidence will get you rejected, and rejection will erode your confidence. So this is kind of a repetitive, fake it til you make it situation.

Literally just say “hi” and smile. If she seems cold, just sashay away. If she seems receptive (smiles back, eye contact), you can ask her if she’s having a good time or if she’s been to one of these things before, etc. You can also give a non-sexual compliment, maybe on a piece of jewelry or tattoo she has, etc. But after that, let her continue it. Even if you click, don’t corner her. You can keep it short and walk away and circle back later in the evening, too.

Honestly just remember she’s a human and you’re a human and we’re all just silly humans doing random things, reality is just shared perception. In other words, distance yourself from your ego; it’s the part of you that feels anxiety and rejection. Just put that away and be present in the experience.

This is great advice. Thank you.

[ho****]

Courage just chilling 😎😀 ask her or him to go on a date 🌹 🌹 📅

[ve****]

Went to a party once at a co-worker’s house. Turned out it was a key party. I thought those were a myth from the 70’s. Apparently not 😅. I left. Because for me to do that it would have to be with strangers that I would never see again 😮