If there was a flag for BDSM, what color would it be?

[Mu****]

I'll say red with black, what would you say?

[ed****]

I'm so shocked that there isn't one. I guess it's because we've been a discreet community? At least historically.

[Hm****]

Um. . . black and blue seems the obvious choice. 😁

[Ta****]

5 minutes ago, Hmmmm692 said:

Um. . . black and blue seems the obvious choice. 😁

I thought the same thing. Maybe bright yellow with a smiley face, people are already scared of what they don’t know. Black just seems pirate like

[Or****]

I'd say that's the anarchist flag, we don't do well with slaves and masters

[Ta****]

Ccg

[Deleted Member]

There is one. 🤦🏻‍♀️ its black blue white and red. Id post a pic here but I can't.

[Deleted Member]

37 minutes ago, edc88 said:

I'm so shocked that there isn't one. I guess it's because we've been a discreet community? At least historically.

There is though. 🫠

[Fe****]

i actually think the bdsm flag is so goddamn ugly

[Fe****]

can we not do better as a collective?

[Deleted Member]

3 minutes ago, Fern_Starsmith said:

i actually think the bdsm flag is so goddamn ugly

Its definitely not going to win the beautiful flag competition thats for sure lol

[Deleted Member]

19 minutes ago, BelladonnaBaby said:

There is one. 🤦🏻‍♀️ its black blue white and red. Id post a pic here but I can't.

Is that the one known as the Leather Pride flag?

[tr****]

They’re actually is one. It’s there’s a a heart on it. With black blue and white lines, I will try to send a photo.

[Deleted Member]

2 minutes ago, transiceslut said:

They’re actually is one. It’s there’s a a heart on it. With black blue and white lines, I will try to send a photo.

Thats the leather pride. The bdsm has a triskle in the middle. Same background though.

[tr****]

You’re actually is one. It’s really nice flag. You can Google what it looks like it would not let me post a picture in the comment.

[Deleted Member]

6 minutes ago, Griot said:

Is that the one known as the Leather Pride flag?

Bdsm has the triscoll in the middle

[Deleted Member]

2 minutes ago, BelladonnaBaby said:

Thats the leather pride. The bdsm has a triskle in the middle. Same background though.

*triscoll* correct my spelling.

[tr****]

There’s a red heart in the top of the stripes

[Jollyrancher8822]

Black background red little devil

[Deleted Member]

I posted both flags in my photos. To clear confusion

[Deleted Member]

1 hour ago, Jollyrancher8822 said:

Black background red little devil

Wrong. Thats the fetlife* logo lol

Edited June 8, 2025 by Deleted Member
*External link removed

[tr****]

It will not let me post a picture here

[TheDevilMakesWork]

Skull and cross bones ☠️😋

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Just now, transiceslut said:

It will not let me post a picture here

I posted on my photos the 2 flags they're pending approval.

[Jollyrancher8822]

@BelladonnaBaby lol I know that but not if you actually put a red devil on it lol