Deleted Member Posted August 27, 2020 If you're bi, when did you first realize it? (Background: I've been a transwoman since my 20s but was raised by my parents as an ordinary but nerdy boy.) I knew I was different in later grade school, maybe fifth grade when I developed my first crush on a boy classmate after having my first crush on a girl in maybe third grade. I knew it was different that I wanted a particular boy in the sixth grade to kiss me (but didn't pursue it). Puberty kinda confirmed it. I spent maybe as much time looking at Sears male underwear models as I did female. I went to an all male Catholic high school and eventually fell in love with the boy who on the first day of school became my high school best friend. I also got the hots for him. I wanted many times to tell him how I felt, but never did. I dated a few girls in high school, including one who dumped me for my best friend. That crushed me, losing a girl I loved to a boy I loved. That leads to another question: Were the first signs of your bisexuality that you were aware of sexual feelings or romantic feelings? I suppose that begs for the question of whether your sexual and romantic feelings for both sexes are symmetric. Mine were, but your mileage may differ.
Mickey10 Posted August 27, 2020 I realised I was bi when I went to a swinger's party got together with a couple and did things I never thought I would
Wo**** Posted August 27, 2020 I kissed a girl and liked it 😊 Its not something I've really explored.... yet 😋
li**** Posted August 27, 2020 I realized I was Bi/pan when I was a *** going through secondary school not realising what those feelings were it was a tough time. I was in an abusive relationship for years, when I finally broke free I suffered with bad depression. It was only then when chatting to my Counsellor that she then brought all these feelings forward that I'd kept hidden for years!!!! She was able to get to the core of me and I knew then this is me this is who I am I am Bi/pansexual!!!! I've had a few relationships with women that have lasted longer than any relationship I've had with a man. Only male relationships that has really stood test of time is the man I'm with now my Sir 🙂🥰 and that's not saying that I'd rather be with a woman than a man, it's just maybe I was choosing the wrong kind of man. But me now I'm attracted to the person more and not the actual sex of that person!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜♥️
Deleted Member Posted August 27, 2020 Author I realised i was bi/pan at the age of 13, came out at 14...dated a few girls in secondary school (high school) but only for a few weeks. Then i was in a LTR for 8 years with a guy, towards end of that relationship we went into a open relationship and i slept with a women for the first time and it was amazing. Then me and my ex split up and i had a 3sum with my best mate and her bf. We did speak about having a 3 way relationship but decided it was best not too. We just decided to keep having fun every so often. That was fun whilst is lasted I fall for someone's personality rather than their gender... And if someone is hot (to me) they are hot.. Again doesn't matter what gender they are
Shenna Posted August 27, 2020 (edited) I didn't know what Bi was when I was little I was confused why I felt attracted to both sex. At the same time I was also attracted to rope play ( couldn't figure that one out till later in life) As well as kink stuff. It was only when I hit secondary school that I had heard the term Bi I knew of lesbian and Gay but coming from a small town with very little knowledge and backwards towards the LGBTQ+ it was confusing for when I was younger. By that time I learned to experiment with girls and boys in the arts of kissing and it felt natural both ways. But I've had more relationships with men than women. Gay community is very small where i am. My choices were limited. I tried confessing to my own mother by asking her what if i told you i was gay (testing the waters), but she was threatening and said she would disown me if it was true and would never be part of the family and would throw me out of the house with no where to go. But as I grew older I kind of wish i had shared relationship with both men and women. Wish i had family and friends that were supportive but i had to keep my secret for years. But now I'm older and much wiser I have brilliant friends here and few at home. Still a backwards town. But trying to become stronger about my sexuality than I have done in years. Edited August 27, 2020 by Shenna
Deleted Member Posted August 28, 2020 Author I tried a little to find gay people when I was in university. I knew there were such things as drag bars, and that's where I thought I might find a gay male identity, as a drag queen. But I knew already that I wanted to be pursued and attractive as a woman, not a man, so I had a lot of dissonance. It's probably good I was to shy to go to gay bars at that age, because I suspect I would have been reckless enough to have become a statistic in the then-new AIDS crisis. I'm still curious and unrequited in learning if others who consider themselves bi/pan have or have had romantic feelings for both sexes.
da**** Posted August 8, 2024 When I was a *** had fun exploring with a friend and enjoyed it so much that all I could think about was if and when we would play again. Don't get me wrong I love my opposite gender too but it was fun playing with the same as me.
Ne**** Posted August 30, 2024 I was in jail in the shower room when two black men walk over were I was showering at I can see their huge cocks swinging almost to their knees one of them told me your going suck our cocks and we going fuck that ass one behind me spreading my ass cheeks apart eating my asshole and it felt so good making my cock get hard and the other ones pulled me down to that delicious BBC I grabbed it and realized I love it
Rachael69 Posted November 7, 2024 When my ex wanted to invite this guy over cause she wanted to watch him fuck me and we did it and I got addicted hehe
sa**** Posted January 14 I'd say when I found my mother's sex toys as a ***. I never thought twice about putting the dildo I found in my ass and seeing how deep it went.
BunnyDot Posted April 19 When I saw pictures of an athletic guy in thong and swimming brief, I immediately crushed on him and felt I want him between my legs and vica-versa. His bottom and abs was the trigger point for me, when I realized what I saw, my cock was so hard and felt this tingling in it, not much later you can guess what happened Ever since I know, I like guys too and want to make love with them, this feels so good.
ga**** Posted June 5 The first time I had a guys dick in my mouth!! I was seeing a Mistress who taught me loads, we’d done lots of strap on stuff and she suggested I try it. I was initially dead against it, then got a bit curious until she persuaded me to try it, and she arranged for one of her regular male subs to join us. I was told to suck him under her supervision, I was still really unsure until his cock went into my mouth and it felt AMAZING!! And as for when he came…oh wow! And I’ve never looked back since, hehe!
PanicAttack Posted June 5 It was really REALLY late for me, and it was just a gradual thing. I can’t pinpoint a moment, it was just something that emerged
Daddy-9975 Posted June 30 I was 38 believe it or not. And the only reason I even touched a male was because my wife tried a female for the first time in her 38th year
Daddy-9975 Posted June 30 My gurl took me to the book store and put me on my knees in a booth beside her and we worked the glory hole for a good 2 hours. With I'n the first 5 mins knew that I was naturally gifted in the cock sucking game . In 2 hour I made 4 men nut. Here is the funny part I don't want any cum in my mouth. One guy says it's like running a race and getting 20 ft from the finish line and just quiting
Boredeagle Posted August 3 Always been into trans people but when i Went to pipeworks around 19 to get a bj , I believed I was straight but not getting much sexually .the guy who sucked me asked me to suck him I pictured one of the porn star trans I regularly watched when i started. average cock but it was the throbbing of the cock before it finished in my mouth that I Enjoyed went again few times
Boredeagle Posted August 3 2nd time fucked first guys ass 3rd time I let someone fuck me as I pictured a trans as their nails clawed into me
Bi**** Posted August 19 I was 6 the first time i watched porn. I was in Kentucky with a couple of my uncles, my dad, my grampa, some cousins and my brother. All the women were asleep. Papaw had a satellite dish and a descrambler box so he got every broadcast and channel you could imagine, but there was also a VCR and someone had VHS cassettes. I had no idea for what i was in store, as I just knew we were watching movies. Uncle Monty said he was putting on something i was going to like called the "Playboy Channel", causing some of my role models to hoot and holler in approval, which i emulated. I felt so connected to my extended family at that time. "A boys' channel!?!" I squeaked at my uncle. My 13 year old brother Jason's cheeks puffed out and loudly pushed air between his thin lips before falling into my cousin Darrin's shoulder, cackling. "Just for boys. Big boys, though. You're staying up and being one of the big boys tonight, aint'cha?" he asked, needlessly. Id already seen plenty of topless women hanging out at my aunts salon with my mom (first tanning bed in our town) and never understood why they were always so shy and quick to cover up around certain people but not others. Well, the women on the TV that night weren't shy at all and had a confidence about them I could recognize even then. They used their bodies to gain control, in a way. They had control of me because i couldnt look away if my life depended on it, but then I saw my first adult male erection which changed everything... ...I was transfixed. Spellbound. It looked nothing like mine, so out of proportion. My 6 year old boner was smooth, skinny in my hand. Sterile. The dick on TV was powerful. Strong, all close up and pixilated on that glorious old CRT television. Athletic. Vascular, with texture and serpentine curves that cast shadows on the thick, rigid shaft. Suddenly, those same confident women who had control of all of the men in the room became just as fascinated with that man's erection as I was. They would put one in their mouths and moan with their eyes closed the way someone does savoring their favorite dessert. They would beg to be stabbed in the crotch with them repeatedly and almost sing when they finally got it. They screamed in pleasure and asked for more when these dicks were inside of them. Id never seen anything like it, and it was then that I knew I was a big boy who was unquestionably sexually attracted to being fucked by men.
en**** Posted September 17 Lol I literally never even thought I was straight. I didn't actually start experiencing attraction until my 20s or so, and by that point I had long ago stopped believing that gender actually means anything, so it just came naturally to assume I could be into people of any gender.
bi**** Posted September 18 I have been curious since I was about 14 years old but even now at 44 years old I have always been to shy and nervous to do anything about my current curiosity. I do tend to more think and fantasy more of the bottom role.
en**** Posted September 18 2 hours ago, bidolphin127 said: I have been curious since I was about 14 years old but even now at 44 years old I have always been to shy and nervous to do anything about my current curiosity. I do tend to more think and fantasy more of the bottom role. Wishing you luck with gaining the confidence to make your fantasy into reality!
Deleted Member Posted September 18 Author I knew I liked the attention I got from boys at 9 years old , which was my first experience.
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