How to be a better Bull/Gentlemen

[Af****]

Hello and good morning my freaky friends! Looking for tips on how to be the best bull ever. Let’s chat about it help a brother out.

[Br****]

It really depends on your sub

[Af****]

5 minutes ago, Brittanibillows said:

It really depends on your sub

Yeah I’ve noticed sub come different

[Deleted Member]

You have to have conversations with potential partners to get an understanding of who they are and what their desires and limits are. The answers will vary from one person to the next; however, you will discover that ppl don't always know what they like or want.

[Af****]

11 minutes ago, Shedeur said:

You have to have conversations with potential partners to get an understanding of who they are and what their desires and limits are. The answers will vary from one person to the next; however, you will discover that ppl don't always know what they like or want.

Yeah I try to understand what folk want but when they don’t know it is fun to find out

[Ki****]

Depends on your dynamic. I’m still a sub to the woman despite acting as her bull and I feel that can work into a lot of other bull dynamics since you’re providing a service. Follow the rules of play and try not to take charge, especially early in the relationship. You don’t know the cucks triggers and what might ruin the play, if you really need to say something whisper it into the woman’s ear. In two ways this is both a filter to your dirty talk and secret whispering from a bull drives the cuck crazy.

[Deleted Member]

As a bull, stay in your lane. You are a kink service provider for the hotwife. Her husband isn't your sub, he is submitting to his wife's desires, not yours. Even if you are interacting with both parties, you were invited to be a guest in their marriage.

You are not calling the shots, they are. If they didn't have a kink that involved a 3rd party, they wouldn't entertain you. Be a gentlemen. Satisfy their desires. Remain respectful, and keep it pushing. You are not part of their marriage. You are part of their fantasy. Enjoy the ride and be on your way.

[Sc****]

@BourgeoisBlaque as a fairly vanilla monogamous dude who has had a very difficult time understanding the cuck dynamic, I want to thank you for this explanation. It really helped me understand some of the motivations of the people who do engage.(I know this doesn't really contribute to the op's topic, sorry)

[ey****]

I feel @BourgeoisBlaque has hit many bases

Some things I'd add.  Get regular STI tests.  How regular depends on how many couples you are being bull to, and also whether any couple is likely to have had other bulls. (so if you are going with lots of people - regular tests. If you are just going to one couple but they are using other bulls - regular tests.) this is true even if you use protection 

 

Different couples also have different wants out of the set up.  It's important to understand this and if it aligns with your wants 

[Deleted Member]

@scrathmarks Every couple has their motivation for why they do what they do. What i have learned is anyone who has a kink that involves 3rd parties, they are only engaging to fulfill their desires

[Deleted Member]

@scratchmark.... Each couple is unique. Some cuckold situations involve *** and *** while others are just voyeur. They want to see their wives get fucked by other men and not participate. As the bull, he is a kink service provider. A necessary evil for the couple to get their needs met. The same rules apply to threesomes. MFM or FMF the additional person is there for the main people entertainment, and not much else.

[Ki****]

4 hours ago, BourgeoisBlaque said:

@scratchmark.... Each couple is unique. Some cuckold situations involve *** and *** while others are just voyeur. They want to see their wives get fucked by other men and not participate. As the bull, he is a kink service provider. A necessary evil for the couple to get their needs met. The same rules apply to threesomes. MFM or FMF the additional person is there for the main people entertainment, and not much else.

You hit the nail on the head exactly. Being a bill can be great fun, but get used to being the third wheel in the dynamic. You are the exception to the couples norm.