Older Women and Having a belly

[CumWhatMayhem]

First let me say, I am pleasantly suprised by all the positivity and support on this forum! (I'm originally from Minnesota, so not used to that!)

More importantly, Girl, I've had 2 kids, my entire middle is stretch marks, tits to thighs. My x said the pattern looks like tree bark, I just go with it. We can start a sexy tree friends club lol! If it bothers you, though, that is still a valid feeling, sex is no fun when we feel less than. Maybe do something fun and different somewhere else on your body, you know, change the focus. Try a wild hair color, get that tattoo you've always wanted, have your makeup done & get a new pallette. You are the only one you need to please! When a lady is feeling sexy, man watch out!

[St****]

I love a girl with some meat on there bones!!! I haven't seen a picture of your body, but I know I will love it. Especially if you have camel toe!!!! Instantl turn on!!!. I hope to hear back from you.

[an****]

I’ve always been attracted to curves and fuller figures. So belly here for the win.

[Tara131]

Hello. I'm new here and this is actually my first reply/post. Boy can I relate to this for sure. I'm 53 and never had *** but I managed to get a belly anyway. It's kind of embarrassing as I just put on so much weight within the last year and the belly folding over my undies is real. I know in my mind and my heart that we are beautiful, but sometimes that one thing can just take over and our confidence takes a massive hit. From one beautiful woman to another, I wish society didn't do this to us because we ARE beautiful!!! I'm hoping the people here don't care about our waist and from what I'm reading they don't.  

[Deleted Member]

I mean speaking as a man we don't care about a little belly you have no reason to be self conscious ❤️

[sl****]

id totally do ya in a lotta fun ways

[BillyBestofall]

I'm just speaking on myself you are beautiful. I love redheads and I'm not categorizing you anywhere other than in a category of abeautiful women. But I've been in chubby chaser my whole life. I was a chubby chaser since the '80s since before it was cool LOL. Actually require for there to be a little tummy on my woman if I were to have one that's what I would lean towards or she wouldn't mean as much to me. I'm slender and two sticks make fire.

[Vi****]

Yes I am here and 41, had three kids and now also deals with self conscious, always been very skinny and now deal with a belly also.

[sl****]

well that's just a feeling and feelings pass

[sl****]

how would you like to feel accepted as u are

[No****]

I have issues also. I had a tummy tuck but i dont want anyone looking at me mostly because i seee the comments guys make about womens bodies online. Im not blind. This makes me 💯 not do
Hook ups. I want to know the guy likes me, is attracted, is into it, not faking.

[Wi****]

First off, no, you should not feel self-conscious. No matter how a person looks, there's always others who will find them attractive. Funny, I say this here, but I doubt it for myself, hahaha. I certainly find you attractive, though, and from what I can see in the picture with a top-down view, I see nothing wrong with your stomach ❤️

[Eu****]

I love nibbling that part..

[On****]

Love all the positivity in this thread!! It embodies my experience over the years in the kink community. I remember my first dungeon at a kink event, naked people on the cross, spanking bench or rope floor, people of every size, shape and color, some watching, some participating. What I noticed most? They were all having an amazing time, giggling, laughing and comforting to those maybe a little more timid at first. There was only positivity in that dungeon that night. No body shaming, no kink shaming no slut shaming... Just wonderfully unique people enjoying their kink. I smiled as I read the comments here, this is why I love this community.

[Do****]

Girl wear this striped with pride. I I'm a personality type. I'm after a man's brain, I hardly notice the body. I mean I look, just don't care what it looks like. It's all in how we treat one another and how we touch, not so much the part we're feeling.

[mo****]

I love this thread so much. People will love and hate what you look like no matter the size. Let the haters hate they ain’t meant for you. Everyone is beautiful and your body gave life it deserves to be honored 🫶

[TimtheMerciless]

Seems to me - belly or no belly: 

Sex isn't the property of the most good looking people.

If you have a pulse - then you should celebrate your sexuality boldly and passionately. Do not look for the permission of other people. 

Embrace your own permission both  boldly and tenderly.

💥

Edited May 25, 2025 by TimtheMerciless
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[Chazz-9912]

I used to weigh a lot, and worry about it. But then I began to love the person I am. I will find the right person for me someday. But right now I have an awesome life! I'm still a bit heavy, but I love and like myself. I know you have some amazing people in your life and you are having fun. Get rid of all the stereotypes and be in love with yourself! Put on a sexy outfit and dance it out! Celebrate you! Wear a smile every day and cherish the moment! The right people you attract will come into your life! Sending lots of love your way!

[Mi****]

For the most part there are always going to be a certain percentage of people who are attracted to you no matter what. Being healthy and comfortable with yourself is what matters.

[Ke****]

You are absolutely amazing!

[lukaspot]

On 5/23/2025 at 10:55 PM, TylarasMistress said:

I'm 40, and I've had 3 kids, so I have a bit of a belly that I'm super self conscious of. I know that there must me other older women who feel the same. Can people give their opinion? Would you find a normally skinny person with a belly sexy or attractive? Should I feel self conscious?

A soft belly on a woman who’s lived, loved, and built life? That’s not just sexy—it’s a fucking turn-on. Real desire isn’t about airbrushed abs; it’s about the way you move, own your curves, and radiate confidence. Trust me, the right hands and mouths, will worship every inch of you. So drop the shame and start embracing the heat you’ve got

[Ba****]

Have been self conscious about my weight since my 20s. Had a therapist question what kinds of partners I like and pointed out that if I can like multiple body types so can other people. So if someone wants someone skinny they can go for it but I'm blessed to have people who enjoy my body type as much as I enjoy theirs.

[ma****]

I think the belly is a turn on personally

[Deleted Member]

Women of all shapes are sexy. attraction is about the spark between two people, how they make feel and how you make them feel. Idk nothing is ‘perfect’ whatever that means but that’s what makes it special

[TimtheMerciless]

It's great to have a body like an Olympic pole vaulter. But If you have confidence and a willingness to revel in pleasure, he'll be kissing that belly like a thing possessed.