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Male subs, when looking for a domme, do you specifically look for someone who is older than you?
And dommes, do you prefer men younger than you?
Do you have an age limit?
I'm asking because the vast majority of men who contact me are younger and I'd like to know if this is a general trend or only my experience.
Personally I don't mind younger or older as long as the age gap isn't too large. Probably no more than 7 years, but this depends on the individual.
Smallarabcock
For me I don't care if younger or older, just as long as who ever I chat with/play with isn't a pr*ck
I personally have no preference on age. I love the idea of learning and growing together but just as much love the idea of submitting to an expert. Both have advantages and disadvantages mitigated by good communication.
I won’t look for someone very young for example
I'm not submissive first of all so there's no confusion. I'm not sure what submissive men look for but I as a Dom prefer younger women for subs.
Older or younger. I’m not picky, older is great for experience. But growing and exploring with someone who is a dom but younger is a lot of fun too!
From my experience on this site as someone interested in being a sub man, the dominant women on the whole tend to be older
roamingtiger
I do not look at the age, must be adult of course. But my experience is ladies older seem to cherish their Dom side.
Its not a deal breaker, but for me the ideal mistress & the sexy confidence of experience that a mature lover wears like a garment go hand-in-hand
Where does one obtain the red ro-ze? Not super slick with IT matters
Realistically my best sexual partners have all been younger than me (no more than 3-4 years) so I tend to gravitate that way naturally. The handful that were older were just disappointing in many ways.
I prefer, but don‘t confine my choices to, slightly older women.
This way, you know they have some experience.
Also, younger is very difficult at my age lol
Tbh age dosent really matter to me, aslong as the woman can Dom correctly and how I like it, age dosent matter (aslong as its the legal age obviously!)
32 minutes ago, pdxsub1 said:
From my experience on this site as someone interested in being a sub man, the dominant women on the whole tend to be older

That's a good point, thanks!

It makes general sense for the dominant party to be older.

Somebody older is likely to have a more commanding presence, while somebody younger is less likely to feel they need to be in charge.
I don't have a specific age limit. But, I tend to see "half +7" (half of the older party's age, +7) as more than reasonable.

Too much of a gap would make communication with basic reference points difficult.
Older domme just gives different vibe I guess
I love older mommies, however I don’t really mind age as long as they’re legal and good at what they do 🤪🤭🤭
Not necessarily, it's more about the persona
Not sure when a woman might typically discover she’s a domme, but I don’t feel like I’ve known alot of young women who are. Definitely was not a popular thing in college where I went, but an overwhelming amount of horny guys that want it 🤣
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