Not shaved

[Charms]

Not sure if this belongs here.

 

Men shaving doesn't seem to be the thing any more and more often then not there in joggers.

 

I love the fashion that they call old m@ney. 

I used to think I had a fetish  for men in suites or trousers an wasit coat and a white shirt an tie. Or maybe Im just old fashioned. 

 

Theres nothing wrong in wearing joggers although I dont wear them im often in a pair of dungarees . But when I go out even for a trip to the pub ill make sure I look good but sadly half the men in there are in joggers.

 

Also I love a good smelling person. I love dior savage. I melt at a good smelling human.

 

Sorry  if  come across as moaning

 

Does anyone else feel that way and where is the line?

[Su****]

Maybe it’s an age thing? But I shave every day, don’t own any joggers and am always dressed “smart casual”.
It seems to me that what you’re saying could be down to laziness, rather than fashion.

[sn****]

No line you set the bar high so you will attract the top self people

[pl****]

I do try to dress up and look good and smell good when I go out to the pub but when it comes to shaving, yes I do shave

[Bi****]

i shave

[CuriousChris93]

Well it is Grey Joggers season, majority of women love to see our package 😂😂 I was wearing some yesterday and the amount of looks I was getting, I do always make sure I smell nice though, I may not spray Dior Sauvage all the time but I always make myself smell good. If me and the family are going for a meal then dress for the occasion, but if it's just a drink with the lads then don't necessarily need to wear anything fancy.

[ba****]

I can definitely agree with u on the smelling good part. That particular fragrance is absolutely intoxicating if u ask me, but as for fashion I'd say id prefer a man who's well dressed ( not necessarily fancy clothing) just color matching and they look somewhat trendy and of course they must smell Good too!

[Gulcherboy1960]

I think the line is wherever an individual draws it. And all I can say to you is: Congratulations! At least you have standards! Rock on with your bad self!

[Na****]

I completely understand what you’re saying. I also appreciate people who take pride in how they present themselves. Most public houses these days are more for a quick drink and a bit of unwinding rather than a place to impress — and that’s fair enough. (Landlord’s daughter here, so I know the vibe well! Haha.)

That said, it’s not just men who’ve stopped making the effort. Many women these days seem to have the same attitude — expecting that simply existing is enough. Looking back to the days you mentioned, women used to take real pride in their appearance. They dressed well, looked feminine, and often kept themselves in great shape. Personally, I still enjoy wearing dresses, skirts, and heels — I like feeling feminine when I go out, and I appreciate when others do the same.

But I get your point: but why should men make the effort to dress well if so many women openly say, “We don’t have to dress up for men”, and take offence at the idea?

I’m rambling a bit (multitasking here, so excuse the grammar!), but my point is this — if women keep dressing well and taking pride in their appearance, the men will naturally start doing the same. Effort inspires effort.

[Sp****]

Men should have hair as should women. Just keep the lips clean so us boys can get good suction

[pr****]

I love smelling good and I manscape, however suits are too hot and expensive lol

[Bl****]

Joggers I wear at home and maybe to run an errand. Otherwise they are not elegant at all and definitely wouldn’t wear for a date.

[fl****]

To each their own. Personally, I still shave regularly, love an excuse to suit up, and always try to dress well. That included my small collection of wrist watches and cabbie/scally hats to complete the looks. Smelling good is also paramount. It’s a shame we’re far apart, as I would probably be a good fit lol

[Tr****]

Just to do a quick trip to the grocery I’m usually in khakis . Not so much for style but for comfort

[Co****]

Im a femboy i get lazer treatment done monthly and i shave every day :3

[In****]

Im old fashioned love a man in a suit!
I love the more manly/rugged look.

[Sa****]

I l9veo be clean, ALWAYS, I am self conscious about being hygienic. I have worked with people who think that because you work in places where you may sweat, you dont need to shower or wash the clothes you wear. Do people not know that we are in 2025 and there are 1 million ways to wash yourselves? There are even homeless people who wash more often than people who have a home.

[En****]

I shave or trim

[Charms]

9 hours ago, CuriousChris93 said:

Well it is Grey Joggers season, majority of women love to see our package 😂😂 I was wearing some yesterday and the amount of looks I was getting, I do always make sure I smell nice though, I may not spray Dior Sauvage all the time but I always make myself smell good. If me and the family are going for a meal then dress for the occasion, but if it's just a drink with the lads then don't necessarily need to wear anything fancy.

Women like to look just like men do. But a well dressed nice smelling man will turn heads as much as the gray joggers.

 

I will go to the pub in a pair of cargo pants and t shirt or dungarees if im going out with my freinds. But family or a date then I dress smartly. On occasions iv even worn a dress 

[Charms]

9 hours ago, Narissa93 said:

I completely understand what you’re saying. I also appreciate people who take pride in how they present themselves. Most public houses these days are more for a quick drink and a bit of unwinding rather than a place to impress — and that’s fair enough. (Landlord’s daughter here, so I know the vibe well! Haha.)

That said, it’s not just men who’ve stopped making the effort. Many women these days seem to have the same attitude — expecting that simply existing is enough. Looking back to the days you mentioned, women used to take real pride in their appearance. They dressed well, looked feminine, and often kept themselves in great shape. Personally, I still enjoy wearing dresses, skirts, and heels — I like feeling feminine when I go out, and I appreciate when others do the same.

But I get your point: but why should men make the effort to dress well if so many women openly say, “We don’t have to dress up for men”, and take offence at the idea?

I’m rambling a bit (multitasking here, so excuse the grammar!), but my point is this — if women keep dressing well and taking pride in their appearance, the men will naturally start doing the same. Effort inspires effort.

I totally agree. If im on a date or out with family I always make an effort. I always smell nice. I will even somtimes wear a dress if not a blouse an trousers.

 

If im out with my freinds to the local pub its cargo  bottoms and a t shirt or dungarees . Always wear dior either mens or women's.

 

Although I do steal masters dior savage that I buy him 

But if im going out properly with freinds ill dress for the ocasion.

 

I totally agree not all women make an effort any more.

I rember going out when I was 18 and the women were stunningly dressed. 

Im old now though

[Deleted Member]

I don't think that a pair of joggers is much different from cargos or dungarees to be honest. It's all casual. People should dress to feel comfortable and happy.

[Ra****]

I’m completely shaved and always have on cologne. I’m always smelling other people’s odor, so I’m always aware of it. My go to colognes are Armani Black, Aqua Di Gio, and Creed Aventus.

[Charms]

7 hours ago, fififufu said:

I don't think that a pair of joggers is much different from cargos or dungarees to be honest. It's all casual. People should dress to feel comfortable and happy.

Cargo pants you can put a nice shirt with an i wear designer dungarees and yes you can get designer 1s. There not just a pair I buy from primark or i wear my alternative  pairs. They cost alot. So not a cheap outfit

[Si****]

I agree, society has let go of the standards.

I refuse to go out in public in my pajamas!

I prefer to have the self respect to be dressed in regular clothes

[Deleted Member]

2 hours ago, Charms said:

Cargo pants you can put a nice shirt with an i wear designer dungarees and yes you can get designer 1s. There not just a pair I buy from primark or i wear my alternative  pairs. They cost alot. So not a cheap outfit

Ok. I don't see why the cost matters, you can buy designer joggers too. Dungarees and combats are equally casual in my opinion and also equally fine to wear! It's all good.