Rh**** Posted November 8, 2025 Some profiles I can spank while others require me to pay for a gift? What about the account determines whether its a gift or not?
Deleted Member Posted November 8, 2025 I didn’t know you had to pay to send a gift. I’ve had notifications that people have sent me “kinky gifts” and such but I just thought they were stickers or something?
Rh**** Posted November 8, 2025 Author 2 minutes ago, DYSY25 said: I didn’t know you had to pay to send a gift. I’ve had notifications that people have sent me “kinky gifts” and such but I just thought they were stickers or something? Hi, Thanks for your post. Sometimes they have free gifts to send but most cost points which are either earned by liking photos, etc OR paying for bulk points. Even with a paid subscription you sometimes need to spend points when spanking someone. In the browse section some profiles let you send a spank while others require you to send a "paid" gift. So it's either pay or "x" the profile. That is where my question came from. Why do some profiles require a paid spank while others do not?
ey**** Posted November 8, 2025 it's a feature which should be done away with basically if you fall outside of their filters, you require a 'gift' (which you pay for, with points or cash) and if you send that it bypasses their filter. Of course, I'm not sure how well received it'd be - given that you already fall out of their filters
Rh**** Posted November 8, 2025 Author 3 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said: it's a feature which should be done away with basically if you fall outside of their filters, you require a 'gift' (which you pay for, with points or cash) and if you send that it bypasses their filter. Of course, I'm not sure how well received it'd be - given that you already fall out of their filters Okay got it. Thanks for the explanation. So basically it is telling you the person you are thinking about sending it too is not looking for someone like you. Well, I'm glad that I chose the "X" on out of those people and moved on without burning points or cash.
Rh**** Posted November 10, 2025 Author So now the thing is, they like a photo of mine and give me a spank. I try to spank them back but I have to pay because "I'm not in their filters" except apparently I am because I got a like and a spank from them. The system should allow the return spank if they initiated. This site ....
ey**** Posted November 10, 2025 4 hours ago, Rhuie said: The system should allow the return spank if they initiated. yep, or perhaps if someone spanks you, that can permit you to message them.
su**** Posted Saturday at 08:16 PM Where does one set the "requirements' for what determines who needs to send a gift? It must be more than the roles you pick and what you’re looking for…. Because I’m a submissive man and have said I’m looking for a dominant woman for everything from kinky dates to LTR, and yet I’ve clicked the “spank” button on a profile that seems to match, and I get back that I have to send a gift. Which is fine - that’s their right. But now I’m wondering if anyone is trying to “spank” me and gets turned away because of something I’ve not set properly.
ey**** Posted Saturday at 11:25 PM 3 hours ago, subonthebeach said: Where does one set the "requirements' for what determines who needs to send a gift? It must be more than the roles you pick and what you’re looking for…. Because I’m a submissive man and have said I’m looking for a dominant woman for everything from kinky dates to LTR, and yet I’ve clicked the “spank” button on a profile that seems to match, and I get back that I have to send a gift. Which is fine - that’s their right. But now I’m wondering if anyone is trying to “spank” me and gets turned away because of something I’ve not set properly. filter is here https://www.fetish.com/settings/notification/filter They can spank regardless.
su**** Posted yesterday at 12:08 AM Oh, thanks... and I see this is the switch I specifically was looking for! https://www.fetish.com/settings/poke
Kf**** Posted yesterday at 04:18 AM I actually feel so bad if a man spends his points on sending me gift. A lot of times I don’t get a notification that I’ve been sent one and to be honest it does not affect if I’ll send that person a message or not. I wish there was a way to turn off receiving them. I’d rather guys save their point to get an upgraded account.
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