ballbusting, any advice or tips?

[bu****]

I'm new to this but I really want to try ballbusting, any tips or advice for how I can either find like minded people or for when I find a like minded woman?

[bl****]

Don’t bruh it kill ur balls

[Deleted Member]

Don't be afraid to scream and beg for them to stop 

[bi****]

the best advice is to hire a professional. They'll know more than you, can advise and will know at least a little of what to do. then you can see if it truly is for you, or just a fantasy.

[ey****]

the first thing to remember with ballbusting is it does actually hurt. A lot.

So like a lot of things in kink if you have this wonderful idea that is super important and you meet someone into it *and then* find you don't like it, then everyone's time is wasted

However, there's always multiple choices

I mean, get a girlfriend and just tell her you wonder what it's like to be kicked/punched/slapped/whatever in the balls 

and maybe, if that just seems a little strange...

then yeah, go the other way book a Pro - you could literally be trying what you want to try by the weekend and you'll at least know if you like it or not

or maybe some middle ground... partake in kink community, find munches and events in your locality, meet people make friends - it isn't too strange to meet a friend through kink circles and say you'd like to try something 

[Deleted Member]

I like my balls pulled and squeezed it hurts a little bit whe there pulled and stretch then held and slapped but in all it feels amazing to me It feels good if im sore thst day or the next I do have little balls lol though maybe it makes it different (iam embarrassed by this) i found this out by accident when guys top me doggy style before the put it in they usually slap my ass and slap my bussy,squeeze pull my dick,and rough with balls or when there cumming this id how I found i liked it I like t be degraded and it seems degrading being stopped from being able to orgaasm while someone is using my body to orgasm and cum in it told feels like being used.

[SolarFlare]

CBT and ball busting are some of my absolute favorites 🖤💥
When done right, it's intense, intimate, and oh-so-satisfying.

🔐 Safety First:
– Always have clear communication and a negotiated safeword
– Use impact-appropriate footwear (barefoot for your first time) or tools
– Start slow to gauge tolerance
– Keep ice packs and aftercare supplies on hand
– Be mindful of numbness, discoloration, or prolonged ***

Because *** should be pleasure, not damage. 😈

Edited April 14 by SolarFlare

[realdeal007]

Thank you so much. for your last statement. because having damaged goods. isn't very pleasurable. 🙄🥰

[Gr****]

Testicles are so damn weird. They're basically internal organs that hang on the outside of the body for the sake of temperature regulation. 
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I once attended a class on the topic that strongly advised beginners to help them swing free after impact, rather than tethering them to a surface and battering them during newbie play. 

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I've only played with one person who did not get nauseous when bottoming to CBT. I still have no idea what that was about but, wow, could they take a lot. You are not this person. Please pace yourself.

[APerfectTool]

I have never found a like minded person myself.

My approach was to just tell them I enjoyed it and talk with them about it but don't push them.

After some time I let them know that I would love for them to try it but that it is important that they are comfortable at all times. A requirement.

I tell them we can start slow and they can move at their own pace. I suggest we sit and ao will massage one foot and the other be between my legs. Just kinda poke and feel around add a little bit of pressure if and when you want as you become more comfortable do a little more. I did this in the back seat of my car on lunch at work. Overnights so nobody around and a parking lot over.

Then don't give any instruction or try or direction. You probably won't get and big thrills from this but it this is about them and how they feel. She let me take off her socks and suck onher toes that night as well which she was completely against in conversation.

She eventually asked me if she was getting it and where exactly they were as she randomly poked.. I said she was doing fine pulling my shorts so there was a bulge and guides her toes ontop and gently pressed so she felt and said just push down right there and she did this a bit more before we went back.

Then once morning after work she came over and gave me some gentle tap kicks on knees asking if I was okay everytime. I assured her I would immediately let her know and she didn't need to worry. She was starting to go a bit harder each time. I don't know how I got her naked that day but kneeling as she sat in a chair I went down on her. Keeping my legs wide she took note. Each kick my tongue moved faster and harder also pressing into her more as I reacted to her now kicking with a bit of power. Not really hurting me but I felt it. She told me as well if was basically impossible for her to get off but she did a couple times that day. I think this "impossible" orgasm caused kicking and pleasure to be linked that day.

Every break in the smoking area alone her shoes were off feet betwee my legs pressing. Every lunch we clocked out went to house she got foot massage, toes sucked, and got off 3 times really quickly and I got my balls kicked and we cuddled where she started squeezing without my input as not really my thing I like kicks but she was comfortable enough to try it out.

She was surprised how much she found she really enjoyed all the things she initially was hesitant about. One night we g[t a room two towns over and I had told her I wanted to be made to beg for mercy maybe even cry a few times before sharing a fantasy. That night for hours I was licking and pleasuring her whe she kicked my Hard, testing methods like just making contact with the top of her toes so it went through and past them rather than against my pelvis on the top of her foot. This hurt a good bit more. She used to play soccer and was very acute and s powerful. I was in great *** and she asked me about not liking when she kicked like that and told her I loved it it just hurt as I clutch my bruised swollen balls knees together and she blows my mind. Having told her I wanted this before, pushed pushed my knees apart and and demanded I move my hands. She does kick and I clutch and closing and groaning only to be stopped and my legs pushed apart again. She does this over and over watcI me intently trying to make me cry or beg i know and I probably could have cried but I wanted more. I didn't break before we went to bed.

This was only the second person to kick me. I went 13 to 30 with this fantasy before before a friend from early years and who I had casually hooked up with if she would do it me. I assumed I would get one kick and hate it and could be done with it. Instead I was addicted. My thinking about it often went to constant that kigjt at the hotel was probably the greatest night of my life just easing someone into it and not pressing them to do it, rathe showing them they wanted to do it and enjoyed doing it. Because in my experience women are more often submissive they are resistant and have been told a good number of times they were taught that hitting a guy in balls is bad unless in self defence so they have had it made taboo in their mind early in life. Never met a woman into it personally but everyone that have done it with me admitted they had a lot off fun and enjoyed it more than han they thought they could.