Change my mind, opinion please

[Mr****]

well only do a single profile pic all others can be asked for

bare minimum to me means no text or data in the provided fields behind name and age.

i agree limited data profiles are not appealing

[As****]

Not only is it more interesting but it adds a level of humanity that allows me to trust them more initially. I feel like trust is very important in these endeavors!

[Ca****]

9 minutes ago, MrDiogenes said:

well only do a single profile pic all others can be asked for

bare minimum to me means no text or data in the provided fields behind name and age.

i agree limited data profiles are not appealing

Agreed, people go really overboard sending nudes anymore. To the point that receiving them just doesn't have the same punch anymore. I'm always willing to share pics of whatever you want to see, but I'm not going to assume everyone wants to see it. On the other hand, it doesn't matter if it's here or any other social media, if you're not showing activity, it screams fake.

[Ph****]

Hard yes, the lesss i see the less im attracted

[Sh****]

i like having something to be able to determine compatibility upfront. otherwise its wasting time for both.

[Re****]

42 minutes ago, nothanksplease80 said:

It's hard to find someone that doesn't just want to have sex or some variation to it. So it depends on what you are looking for something of substance is harder.

Some just want the $ and want subs for OF.

[Ca****]

2 minutes ago, ShdwNtr said:

i like having something to be able to determine compatibility upfront. otherwise its wasting time for both.

Compatibility isn't quite the right word. You can learn a lot from pictures, but not compatibility. Attraction is probably the better word. No attraction isn't everything, but without it nothing else happens.

[gu****]

I agree for the most part. Minimal information leads to minimal interest. I also check things like the date joined and response rate. If they are relatively new then I may not totally discount them. I remember taking a couple of days to figure out what to put in my profile. And as a single older man I am very suspicious for bots and the OF marketers.

[Sh****]

8 minutes ago, CasualPlay said:

Compatibility isn't quite the right word. You can learn a lot from pictures, but not compatibility. Attraction is probably the better word. No attraction isn't everything, but without it nothing else happens.

i was referring to details in their bio. yes attraction would be their pics, but i invest more into a bio than in pics.

[Ca****]

1 minute ago, ShdwNtr said:

i was referring to details in their bio. yes attraction would be their pics, but i invest more into a bio than in pics.

As you should. I didn't mean to imply otherwise. It's the complete picture, I'm with you.

[Pe****]

I much prefer profiles with a bio. I find myself less interested if the person has nothing to say about themselves.

[ho****]

Said He

[Ch****]

Yes I prefer a profile have a basic introduction and what they seek, especially if they have been on a site for a while. I get it can take some time if new to this, maybe working on what they want, but that's also a good intro just to start.
I hate " ask me anything, up for anything, no limits blah blah" that really shows me they have no clue, cus they could bump into that person into slicing and dicing and before they know it theres an amputation going on,...
but no limits, right?

[my****]

Completely agree. There are absolute deal breakers for me and being able to scan down a profile to say not for me, is beneficial. Plus if you’re trying to strike up a conversation, having a blank profile means there’s no where to go other than I’m a Dom, are you interested in me?

The older I get the less I accept as the bare minimum. I fully understand not
Posting a picture because of security concerns but I want a lot of effort in a relationship. If you’re not putting in the effort telling me about you I’m not going to be interested for long.

[Er****]

Yes omg, if you have no content filled out, no pictures of yourself that show off your attractiveness and you aren’t active or appealing I’m not gonna interact with you! Put effort in if you want people to interact with you!!

[Ca****]

7 minutes ago, PeynMinx said:

I much prefer profiles with a bio. I find myself less interested if the person has nothing to say about themselves.

Right?! I swear asking people to describe themselves is like asking them to solve the unified theory!😂

[Ca****]

10 minutes ago, Cheekysub247 said:

Yes I prefer a profile have a basic introduction and what they seek, especially if they have been on a site for a while. I get it can take some time if new to this, maybe working on what they want, but that's also a good intro just to start.
I hate " ask me anything, up for anything, no limits blah blah" that really shows me they have no clue, cus they could bump into that person into slicing and dicing and before they know it theres an amputation going on,...
but no limits, right?

In my defense, I really do have FEW limits and a desire to fulfill YOUR fantasies. That's what I'M searching for, to know I'm not the only one hoping others don't know what fucked up thought just made me pitch a tent.😆 Even here I'm skiddish about scaring people off with my perversions.😂

[Ca****]

7 minutes ago, Ereader19 said:

Yes omg, if you have no content filled out, no pictures of yourself that show off your attractiveness and you aren’t active or appealing I’m not gonna interact with you! Put effort in if you want people to interact with you!!

Truth!

[Deleted Member]

I just assume they're bots and ignore them.

[Ro****]

I think they are catfish/bots/scammers if they only have one picture

[Ca****]

3 minutes ago, Romeo0718 said:

I think they are catfish/bots/scammers if they only have one picture

I think that's the general consensus. The nasty side of the consequence free anonymous online society we've created. When the Internet first went up, the *** was meeting a sociopath. Anymore it seems like that's everyone, so we'll take a sociopath over a bot just for the conversation.😂

[Ch****]

We all have perversions, some we might want to hold back on until comfortable talking to people, I get that, we all understand that. It's the no detail, nothing to work with, nothing to even spark a convo on. 😊

I wouldn't trust anyone who didnt have limits, I wouldn't feel they have really explored enough to not come across things they dont like. Or put it another way they might have ONLY explored a few things they like and want to stick to that, so everything else is a hard limit.

7 minutes ago, CasualPlay said:

In my defense, I really do have FEW limits and a desire to fulfill YOUR fantasies. That's what I'M searching for, to know I'm not the only one hoping others don't know what fucked up thought just made me pitch a tent.😆 Even here I'm skiddish about scaring people off with my perversions.😂

 

[Ca****]

My personal favorite is when people put pictures of their kids on their dating profile. I'm sure your kids are awesome, and I'm sure I'll eventually enjoy meeting them. But when I'm skimming profiles for a romantic attachment and come across pictures of your kids... I just feel dirty and put my phone down.😆

[Deleted Member]

I 100% agree with your opinion, no attempt will be made to change it. Those profiles are a waste of time!

[Mi****]

Alot different for women and men. Yall get to be choosy about things like that. Most men on here are lucky to interact with anyone.