Surprise kink

[Sm****]

What's a kink you all never thought you'd like but actually ended up enjoying it immensely? (: just curious!

[Deleted Member]

The kind of sadism that makes someone cry. I tried impact play once years ago with a different partner, and just felt guilty and didn’t enjoy it. I thought, “ah this isn’t for me.” Later I met a masochist, and how wrong I was.

[sl****]

Pegging & ***d fem

[ki****]

I am absolutely in love with gangbangs. Everyone I have been in so far they have taken such good care of me.

[la****]

Sucking dick lol

[no****]

Sph and ballbusting 🙈

[Da****]

Actually never thought I would develop a massage kink until my last partner

[Da****]

Giving them, not receiving

[Bo****]

Asphyxiation, honestly. So ya.

[Deleted Member]

Wax play… haven’t tried it with a partner yet but I get very turned on when I get waxed. My waxer once was scared the wax she used was too hot and I smiled. I hadn’t noticed and actually enjoyed it more

[No****]

Choking, spanking, anal, degrading 🤤

[Bo****]

Good question. I was surprised to learn that attraction to wet bodies, like out from a body of water or a pool is a kink.

Giving men oral. I was a late bloomer there and I still have a lot to learn admittedly. Him getting really turned on by it made me really, excited both mentally and physically lol. 😆

[Deleted Member]

Topping for watersports. I’d never done any such thing before and had to be talked into it. Now it gives me the giggles.

[Sh****]

Voyeurism... Didn't seem to be anything that was ...A turn on... But an FWB wanted me to watch a "Pillow humping" session... and im all about fulfilling my partners kinks, so I agreed. I was pleasantly surprised at how freaking HOT that actually was... and look forward to it now.


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[Cupistunt]

Been ***ed on by 2 girls absolutely loved every depraved second of it

[ch****]

I like it nasty

[straponquee-2976]

On 5/20/2025 at 10:50 AM, slaveyboy73 said:

Pegging & ***d fem

looking for someone like you

[straponquee-2976]

58 minutes ago, charlotte60974 said:

I like it nasty

down to try anything with our experience 

 

[Eg****]

I surprised myself by enjoying cnc and butt stuff way more than I thought I would. Having a partner that’s substantially heavier and stronger than me (and also taller) was a game-changer. I like bears with beards 🤷‍♀️

[Deleted Member]

Stay with me, this is a story, but there's a point to it.

In my 20s (especially college) my mindset wasn't much different from other guys my age - dating was more about getting laid than real relationships. And even then, my idea of sex involved "banging the shit out of them until I came" (and not always concerned if they did). It was a very self-absorbed and self-defeating way to approach dating and women.

After college and working for a living, I began trying the usual dating site and apps. Had a few dates here and there and was beginning to get the memo about how to regard and treat women better. However, sex was still pretty much lacking any subtly or focus on their needs/wants. But I was primarily looking for women in my age range (i.e., within five years of my age at the time).

One thing I noticed on the dating sites were the number of women in their late 30s and early/mid 40s showing me attention. They were a mix of "ready to settle down and have a family," "recently divorced and getting back out into the dating game," and "I want some fun with a younger man" messages in their profiles. At first, I was getting a little frustrated with more mature women "winking" at or sending me messages. I wasn't ready to settle down, I didn't want the added drama of someone dealing with the aftershocks of a divorce, and wasn't quite sure I'd be physically attracted to someone 10 to 15 years older than I was.

Despite my hesitations, I took up a few of those mature women in some online conversations. One or two especially were good about pointing out things I had wrong about my psychological approach to dating and relationships, and admittedly tantalizing talks about where sex can be better for everyone involved. One of them eventually graduated up to talking on the phone and we eventually met in-person. I can tell you that I wasn't sure what to expect - I was 28 years old meeting a woman who at least claimed to be 42 (in retrospect, I think she may have been a little older). To my surprise, it was a great time talking with her face-to-face over a few glasses of wine, and I was genuinely surprised at how attractive I found her. We met for a second date (an outdoor concert) and that night ended with us at her place having sex. Over the next few dates, she coached me, gave me tips, and showed me things about myself and what women can do that were AMAZING. Unfortunately, things eventually ended with her, and I went back to pursuing women my age again.

However, one or two other mature women crossed my path. One wanted a genuine relationship, but the chemistry just didn't work and we had much different interests. The other was best described as a cougar and wanted younger men for the obvious reasons. She also was a wealth of learning about sex and was AMAZING in bed (and the couch, the floor, certain public places...).

I discovered that I was attracted to and enjoyed sex with women of a certain age, even expanding my attraction to women in their early 50s. Something about their knowing what they like, their experience/skills/talents, in general not playing games was wildly attractive to me. To this day, I still love and appreciate that about mature women.

My advice to anyone in their 20s and early 30s is try dating or at least hooking up with someone a little older - the rewards are worth the experience.

Edited August 25, 2025 by Deleted Member

[ki****]

Being totally showered in all fluids.. then laying together till we dried and loving the scent of each other and licking each other all evening and taping the toilet shut till we were so full… and… 🤐😍