Trust building

[da****]

6 hours ago, Kinky_Auld_Bastehrd said:

I am sorry that you had to deal with that Dale. For some reason, I had convinced myself that if I kept giving her what she wanted, her behaviour would ameliorate. But she remained true to nature. And that was being a narcissistic, gaslighting, rage queen. And for that reason, I have some significant trust issues as well. I tipped my hat to you for being in therapy. I haven’t had the courage that you have displayed. And as a healthcare professional, I know.

The therapy is a 4 foot 9 angery stripper I call backpack lol and Mistress

[Ta****]

20 hours ago, dale46805 said:

The therapy is a 4 foot 9 angery stripper I call backpack lol and Mistress

... . . . . . . . You call her "Backpack"? That's i f**king adorable!

[ba****]

Don't rush. Start near vanilla and work your way up to gain both experience and comfort. Some kinks can be dangerous if done improperly, and exceeded limits are difficult to overcome if you damage that trust.

[Tr****]

Some of the best conversations I've had on this site had absolutely nothing to do at this site so just start with everyday life.
Like you'd talk to a complete stranger or your BFF.

[Au****]

Spend time together doing non kink things I think is the most important thing. Build up comfortability and communication outside of the dynamic and the trust for other areas will naturally fall into place.