Change my mind, opinion please

[al****]

How about the at least 4 profiles that I've noticed that put an ad out with the same IG address...

[Ca****]

4 minutes ago, MistahJ318 said:

Alot different for women and men. Yall get to be choosy about things like that. Most men on here are lucky to interact with anyone.

Not just here. With everyone who has a phone or computer at their fingertips, the market got a whole lot more packed. The rules haven't changed guys, we just have to step out game up that much more. Intelligently, that would mean being different than the pushy dicks that think they're the shit with a golden dick. Newsflash: every guy has one.🤣

[Ca****]

4 minutes ago, alfredpennyworth said:

How about the at least 4 profiles that I've noticed that put an ad out with the same IG address...

Right?! And it works cause most people aren't that observant.😆

[Mi****]

I get what you're saying but what's your point lol? Are you offering solutions to what I'm saying? Cause I wasn't looking for that, I was just stating facts. I also understand it happens on multiple platforms but the original question was pertaining to THIS platform.

[Bu****]

Forgot the rapper .... "sorry, but some of us were blessed with the gift of gab." It takes a dude who is very confident in his abilities to manipulate women who can do it solely through words.... IMO.

Not bashing, we all play the game with the skills we have, just an observation. It's also those types of guys were grown-ups realize, within 3 minutes, they ain't shit.

[Bu****]

1 minute ago, Buck757 said:

Forgot the rapper .... "sorry, but some of us were blessed with the gift of gab." It takes a dude who is very confident in his abilities to manipulate women who can do it solely through words.... IMO.

Not bashing, we all play the game with the skills we have, just an observation. It's also those types of guys were grown-ups realize, within 3 minutes, they ain't shit.

Sorry... "some of us weren't blessed"

[Ca****]

4 minutes ago, MistahJ318 said:

I get what you're saying but what's your point lol? Are you offering solutions to what I'm saying? Cause I wasn't looking for that, I was just stating facts. I also understand it happens on multiple platforms but the original question was pertaining to THIS platform.

Just making conversation out of the topic. Chill man, nothing threatening. Call me starved for conversation with a personality that likes to make people laugh. I agree with your statement, most everyone else in the conversation does as well. Finding a real person online is like finding a diamond in a coal mine. I think that was the conversation she was looking to start. That's how I interpreted it, anyway.

[sm****]

Bare minimum, to begin with is no problem, as people join the site and may fill in later.  What can be a problem, when bare minimum accounts initiate contact,

Red Flag, they give out contact details to get you off site or talk of any financial wants.

Red Flag two is they don't or haven't bothered to read the whole profile of the person they are contacting and asking for loads of information.

Blank profiles can and often are new people just dipping their toes in, reading for information and getting the feel of a place, before feeling confident enough to add more information and a description.  I have personally known people put their local miles away from where they actually live for personal and security reasons.

Remember getting in to the kink scene can be a very frightening and intimidating place for the new.

But also for those blank profiles, I would strongly be weary of all the incoming DM's and friend requests, especially if it's a genuine female account.  

In time the more information, descriptions the better as it helps with other genuine people wishing to make contact with similar interests and experiences.   But don't give it all out for free, i don't mean in a  financially manner, both parties have to put in some genuine effort.

[Ca****]

7 minutes ago, Buck757 said:

Sorry... "some of us weren't blessed"

😄 conversation isn't a gift, bud. It's a skill. It can be awkward to learn, but it's not difficult. Use your words to describe your thoughts and feelings to someone who can't feel/hear/see them. They call this the information age, tragic that the more our devices can do our interacting, the less we interact ourselves. Your s***ch doesn't need to be elegant, it just needs to be respectful and genuine. That's what catches people's attention because people just aren't like that anymore. With a little effort, we can shift it back...if enough people want that...

[Lo****]

I personally haven't added a pic i joined and seen a female co worker underling already on here is y I dont have a pic up

[Ca****]

4 minutes ago, Lonenightwolf13 said:

I personally haven't added a pic i joined and seen a female co worker underling already on here is y I dont have a pic up

Understandable. You make generalizations, but leave room for the outliers, and and judge on a case by case basis. As others have suggested, you can fill your profile out in other ways to show you're real.

[le****]

Yes it certainly does

[Deleted Member]

you gotta do what works and is most comfortable for you. I personally like as much filled out as possible but I do understand why people choose not to.

[Deleted Member]

Put some pics up which don’t show identifiable info if that’s what you need to do for your job.
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Please put some info in your bio, preferably not just what you hate.
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If you do this then your profile I worth looking at, otherwise I wouldn’t bother talking personally.

[Ca****]

4 minutes ago, montgomery594570 said:

you gotta do what works and is most comfortable for you. I personally like as much filled out as possible but I do understand why people choose not to.

And you can fill out your profile without giving out any identifying information. No one's saying you have to put every detail of your life out there. That would be foolish. I think the general consensus is "give it a LITTLE effort, or don't expect any."

[gi****]

At the very least do the bdsm test.

[gi****]

And setting filters to where people can't message you... like why do that?

[Tw****]

Absolutely if you don't put in the effort in a profile you're not going to put an effort anywhere else

[Ca****]

5 minutes ago, giffordge said:

And setting filters to where people can't message you... like why do that?

To limit the number of responses they have to sort through to SOMEWHAT manageable numbers. It's a hot chick problem.😂

[bu****]

I see alot of stranded profiles in my area. And also some fake ones, and had a couple of woman wanting me to subscribe to thier only fans account. And the ones in my area that are here and claiming to wanting dating, pass at Any point of a conversation and have no intrest or interaction. Like wtf.

[Al****]

Considering the number of fake profiles, such lack of effort is questionable.

[fl****]

Oh yeah they do

[Du****]

Blank profile? We’re not talking. Haven’t read my profile? We’re not talking. First message is a one-word wonder? We’re not talking.

Don’t want to make an effort because “it might not pay off”? Fine - but we’re *definitely* not talking.

In short… I agree, RL ☺️

[pr****]

Not really lol

[Do****]

Yeah I avoid the ones that have hardly anything on and no photos. Even if was chatting, I can’t chat with no photo as I’ve no idea who I’m chatting to.