Change my mind, opinion please

[WhisperingVoid]

see i understand but i understand some.are.shy with pic sharing of themself as am i. and so id send.self pics.in priv maybe but not as a profile

[Ch****]

Pic sharing is one thing the the rest of the profile should be filled out to the best of the person's abilities and if pic share once you are comfortable with the person you are talking to and the other person should respect that if not they are not the one for you just my opinion

[WhisperingVoid]

thats a good take but i am a person that would rather talk in depth in converstaion naturally in dm than just having it in a profile to reduce my digital footprint as much as i can

[Ch****]

Well that's a fair point and as along as you communicate that with the person your talking to i call it a win

[Deleted Member]

First red flag when they want lure you away on to another app like ***am and such almost immediately.

[Ch****]

That's true as well ran into that alot it's kind sad really

[Ne****]

Especially this site as it's a better site so you need to bait the hook with the right things. Specifically looking someone to feel roles that are often diametrically opposite in order to match it's necessary to know where on those spectrums you fit. Not everybody is a switch.

[Mi****]

If you got pics that's fine. I can get to Obie you thru talking with you

[Da****]

It does because all the catfishing

[Ad****]

It’s a turn off and a red flag. Definitely feels like scammers, bots, and catfishing

[xX****]

Just depends no one wants to read a wall of words but nothing or very little being there is just as bad

[So****]

This whole app for me is a bunch of scammers lol reading their attempts at proper grammar are entertaining at least

[sh****]

Low effort profiles mean low effort personalities

[Co****]

For women i can understand, though still prefer a bit of something. A profile with a pic but no about me is a bit of a "tread cautiously" situation even.

I find if it's a fake womans profile though, they'll have pics and a generic about me, that is worse. But then again, I know signed up with no pic and maybe a "I'll get back to this" until I figured i wanted to spend any time here, so a little grace can be given

And of course it's the internet, where the men are men, 40% of the women are men, and the rest is split between law en***ment, scams, actual genuine people, and the 0% abandoned profiles lol

[ne****]

Disagree ..... i don't·like to put an my bio or inf9 ... or likes/dislikes...

Somebody should be able to ask a interesting question

Like do enjoy being a sub!!!!! / Dom


Boom!

[Dr****]

Lack of picture is concerning, trying to type out an interesting bio that accurately describes a person without any misrepresentation is extremely difficult, some major notes should be a good starting point

[Co****]

Most of the bare minimum profiles are scammers who don’t want to put a lot of effort into a profile that will be banned after they scam a few people. It’s a red flag for me for that reason.

[Bl****]

I still comment and might spank i usually atleast see if bdsm quiz is done

[T5****]

Some of us have external influences that we must attend to. For example, I can't let my job or anyone from it find out about my profile. Until I can resolve that conflict, I am restricted. At the same time, I can share other profiles on the internet with anyone through a private message and they will be able to see images and photos.

[da****]

I can’t let my profile say too much about myself, would cause a ton of *** on my part and a lot other people suffer similar issues, try to keep an eye out for people making an effort to hide their identity but still put effort into their account

[fa****]

Yes! Granted right now i only have one image, but I filled out the rest and intend to get my image up.

[Deleted Member]

I like small talk & the ability to start a conversation that way. I see alot of aggressive profiles on here which does show a lack of trust within the "community" because of bad experiences.
I truly don't need to read all of someones trauma in their profile, we've all been there. I get it that most guys fake their dominance just too get laid but same goes for women faking submission over just needing too be taken care of like a child.
My thing is pictures and a quick description of yourself and from there its the path to see if we vibe yet most are too scared too even show themselves due to their "job" which typically aren't even that impressive they aren't willing too put much effort into being open.

[wi****]

I’m on the fence. One pic and nothing in the bio, may get a swipe, but I don’t anticipate a response. They seem suspect.

[Nu****]

I don't mind one picture, there's a lot of reasons someone might not add more, but a tiny/nonexistent bio pretty much kills my ability to be interested in someone, what on earth am I supposed to work off of there?

[Ma****]

I don't know, I would love input on my profile, I have multiple pictures, I don't think it's boring, but I've had very little interaction with people on here. I know one thing is that i'm ugly, but I don't think my personality is.

I would say that I don't judge, off of the profile because some people may not know what to put on there bio, or they are looking for the surprise, ( you know I'm not gonna tell nothing about myself. Until you get to know me because if I say it all in my bio , you have no reason to reach out)