Change my mind, opinion please

[Du****]

5 minutes ago, CasualPlay said:

Noted, thank you. Most of my past interactions have been in person, and I don't make a habit of telling beautiful women that they're beautiful. They usually know already.😂 I'll have to give that some thought.

Nothing wrong with a compliment. A beautiful person is not automatically a confident person and it might make their day. There are those, though, who believe that paying a compliment entitles them to some attention; it can lead to disappointment.

[Ca****]

10 minutes ago, ValentineWitch2 said:

I also filter by distance and age and I also filter out trans as I'm not interested. So even looking wont change things in that aspect

Right. Completely agree. How long are you gonna bark up the wrong tree? I take that into account as well. No matter how well you connect, a thousand miles is a pretty insurmountable barrier, then the connection is just ***. I also won't deny there have been a few that were so stunning, I was happy just stopping to look at them.😉

[Ca****]

2 minutes ago, DuchessFeuille said:

Nothing wrong with a compliment. A beautiful person is not automatically a confident person and it might make their day. There are those, though, who believe that paying a compliment entitles them to some attention; it can lead to disappointment.

Well said. Unfortunately those people had mommies that told them they're perfect, and they believe it.🤣

[As****]

3 hours ago, Mosthatedguy said:

Doesn’t make one bit of difference to me if there is no picture or if someone is still trying to figure themselves out. What’s more important is what they write. Sometimes they might just need some guidance to finding their true identity. Not 20 guys saying they are going to fuck them up the ass and cum on their face 🤷‍♂️

That's fair. But like also safety

[Mo****]

I believe in hidden treasures. ..and I would rather be found by a treasure hunter, someone who believes before they found me.
I miss the days of anonymous chat.
Liars tried to take anonymous chat from us because it was working. True connections were being made based on something outside of physical attraction.
Over-emphasis on physical attraction brought us some beautiful, and unhealthy food. Beautiful and unreliable cars. And a bunch of pretty politicians who barely hear a word we say.

[To****]

Bare minimum effort on the profile makes me believe that's is what will come of the relationship.

[Ca****]

You get back what you put into it. Simple concept as old as time.

[Da****]

If there is no pic the BDSM test isn't filled out or anything in their profile, not active in 6 months, very low responses on messages, are all a hard pass. I mean those of us that have taken the time to fill out everything, just to see a profile with nothing is a waste. I not only see it here but other sites as well. Oh another thing is the only fans trend.

[Ma****]

Low effort accounts make me automatically assume they are bot accounts. Also its hard to approach someone not knowing there roles, kinks, interest. I also see alot of accounts not really interested in a dynamic. And are looking for a relationship more on the vanilla side.

[ou****]

I’ll pass on the no or one pic.

[Deleted Member]

Nothing notable, no pic, minimal description, ‘joined Fet today’ are all red flags to me. Far too active in my local kink community to bother with those.

[ka****]

Yes

[Deleted Member]

I filter out no pics at the very minimum

[Ki****]

I’m a magnet for young nubile AI bot creations. And I report block delete.

[Deleted Member]

Absolutely. Most are fake. Wish this app could weed them out a little better

[Ma****]

True that would help out alot. Also help with kicking out the OF Sellers.

[Bl****]

I completely agree with the reasoning - blank profiles are a massive flag. I am contradictory though as I don’t have a profile picture. Unfortunately, I have privacy reasons though which mean I can’t put a face picture on here (at least for the time being).

I try to be transparent by having information on my profile, and I’m always happy to answer any questions anyone has. As soon as someone speaks to me and I know I don’t know them personally, I’m happy to identify myself in private! I also hope to go to events soon, so people should get to know who I am in a group setting in public, which should establish some trust amongst the community.

[Ca****]

9 minutes ago, AndoverDaddy293 said:

Absolutely. Most are fake. Wish this app could weed them out a little better

Yeah that'd be great! But aside from biometrically encoded identification, I don't know how you could weed out liars. Do you?😂

[Ch****]

I'm OK with not a lot of pictures, because some people are as private as I am. I ran into a guy from here that I had been chatting with at the supermarket while shopping with my elderly mom a few months back. Thank goodness we simply nodded and ignored each other.

However, I'm very concerned with a bare descriptions because I wonder if they are making up answers based on mine or are poor communicators. I'm very picky about someone's ability and willingness to put in the level of effort I do, and need.

[Ca****]

4 minutes ago, Cherryblossomgirl said:

I'm OK with not a lot of pictures, because some people are as private as I am. I ran into a guy from here that I had been chatting with at the supermarket while shopping with my elderly mom a few months back. Thank goodness we simply nodded and ignored each other.

However, I'm very concerned with a bare descriptions because I wonder if they are making up answers based on mine or are poor communicators. I'm very picky about someone's ability and willingness to put in the level of effort I do, and need.

Indeed. There's a difference between bare and private. Running into someone from the community in a public setting, you'd expect them to stay quiet about it. But these days you just can't count on human decency.😅 But you'd think they don't exactly want their kinks publicly aired either, so....😄

[se****]

I completely agree. It says fake profile to me.

[Pa****]

To a large extent yes

[ba****]

I don't bother with no pic or bare min description.

[Ge****]

I typically bypass those bare minimum profiles, especially if there aren't a couple of pictures. I get maintaining a sense of privacy because of social or professional backlash. Lack of bio info usually shows me lack of effort, might not be very interesting, or most often just networking to get you on their $$$ site. Essentially, what I consider fakes because they're not here to truly connect for the reasons a dating/fetish site or app is designed for.

[lc****]

I tend to agree with minimal profile, when it comes to pictures, given the nature of the site, I'd say I'm not comfortable showing face to everyone.