What Gets Your Swipe?

[vo****]

The more than one image is a definite

[ph****]

I look for what's in their bio, any ads, pictures, and verification. I like those that aren't solely looking for a committed relationship, can have fun, and enjoy snuggles.
I'm not paying for the app so messages are ideal.
I've thought about adding some socials for added accessibility.

[my****]

I want to see thoughts on your profile. Don’t have pictures and a bunch of
Kinky tags. I want to see who you are, what you want, something non-sexual. I’m looking for a long term sub not to be part of someone’s ENM thrupple. So show me who you are.

[vi****]

13 minutes ago, mythicalman said:

I want to see thoughts on your profile. Don’t have pictures and a bunch of
Kinky tags. I want to see who you are, what you want, something non-sexual. I’m looking for a long term sub not to be part of someone’s ENM thrupple. So show me who you are.

I agree with this. Pictures are nice but I want to know you as well. I also don't want a dominatrix.

[ol****]

Yeah. The BOT thing drives me nuts so it’s maybe easier to say what I DON’T want to see

Single photo, no profile, recently joined, didn’t fill out the bdsm test, looking for “LTR” all are classic red flags for a bot. “My friend found her husband here” is a good one. And the profiles that go on and on about how she (he? It?) is honest and want a good man to marry YaddaYaddaYadda.

[Bu****]

A nice smile and fun pictures get me interested, but I need to check the profile for something that we have in common before I reach out. I have enough "people" in my life. I'm here looking for friends.

[Deleted Member]

What draws me is intentionality...when someone sees me, reads my words, feels the depth I’ve laid out, and steps forward with clarity.

I don’t usually make the first move. If I see alignment, I’ll reciprocate your like as a signal...yes, I see you too. But from there, I leave space for you to step through with purpose.

I’ve written my profile to give you an essence of who I am. If something in that aligns, then say so. Show me you’re here for connection, not just the dopamine hit of attention.

Quirks and kinks are easy to list. Vibe is harder to fake. What resonates with me is sincerity, self-awareness, and the courage to say, “I see you...and here’s why."

[Le****]

A nice face and/or body makes me click on a profile, to have a look at it.

[Deleted Member]

When the woman isn't built like Mark Henry when she waddles into my inbox

[em****]

An interesting, intentional, thought out profile. I'm far more likely to skip over lazy bios tbh.

[jj****]

If the bio is thoughtful and funny, even if they aren’t what I’m looking for, I’m inclined to at least send a message telling them that I like their profile and wish them all of the future happiness 😂

[di****]

Its the look in there eyes if yiu can see them then there bio

[Hezzair]

Well-written bios with good grammar that show me you are intelligent, tell me what you are into (besides sex), good photos that show you off well meaning good lighting/well framed/not fuzzy. The other thing that hooks me is humor and personality as well as the completeness. Take the time to fill out the BDSM test even though the one on here is kind of lame. It is at least a start.

[Ap****]

A dope smile and original bio that's honest and not cliche

[fu****]

Perverts get my like all day

[ca****]

Eyes and smile and decent profile

[Go****]

Umm it being a real profile lol

[ro****]

Melanin, geeky, cosplay... These things catch my eye and my mind's eye

[Zo****]

This is what I look for and maybe more importantly in which order:
-Face Card
-Test scores (Assess whether the person matches our desires)
-If both of these pass I look for a well thought out profile. (I'm still new and working on mine, though am trying to assure the same.)
-Vibes

[lo****]

An honest bio that has all the proper grammar.

[42****]

A pretty smile and a bubble butt lmfao

[Sl****]

For me it's if their a dom

[Ta****]

I am and have always been a a fan a flushed out bios. Screw trynna be cool and mysterious and so just the right amount of quirky fun intriguing words. Give me an actual mini bio, with high and lows, good and bad, and some real insight into you. Minimal always come across to me as someone who isn't that invested or committed. And maybe that's true! Which is what's it is.

[Jus_a_subby_gamer]

If they're 18-24 (preferably 18-21), are dom and/or switch, and if there's a chance they're Cristian

[Lo****]

Big breasts ALWAYS get my attention