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What's LEAST likely to work for you and why?

Camp #1:
Cheesy but original pickup lines

Camp #2:
A well thought out statement

Camp #3:
A flattering statement

Camp#4:
A risque statement
4 i want to know that im seen as a person and not just a pussy
4… and maybe 3. It’s hard to compliment me, I know I’m amazing 😏
Believe it or not. What would you do for a Klondike bar? Worked alot for me
#4 is very likely to fall flat if I don’t know the person saying it
Camp 1. I think mostly because they would hear my inner eye roll as I tried to use the lines.

The least likely to work on me? The 4th camp. It rarely is ever done right and usually makes everyone cringe.
4 is usually the least likely to work for me since I'm not looking for hookups or nsa and that's usually what someone who starts with that is looking for at least in my experience
1. I shouldn’t want to laugh at you if I’m looking at you as a dom. Laughing with you is a different story.
You could use any… depends totally on the vibe I get when around the person.
#4 let's chat a bit before going there.
PresentisPeculiar
4, . I don't know why. It makes no sense. I'm sure women don't get flooded with risque openers. We know they don't work. Next thing. You'll tell me men send unsolicited dick pics

In seruousness, I usually just put it out there in the first couple of lions and say " I know that your inbox must be flooded by a ton of different men, (maybe a statement of flattery there if it' appropriate), however I can only imagine how many of those messages are really rude or dehumanizing..." And then I attempt to offer them an alternative by way of just being respectful. Introduce myself my reasons there and I'd leave an open line of hay even if you're not interested at all or overwhelmed by all you're getting here If you ever have a question let me know and if you have any questions about me just go to my bio. And I filled out my bio to be all inclusive , informative, And show my personality. I warn everyone that that one really awesome picture of me is legit ,but everything happened to work perfect at that moment and I have other more modest offerings available because what's the point of fooling somebody if the goal is to meet them? And then any subsequent follow-ups I let them know that I'm like mini there for reasons that can be risque however while happy to talk about it,I wont initiate it... Just give the green light for them to do so whenever. And none of that's meant to necessarily result in success as in it's not so cynically planned just for that. It's just honest. Not that it is rheuu7 poor j central question but if I advice for people striking out on here it's build your bio, build your bio, make yourself stand out. It's free to do and easy ...you're talking about you
PresentisPeculiar
10 hours ago, jStagg331 said:
Who the fuck thinks about it this much?

Ummm. Not me. Yeah. I would never think about thism.. or have any thoughts. Cuz that'd be lame

Risqué openers and spicy photos are the baseline of online dating and correspondence for women in general.
Online presence dulls the manners and common sense, in my opinion.
I have checked a few in chat and asked if this person would say this to me in a public space having just met me? NO?
THEN ZIP IT.

WINNERS?
"I love your bio!"
"Good morning,"
"Hello!"

I put enough into my own bio that if you can read and take the time, all the instructions are there. Even how to chat with me.

Less impulse, more thought is my vote. More education on sex, kink and casual sex, and etiquette.
PresentisPeculiar
1 hour ago, RachelRed said:
Risqué openers and spicy photos are the baseline of online dating and correspondence for women in general.
Online presence dulls the manners and common sense, in my opinion.
I have checked a few in chat and asked if this person would say this to me in a public space having just met me? NO?
THEN ZIP IT.

WINNERS?
"I love your bio!"
"Good morning,"
"Hello!"

I put enough into my own bio that if you can read and take the time, all the instructions are there. Even how to chat with me.

Less impulse, more thought is my vote. More education on sex, kink and casual sex, and etiquette.

So much yes. And I get drive by putdowns the TLDR type stuff. I work for a company I say perfected work hard not smart. It's just that attitude you write a big long email and you get hammered by everybody about I don't have time for that. The great coach John Wooden once said"If you didn't have time to do it right how would you ever have time to do it over?". Instead of going back and forth and having miscommunications here's all my information boom and it's just sitting there as a resource. I resemble what you say

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