Anal Fisting

July 4

I’m researching the best way (rhythm) to make someone (me) cum. I think it’s fast but not in and out but still trying to figure it out.

Any one experienced with fisting, with making their partners cum that way? What was the tempo? Was it fist out and in or fist in and just short strokes?

July 5

It depends upon a lot of the play ahead of time. And yes there's in and out. But there's also round and round on the inside. Ultimately. You should put your hand on the forearm and experiment a little bit and once you find your rhythm your partner will know what to do

July 5

just fist in turning and pushing pulling finding the right rythm through her moans and her pushing - its a delicate play. pushing in out never got her to orgasm as she needed to concentrate on relaxing too nuch.

July 5

Yes but as someone who takes care of people in the healthcare field does anyone take in the fact that if done regularly it can lead to vaginal and anal prolapse? Google it please

July 5

From what I've experienced, it's more like there's a sweet spot while the fist is still inside, but being pulled out and the sphincter is starting to get pulled. Then it's the pumping motion there, almost letting the fist slip out, but shoving it back in instead. Short strokes.

Of course, everyone is different, this is just the most common I've done.

July 5

I'm talking about long term effects and what we call prolapse.... It's a medical condition we have to deal with later in the life of the person that likes it and does it more than monthly at moy

July 5

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July 5

Sweetie, you gotta work into it maybe start with a plug and then toys, smaller toys and then anal sex and then a bigger toy and lube and just who ever doing it make sure they they respect you don’t hurt you because they can hurt you badly, and the more you turned on obviously, the more you’ll like it and everything will work in your favor so just be careful

July 5

you want to approach it like petting a butterfly and gradually work your way up to whisking some cake batter. Enjoy

July 5

3 hours ago, JamesWest said:

I'm talking about long term effects and what we call prolapse.... It's a medical condition we have to deal with later in the life of the person that likes it and does it more than monthly at moy

That's wrong and basically half knowledge. Prolapse can happen through many factors but definitely not because of Fisting on it's own. Even if done regulary. You generalise in an unhealthy amount.

It starts with the size of the fist.
If you like huge fists and even huger toys training your pelvic floor is recommended - Training the Pelvic floor should be more common in general because as a female simply aging could cause stuff like incontinence, issues with uterus and in theory even prolapse if you have a weak pelvic floor and weak connective tissue.

Weak connective tissue is the most risky thing for prolapse happening.

Sometimes prolapse are not permanent, sometimes surgery is needed. But there are many factors.

Size of Toy/Fist together with Genetics.
As well as the technique of fisting - if done wrong it could be another factor.

As a person from healthcare you should know that. Nice try to kinkshame tho.

July 5

2 hours ago, here4nudes said:

you want to approach it like petting a butterfly and gradually work your way up to whisking some cake batter. Enjoy

Absolutely love this! Say it louder! It’s so true. But I find that a pumping in and out has felt the best to the women, and men I’ve been with. I find that taking my fist out completely or just about can be uncomfortable unless they are fully relaxed and we’ve been at it for while. But don’t be afraid to have them move their hand and feel around. Funny enough is I sing a song in my head and go along with the beat. If they don’t like that I pick a different tempo’d song lol. It’s silly but it keeps me focused. Anyways, of course communicate during and have your partner keep an eye on you and how your body reacts.

Happy fisting ✨✨ 🍑

July 5

My experience is that with most partbers it was fist in and short strokes. But everyone is different. Tell/ask what feels good. In and out is usually quite ***ful and even the biggest masochist have trouble to sustain that level of *** in my experience

July 5

I can’t explain you but I can show you an make you feel that experience i promes you gonna feel the extreme one whit me bebe

July 5

Right lol..... You might want to Google that again maybe watch a YouTube video also lol

July 5

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July 5

Hey ! when it comes to fisting, just like everything else its down to the individual. From my experience for fistees that are newer to it slower paced but longer movement work best and for more experienced ones more of a pace does get you there most of the time !

July 5

I would love to be able to help but adolfisting has not been an issue cuz I can make a girl come each and every time, so no problem in that department but definitely something that is interesting enough that I would want to watch lol

July 5

It’s more about stimulating your prostrate g spot anal wise than size! How to stimulate it is an art over the stretch and size. Lube and health is paramount. In out pace is not the way forward on the auspices of the depth and damage both front and back. The pleasure spots aren’t deep and the pace on playing them while inside doesn’t need deep penetration only movement on the spots concerned!

July 5

Somebody told me you should hold back for as long as possible before you try something larger than before. Each time you will cum a little bit more than before. Maybe with no stroking just going past the point of no return for your sphincter. If its already easy to get a fist in try more teasing first.

July 6

I find it’s about listening to your partners body, slowly increaseing the pressure and ease of if needed, there is nothing more exciting than discovering what makes your partner tick