Older Women and Having a belly

[Mi****]

I'm 40, and I've had 3 kids, so I have a bit of a belly that I'm super self conscious of. I know that there must me other older women who feel the same. Can people give their opinion? Would you find a normally skinny person with a belly sexy or attractive? Should I feel self conscious?

[no****]

Definetly not miss

[Sum-1356]

Belly’s are sexy trust me if a guy doesn’t like a belly that’s not a man

[st****]

I have definitely not had a problem and I've got one more kid on you 😉

[Mr****]

Just know that real men give zero fucks about a little extra.We know what real women look like.👌🔥

[Deleted Member]

Shouldn’t feel self conscious at all. You look great.

[No****]

Please don’t be self conscious. We are always hardest and most critical of ourselves.

[De****]

Most men and women wish their belly was better. However, I am pretty sure you are more than just a belly. Focus on your positives and no one will notice your negatives.

[sl****]

I find women like you sexy af and I’m definitely attracted to you

[Ca****]

I love a little bit of belly its sexy

[Ma****]

Yes, a belly is attractive. You've had kids, and yeah most that's an issue after they have the kids. I'd be happy to take you on a date and get to see the whole you. Personality too

[Shilo66]

3 hours ago, TylarasMistress said:

I'm 40, and I've had 3 kids, so I have a bit of a belly that I'm super self conscious of. I know that there must me other older women who feel the same. Can people give their opinion? Would you find a normally skinny person with a belly sexy or attractive? Should I feel self conscious?

LOL (in a nice way)... you're on a Kink site, most fellas aren't going to notice, and the ones that do, will probably have a fetish for a bit of belly anyway.

So, I wouldn't worry AT ALL, you'll be fine.

 

[Wi****]

There's is absolutely nothing wrong with belly. It shows your history, who you are and what you are.

[ea****]

A belly can be just as sexy on someone as rock hard abs.

[Di****]

I don’t understand. doubting yourself? This is a trap say I to the fly. You were pretty specific in your request for proposal. If your tower is ivory or horn we will see.

[Re****]

Sexy isn't a size, or age ...its a whole vibe.

[Ro****]

Your fine it's not a problem for most men and if it is ask yours do you really want to go e your energy to a person with a superficial mind your fine the way you are dont worry about it

[Deleted Member]

I'm over 40 and just had another baby. Love your belly. It kept you and your *** healthy and safe carrying them. The eptiome of femininity is it not? How can that not be sexy or attractive to others seeking you?? Genes and hormones work differently for everybody. Some heal with scarring worse than others and I am sure there isn't a person out there who isn't insecure about something about themselves. For me, it's my height or lack thereof (i'm 5 ft).

I know for you, in your mind your belly seems big and but I bet others would see you in a different light. Maybe your eyes sparkle when you laugh or maybe a have a cheeky grin when you smile. What I'm saying is there is so much more to love about yourself than skin. You could start by thinking about 1 thing about your appearance you like or you think is your strength. Believe in it and really take care of that 1 part. Then start thinking of another part and do the same until YOU love you and all of your body. Forget about the ones who don't appreciate every part of you, embrace the ones who do. Take care x

[Re****]

Im 46...3 kids, lived life, eat food and have a belly..it makes me a little self conscious sure....but I am sexy and beautiful from head to toe...flaws and all. 😉

[Ra****]

I love bellies and I love my belly. My kids came out of the sunroof, my body has survived and done an amazing job. Find you a lover that will get involved in all of it - there’s nothing sexier to me than a man that doesn’t shy away from my wobbly bits. 😘 sending SO much love x

[Ti****]

This supposed to scare us away darlin?

[Deleted Member]

Pretty sure the only people who hate bellys are the people who have them and even then they only hate their own. It's okay to not like how you look or if you want to look better but only if it's for you. Just know nobody else give af. I used to be a little fat and i didn't like it so i lost weight but i love a girl with a tummy. Im a very handsy person and i make sure one hand is always on the stomach. If we're sitting or standing and my hand is around you, best believe im holding onto a jellyroll. If we're cuddling or sleeping and im resting my hand on you, im grabbing a handful. Gripping a fat chunck. 😂

[Deleted Member]

I have yet to find a man that minds😊. Except my ex. Lol

[Deleted Member]

To me when I think of a real woman I think of a woman who has a belly and is curvy in that way. personally I think it's very sexy. I have a hard time being with very skinny women, I prefer something to hold on to (;

[Eu****]

Soft ,Sweet & sexy ,,, when I think about with a little bit of belly.. 🤤