Popular Post CQ**** Posted June 12 Popular Post After being married, Ava experimenting with threesomes I realized that nothing gets me going more than seeing how intimate my hubby can be with another woman. But I’m struggling to find a girl to “take” my husband from me. Any recommendations?
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CQ**** Posted June 12 Author I don’t need to be taken care of that’s what he’s for lol. I just can’t match his sex drive
Vi**** Posted June 12 I think things like this are difficult, just like it is difficult to find an MFF threesome. For starters, you are much more likely to find a woman than your man is, just purely based on the way dating apps work. Maybe make a couplea profile, with you are the head? I would also see advice from your husband on how to find these, as it is very unlikely you have the experience of looking for a woman in a dating app. It isn't easy. As a woman, looking for men, they flock to you. But as a man looking for a woman, he's going to have to treat it like a part time job. I'm not familiar with how women attract women, but I would expect it's two people waiting for the other to make a move, so.... you'll need to put the effort of a man into it, with the charm of a woman. Good luck 😬😅
ey**** Posted June 12 you may well find this is easier in person to arrange so online one of the big problems with "couples profiles" is it rarely feels like the other person is speaking to "the couple" just one part of it If you reach out to folk online some might suspect you are not real or that there's some form of bait and switch going to happen. If he reaches out, then it's going to come across like it's more unicorn hunting than because he's actually interested in the other person But if for example you go to swing events, you can find people he vibes with who you are cool with. If you go to fetish events you can make friends and again there may be people up for those scenarios Or, of course this is easy enough to arrange with hands in your pockets.
Do**** Posted June 12 Yeah... this is gonna be tough. We're looking for someone similar, and it's a pretty regular "brick wall" type scenario. The only way this works is if you (as the woman) puts in the legwork like a man does. Otherwise, she'll think he's cheating. You'll quickly see how hard it is for us as men out there, I think. Don't let it discourage you, if that's what you want, though.
Ji**** Posted June 12 Depending on your definition of "take," it is probably going to take a lot of trust and time and probably finding the right woman. But you've got a lucky husband, so I'm sure he won't mind the effort
Ta**** Posted June 12 There are tons of couples looking for exactly what you described. They all seem to have difficulty finding the evasive unicorn, because they shop online. In my experience, and I’ve been part or a couple, a throuple, even been the sole make in a poly household for many years, you have to go out and meet people in person. Attend social events, munches and clubs that are lifestyle oriented. Otherwise, the odds are that you’ll spend years unsuccessfully shopping apps and websites for your additional partner. This isn’t Amazon. Real people still want to feel the connection.
Th**** Posted June 12 OP just to clarify if you don't mind... a few comments sound like they think you're unicorn hunting or wanting to find a woman to engage with both if you but that's not how I've read it. It sounds like to me you're talking about something more like cuckqueaning, where you're looking to be left out of the scenario correct? Another variation could be the objectification of your husband and "loaning him out." Most people in my circle prefer to see a couple have separate profiles that are linked insteadnof a joint profile and be able to make sure everyone is on the same page. It especially weirds me out to see a "couple profile" on feeld when it's specifically set up to link partners. Here too to a degree if they aren't using the couple profile feature.
Wi**** Posted June 15 Thursday at 12:14 PM, eyemblacksheep said: you may well find this is easier in person to arrange so online one of the big problems with "couples profiles" is it rarely feels like the other person is speaking to "the couple" just one part of it If you reach out to folk online some might suspect you are not real or that there's some form of bait and switch going to happen. If he reaches out, then it's going to come across like it's more unicorn hunting than because he's actually interested in the other person But if for example you go to swing events, you can find people he vibes with who you are cool with. If you go to fetish events you can make friends and again there may be people up for those scenarios Or, of course this is easy enough to arrange with hands in your pockets. I agree with Blacksheep. In person events let's you both vet people together. If you are having trouble finding people in your area, maybe reach out a little further. If you haven't already, check fetlife for events. Depending on your area and how far you are willing to travel, you may actually find what you are looking for.
Deleted Member Posted June 16 Get off the internet and go out to public spaces where you can vet people together. The couple that hunts together is more successful in finding what they want.
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