How to beg better?

[Deleted Member]

I always read or think about it but I feel like my mind always goes blank and I feel a little repetitive? Anybody have any tips, tricks, or advice to avoid this. Or any suggested phrasing?

[te****]

The best thing to do is don’t think, if you have to think are you really begging?Let yourself be dumb and beg for the first thing your brain says, it’ll usually be the thing to want

[Deleted Member]

Repetitive is okay especially if your partner has certain things he wants to here. It’s honestly more of a turn on if it just comes out and is natural. Eye contact helps a lot

[Lord_Talion]

Always good to kneel, chastise yourself, show them what you need in any way possible

[ob****]

Communication with your partner is real important- figure out what they want to hear, because everybody is a little different. Generally, though, I've found that specificity has a lot of power, especially if you're into the shame aspect of begging. Instead of "please fuck me", try "please pin me to the bed and use my tight, wet pussy." Still a pretty generic beg, but it's a start. It takes practice, for sure, especially when you're really turned on and your mind is blank. It might help to have a partner train you- plus it'd be fun.

[Do****]

I know people say lower eyes etc, sign of submission, but eye contact and expression of desire is a big part of it. Not just going through the throws of begging, but for the person to know you really want and desire what you’re begging for. That’s super hot!

[ge****]

Be yourself… maybe do online research… methods, types, etc… keep a list… and refer to it occasionally. Make “the beg” yours… from your profile you are intelligent with solid critical thinking skills…

several above comments embraced “be yourself” theory.

[co****]

Sincerity and enthusiasm are palpable amd make a huge difference.
In the way your voice changes pitch from a plead to a whince, to the subconscious changes in facial expressions, the way your breath quickens, body warms up and pulse races, the way your face flushes and your pupils blow wide, to the way your hands fidget and legs wriggle with restless anticipation.
Set yourself up with fantasy, desire--stoke the flames of ravenous, lustful hunger within--feel the craving, acknowledge it, but don't attend to it. An awareness and passive neglect of the craving will create fertile soil for it's growth. Stoke the flame, feed the hunger, and the begging will become less 'acting by numbers' and more a plea for a release that's gone unanswered. They'll feel like you really want it--sincerely, earnestly, enthusiastically, because you will. If left long enough, all sorts of conditions could be set before release, and teases will become more sensitive and the outcome far more intense for the both of you.

Hope this helps,

C

[mr****]

Make eye contact and then blink while asking. Helps so much!

[san-diego842581]

Look up spicy words and find ones that stick out to you: find adjectives like soaked, gaped, wet, sexy, thick, tight, small, big, etc. then figure out what nouns sound right for you like “pussy, cock, dick, hole, ass, butt, etc.” practice combining them out loud a couple ways and then when you’re in the moment play MadLibs!
“Oh please I want your _____ ________ in my ____ ____” and don’t be afraid to add in neediness! ✌🏻🔥

[Deleted Member]

OMG dirty madlibs is the most helpful advice I've ever received

[BruiseWayne]

22 hours ago, gray1313 said:

I always read or think about it but I feel like my mind always goes blank and I feel a little repetitive? Anybody have any tips, tricks, or advice to avoid this. Or any suggested phrasing?

I mean that happens. As a Dom I sometimes feel like I'm just saying the same shit over and over again too. 

 

When you think about it there's only a certain number of ways you CAN say all these things to begin with so I wouldn't worry too much about it if I were you. 

 

I can tell you that me personally and perhaps a lot of other Dom/mes like it when you sound lusty and needful. Hopeful. Eager. Humbled... and certainly more than a little bit desperate. It's important to make us feel like you're craving this thing so intensely, and we're the only person on this Earth that can give it to you. Wether you've been told to beg or there's something you just can not live without. An itch that needs scratching so badly you're willing to plead with us to soothe it. And if we happen to deny you you'll simply wither and die right there on the spot. Make eye contact, go a lil wide-eyed. Awestruck. Perhaps you're on the verge of tears. Knit your brow a lil. Bite into that bottom lip. Add in a bit of whimpering or a whorish moan. On all fours if your Dom/me allows it maybe even claw at their shin with passionate intent. Place a little kiss on their foot. Liiick the tip of their boot or shoe there to show reverence and respect. Let us know you enjoy your place down there on the floor, lowly as it is. If you're just kneeling maybe brush your cheek against their knee. Start to kiss your way up along the inside of their thigh- cautiously- always looking into their eyes to make sure you haven't overstepped your bounds lest you be reprimanded for being presumptuous. Alternatively you can fold your hands and look down into your lap. Or chance a glance up through your lashes. It's not even the act itself you're burning for. It's them. Their presence. 

 

Also maybe this is just me but I don't really enjoy having what I said completely parroted back to me with either. I do like it when the sub says things on their own to spice it up. Adding on to what I said I wanted to hear, or rephrasing whatever it was I told them to say with some colorful language. 

 

And honestly at the end of the day it's more important to convey those feelings and emotions to us than whatever words happen to come out of your mouth. Just make it be as sensual and erotic or as filthy, nasty, and depraved as the Dom/me wants it to be and I guarantee you we won't mind if you occasionally repeat a phrase or use the same word/s every now n again.

Edited July 28 by BruiseWayne