What's your number?

[Sa****]

Has anyone ever heard of Zengi? Wire? Christ all mighty… get with it ppl

[Se****]

• “I only keep this app for you… give me your number and I’ll delete it” - NO.

• ”hey how are you?”, “I’m good”, “wanna chat on WhatsApp/text/any other number based platform (or even Snapchat)” - NO.

• we’ve spoken for 2 mins, why do you want my number?

And when they can’t/wont take no for an answer.

You can’t accept no to me giving out my number yet you want to play with me and expect me to trust you, HELL NO.

Great piece, thank you x

[La****]

7 hours ago, Saw_Red said:

Who knew raging to you about this topic while walking around Target would spark this marvelous piece! You are the only person on here that I wholeheartedly trust and I’m thankful you are my best friend.❤️

We have an underlying *** of what if. What if they spend $2.99 on a number search and discover everything about me. What if they show up at my home or work. What if they follow me around. What if they blackmail me. What if they have nothing to lose.
Trust is earned and should not be easily given away like a series of numbers.

😊😊😊

The expectation of trust before any has been established is key here. The entitlement, and nativity, and hubris, to think we should trust them just because they say so and they want it.

[La****]

I'd also like to point out that more than a half dozen men have thought a funny response to this is to text me their number. So that's how much they respect our safety concerns, ladies.

[Mi****]

People play these nasty little games all the time. I’m sure a lot of male subs know what I’m talking about when you run in to a scammers.That consent over reaching just let get your username form another site. just give me personal info just give me pictures of yourself in comprising ways what’s the harm in sharing. If I have your username from enough sites it starts to become easier to hack you find out personal info and If I have your phone number and you haven’t gone in and taken yourself out of system I can get your first last name every address you have ever lived at, all you families names and anything I want really it’s so easy. Beside what it tells you about someone’s personality. It’s insanely dangerous to share personal info with people you don’t know good night and good luck.

[si****]

Totally agree. Giving out my real phone number is a big no for me until I know them and meet them in person or something at least once. Until then it will be either through this app or move to ***am account that made specifically for this profile

[lo****]

This is why we use ***am . Numbers don’t need to be given out

[Ki****]

I guess it's a big deal if you don't protect your data. My phone number rings and texts my phone. When I was coming up we actually went out to where people were to meet strangers for fun. Weird people are everywhere. Bad people are everywhere. Weird can kick it. Bad can kick rocks. The psychology is different online tho. You can feel out bad people in person. Online the act is hard to detect. I'm old school. I'm up to meet right off the bat. I want to feel your vibes, a screen just reflects my own; gives me the vibes that I put into it. I want to hear your words the way you say them, not the way I imagine them to sound.

[Deleted Member]

Yall real funny and don’t get what she is saying. Men who don’t respect boundaries is the reason i carry…. Gtfu

[De****]

My rule is you say you are a “nice guy” you are not a nice guy.

[Sm****]

5 minutes ago, DenverBunny said:

My rule is you say you are a “nice guy” you are not a nice guy.

Rule of thumb is ANYONE who says they are X means they are the exact opposite, period.

[le****]

Not everybody

[le****]

Facts

[Deleted Member]

1 minute ago, letshavesomefun710 said:

Facts

Joking about someone’s boundaries doesn’t make you a nice guy, the direct opposite 🤦🏻‍♀️

[10****]

10 hours ago, Lady_Char said:

I'd also like to point out that more than a half dozen men have thought a funny response to this is to text me their number. So that's how much they respect our safety concerns, ladies.

Your safety standards are above my own boo

[le****]

That made no sense sassy. “Joking about someone’s boundaries doesn’t make you a nice guy“ makes absolutely no sense. So you’re telling me that every comedian is not a nice guy.

[Pu****]

I’m not a data protection expert. I’m not a psychologist. I’m new school. Dangers still exist. I do believe privacy concerns are very valid. If someone wants to open up with a number right away then that’s on them. They should be able to handle the high likelihood of rejection. Giving someone access to your personal life can open up a can of worms. If you can’t respect a persons pace, then how could you expect them to trust you? Predators went from having their local area to having an ocean with the internet. Everyone’s safety concerns and privacy measures should be respected.

[Ki****]

Respect in all ways, always. I wasn't poking fun or suggesting how anyone else should be. Just pitching my 2cents in. Everyone will hopefully do what ever is on par with their comfort level. I definitely won't let anyone else dictate what my safety zone is.

[Deleted Member]

If in doubt use KiK if you’re not sure about giving your number out. Think ***am is the same!

[no****]

Amen

[EveryDayJoeSchmoe]

In the world of text apps there's no way to block someone. They can generate a new number as quickly as you block them. And while I know the world is scary for women...men are not immune. Did she put something in my food? Is she going to *** me in my sleep? Did she set up a date with me so her boyfriend could Rob and *** me? I've been stalked, blackmailed and threatened by women. World is crazy...protect yourself!