Where is Love

[Wi****]

Who is seeking love in the world of BDSM?
Many of us. Some people don't require love
Some do.

After experiencing a deep, devoted, and spiritual love, it is hard to even consider anything else.

A love that takes your breath away. A love that makes your heart slam against your ribs every time you see the one you love.

This love brings you closer to the magic that touches every part of your life every single second of every single day.

How does this love affect BDSM?
It brings with it trust and devotion deeper than even dreamed possible . It opens up possibilities that we may have never even considered.

It makes every minute apart, seem like an eternity. As though we don't know if we can survive the separation .

So, who wants a love like this? Who wants to be bathed in a flood of warmth and longing?

I do. Who needs a love that binds them with another person for life. I do.

Even as we seek other things to fill our lives with, love is there in the back of our minds, triggering our dreams of what could be.

So who would want such a love?

[La****]

I do. I always have been. Im a romantic at heart and crave a disgustingly deep devotion and bond. And also Im kinky as fuck. So I only strictly go for people who would be down for the same thing. Its very, very few of us tbh. But please dont lose hope. Ive been having few great encounters. Ofc, it took so much patience and mental space. Along with heartbreaks. Bcs when you integrate genuine love to the practice and make it the fundamental base, there are so much more things to consider other than just sexual compatibility.
But it would be worth it.
Sacred exchange should not be disposable.

Thankyou for this post.
Give me smile to know there are still people who give honor to the greatest thing in life which is; love.

[La****]

The kind of love i crave sounds so simple yet is so hard to find, it's unconditional love. I give it but there's always a catch from the other person. I've sought it my whole life, and found it only in my child. I'll never stop looking for, it's out there I'm sure, but it's rare. I don't believe in soul mates, the idea of one person meant for me just sounds cruel and daunting. Thank you for sharing, the search continues ☺️☺️

[No****]

Trust is required for vulnerability such as tying up. So if they want whay they want men better get better at giving love or women wont

[No****]

Also just like men dont like the city whore. We dont like when men are like hey i make many women cum i think ppl just lack ability to connect with other humans and not say dumb stuff

[Deleted Member]

I still hope to find. It’s even more realistic to find a love here on this app as on a regular dating app.

[Wi****]

11 hours ago, Lady_King said:

I do. I always have been. Im a romantic at heart and crave a disgustingly deep devotion and bond. And also Im kinky as fuck. So I only strictly go for people who would be down for the same thing. Its very, very few of us tbh. But please dont lose hope. Ive been having few great encounters. Ofc, it took so much patience and mental space. Along with heartbreaks. Bcs when you integrate genuine love to the practice and make it the fundamental base, there are so much more things to consider other than just sexual compatibility.
But it would be worth it.
Sacred exchange should not be disposable.

Thankyou for this post.
Give me smile to know there are still people who give honor to the greatest thing in life which is; love.

Thank you for your post. It's very nice knowing that there are others still there who understand the depth of love and the amazing doors that it can open.

[Wi****]

11 hours ago, Nonnahs said:

Also just like men dont like the city whore. We dont like when men are like hey i make many women cum i think ppl just lack ability to connect with other humans and not say dumb stuff

I don't think that most men see love the same way that women do.

I think that it could partially be because of the way that a lot of men are raised and partially because they have no earthly idea what love is or how important love is.

It's not all men, but it certainly is a lot of them .

Locker room talk reveals a lot about how people think because for some reason they believe what they say is the Locker room stays in the Locker Room.

[Wi****]

11 hours ago, LaceyGal said:

The kind of love i crave sounds so simple yet is so hard to find, it's unconditional love. I give it but there's always a catch from the other person. I've sought it my whole life, and found it only in my child. I'll never stop looking for, it's out there I'm sure, but it's rare. I don't believe in soul mates, the idea of one person meant for me just sounds cruel and daunting. Thank you for sharing, the search continues ☺️☺️

I don't think soulmates are restricted to one in a lifetime or even one period.

My wife and I were soulmates. For 41 years of dedication to each other.
Even her dying didn't break that bond and if I thought for even a second that it wasn't possible to find another soul and spirit match, I wouldn't bother looking.

I think the problem is, most people don't really know what a soul mate is.

But then I don't think that most people don't really know what deep devoted love is either.

[al****]

One of the biggest lessons I've learned about love is, to love sometimes means letting go. Such a ***ful lesson i must say. 

Anyway,  I'll just wait here patiently for someone that may or may not exist lol. I'm sure he exist in a dimension somewhere maybe just not the one im in...